Well, I thought I would give all of you VGF members here a little look into my love life, but only because I need some advice from my fellow pals.
On Valentines Day 2004, our school had a Winter Formal dance and I met this girl there that came with someone else (they went as friends) and we started talking and dancing and eventually in about a week we started dating. (Yeah, we kinda rushed it) Anyway we dated for about 6 months and then broke up in August.
But now here comes the twist, around Christmas time, we started talking again and on New Years Eve we hooked back up. Our Winter Formal dance was February 12th and I planned on taking my, at the time, girlfriend. Well, I found out a week before the dance she was cheating on me so I broke up with her. A day later, I talked to a good friend of mine and I decided to ask her to go as friends and so we did, and we had an awesome time. We went to a nice restaurant and had dinner with my best friend and his girlfriend and had a FUN time. The dance was amazingly awesomely fun and one of the greatest nights of my life. Goes to show you how you have more fun with your good friends at a dance than a girlfriend. (Well at least I think so anyway)
But... this story has nothing to do with my ex girlfriend. It has to do with Bri, my good friend I took to the dance. Now, we've been friends forever and i've never "like liked" her. Last night, I asked her to go prom with me and she said yes so that's obviously exciting too. However, I have a feeling that I may like her. I look at it like this... I'm happy either way with her. If we remain good friends, then that's cool and i'd still be happy. If we went out, i'd be happy too. But if we broke up and lost our friendship i'd be really disappointed. She's a really cool girl. I just don't know if I should risk it, or rush it. My thought is to wait awhile and see how things go. Because.. she moves on pretty fast with guys. She's not a "slut" or anything but she just moves on fast. And supposedly she's cheated on a guy before, but that's not 100% true, more of a rumor. The same person informed me that a bunch of sophomore girls including her (shes a sophomore by the way) would be trying to do ANYTHING to go to prom. I talked to a good friend of mine and shes a good friend of hers too and we know she's not like that, because Saturday night i was thinking of asking her to prom anyway.
So what do you guys think I should do... go after her and see what happens? Wait awhile and not rush it? Wait till prom to ask her out? Be her good friend? Idk... tell me what you guys think.
Update...
I've discovered some girls in her class, well, girls in general are not fond of her. Supposedly Bri talks a lot behind peoples backs and girls hate her for it. Some girls have been coming up to me and saying you're such a good guy why are you taking her to Prom? she's going to ditch you for other guys and blah blah blah.. and so i ended up talking to Bri about it, I mean you never know she could lie and say oh it'll be okay don't worry I won't do that, and end up doing it. I know Bri more than some girls think they do and Bri wouldn't do that. She didn't do it at Winter Formal so why would she do it at Prom? I think girls need to stop talking trash and stay out of our business personally. But i'm still going to take it slow and see where we're at in a month or 2 before I make a move. What do you guys think?
[ February 17, 2005, 04:05 PM: Message edited by: Sir Mr. Mario 87' ] |