| Sean, the anticipation and the suspense that you're putting yourself through is much, much worse than any possible outcome to you just telling her how you feel. That's the truth. Like I said, I was in the same situation. You're putting too much thought into this, and I bet it's just making you feel terrible. But I'm telling you, if you simply tell her how you feel, everything will be much better. Even if it doesn't work out. You can still be friends. And simply by knowing that it's not going to work out, it's a lot better than this current state of not knowing that you're in.
Sean, you're going to feel a lot worse if you don't say something and regret it for the rest of your life than if you tell her how you feel and you get shot down. Trust me. Things always get better after you get shot down. But regret stays with you for the rest of your life.
Like I said, trust me. I feel a lot better now that I have told the girl and got shot down, than I did before I told her.
Just wanted to add my 2 cents. Good luck, Sean. Don't worry so much about it, though.-jay |