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Old 10-29-2006, 01:35 PM   #28
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Alright, my two cents, Seanathan: If telling her does "destroy the friendship" for her, that is a very good sign not only that it wasn't meant to be, but also that the friendship wasn't really meant to be either; true friendship can survive a jolt like that. (And if it only destroys it for you because of shame, you need to just ignore the shame.)

I speak from experience, man. I told Lucky a long time ago how I felt about her, and she shot me down, but we're still close friends. What's more, she still knows that I still love her, but that never becomes an issue between us. In fact, I know EXACTLY what the answer would be if I brought it up again, because I've met her current boyfriend, but still it's not an issue between us....he's totally clueless, but he has no need to know.

And remember, "I'm-a Luigi, number one!"
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