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| Originally Posted by Sean P Kelly ^ Who says I was avoiding her? |
Hmmm I would hazard a guess you felt defensive and only read what you wanted of my post... otherwise you would have clearly understood I said it was "MY opinion and MY observation".
But to clarify; in your other thread, you had an opportunity to meet this girl, but you texted her saying you couldn't come because your class had been cancelled. You know, you could have gone regardless... but in my opinion, you used any excuse you could to avoid her.
And, on another occasion, you stated clearly that you didn't wish to call her in case she can't talk. Well, I hate to explain this, but you call anyway and if it's an inconvenient time, she'll tell you and you'll ask when it's better to call and then watch the clock until that time, instead of finding another excuse to avoid her.
I don't wish to make you feel bad. I'm offering you my help. Sometimes it takes others to point out things we don't want to see in ourselves... can you recognise that your past behaviour is not conducive to being a friend? I KNOW YOU ARE SHY. I empathise with that. (You don't know me in real life. Here at VGF, this is like being at home and I am sincerely comfortable here).
I'm sorry if you feel that we're not being sympathetic to you and not taking into consideration your qualities.
Anyway... Please answer this... did you enrol in the course that will help you deal with aspects of your shyness? If so, how's it going? If not, WHY?
Sean, I wish we could help you further... but, as you very well know (if you look inside yourself, you'll see the truth of this), this is now
your decision. You have various options before you, as Jay was kind enough to write up.
I know this is all very difficult. I'm not speaking from inexperience. But you have to make a decision... and remaining undecisive is
also in effect, making a decision, whether you want to agree with that or not. Whatever you choose, we'll be here no matter. You have friends online.. and by the number of replies, quite some!!
Good luck with your decision...
