Best solution is to stop asking so many questions and just give one of your own ideas a shot. She doesn't want to be charmed by an internet message board, I'll tell you that much. If she's interested, she's interested. Don't send the message that you don't want to be close - it's not the truth, and that's not what you really want, anyway. Just try to be friendly and ask her about herself. What other advice can anyone give you? This isn't going to be one of those cartoon episodes where we hide in the potted plant with a walkie-talkie and smooth-talk your date
