| If a Christian really believes people go to hell for having homosexual sex, she'd be negligent not to at least gently let them know how she feels. Of course, you're right that harping on the "sin" would be useless. Telling people not to do something "sinful" awakens their rebellious sides, making them want to "sin" all the more. But refusing to even mention it. Sitting there thinking powerful thoughts about a friend, refusing to bring those thoughts out in the open. That's unnatural. That's dishonest. That's an unhealthy friendship. |