| I'd love to give you some specific advice, but I've always had an interested girl or a few around me ever since I turned 16.
It's not any easier for lack of having to try, though, relationships are something you have to dedicate yourself to. I think chivalry works very well, everyone likes being catered to and it shows women that you like being courteous and considerate - particularily to them.
Confidence is probably the most important part, but that's all part of your image. I don't consider myself extra confident or anything, but I don't consider anyone as any more than my equal. A great way to build confidence is to tweak your personal image. Some might consider it vanity, but I'd call it expression.
People are people in the end, though, and the hard part is seeking out the right way to find people with compatible interests. Things like school are great for this in some ways, simply because almost everyone is required to attend. If you're into something, though, try and find a club for it. Try out new activities, particularily those that will involve you in a group. It should give you something to talk about with whomever you meet. |