My life has been blown up in my face, can a new one begin?

Justin Minas · 08-01-2003, 05:18 PM

Okay, what's happening is my life is going down the ****hole. My parents are too unconcerned with my life. Basically, as Will Smith cleverly puts it "Parents just don't understand". And my house is very unsanatary, with chuiaha crap everywhere, a bunch of bugs, very messy. Kitchen is absolutely awful. and everytime I clean up my room, go somewhere to stay the night, I come back and it is worse than ever from my brother. I am so ****ing tired of it! RRRRRrrrroooooaaaaarrrr! And today, I was just playing guitar, and my ***** brother comes up and unplugs it. I plug it back in and say, "Go play your bass somewhere else", he keeps doing it, so I get real fed up and push him with my foot. Weak as he is, he begins to cry, claiming I knocked this wind out of him. he get's pissed, throws a lotion bottle at my nose, and nearly breaks (It's just really swollen). I go ****cking crazy and chases after him, my mom breaks it up, and I just run the house because I can't do nothing to him. I think for minute, very teary, very pissed. my dad comes out, talks to me and whatever, doesn't really help. Then I go back inside, talk to my mom, she's all "If you hit him back, I will call the police". I said "Fine do it, as long as I beat the **** out of him". "I don't like your attitude" I was like fine.

The only way to solve this is either he goes or I go. He was like "You need Anger Management". I went into super crazy mode. i begin making loud heyna yells, mom tells me to knock it off, then when right when I was about to just run out the door, she coaxes me. I start yelling why i don't need anger management. "Only people who get mad at having Mountain Due spilled and start breaking everything. The ***** almost broke my nose!" Then I rambled on how I will beat my brother up until he pisses blood has a broken jaw, and ontop of all of that, until he thinks twice about throwing **** at me. I regret not beating the **** out of him in front of my parents. That would have proved he would have nowhere safe to run. If I did this, I would have honestly gladly gone to jail.

And plus my parents are all words and no actions. They keep threatening boot camp, but never do it. And all this solving problems through words is bull****. So I have no choice to leave this place. Ya, I'll still visit like once a week or something, because I like my parents, but I can't stand my brother at all. It all started when he was showing off weed at the Police Activities league. He got handcuffed. And then last week he was caught doing weed. He sweared to God he didn't do it, then he admitted it he did. He said "Please, don't let me go to Jail, I'll be a good boy forever." Adventaually he talked my dad into making him not go to jail. big mistake. 4 days later he caught him smoking a cig in the alley, despite all this, he still has priviliages. I can't take this any longer. I'm getting out.

the point of me telling you about my life is I need some support. just like words of encouragement or something. I need it. Because I am packing up right now. And if you want, send me donations or something, I am not pushing you to do it. To be honest, what I'll do with all the money is probably buy some things like clothes, CD's and all that. and with my work money, I'll use it to pay rent at the house and the rest I'll save. and adventually I'll get an Apartment and begin living by myself (When i turn 18, anyways). And hopefully, I can get a new start to life.

Ya let me tell, I get to live in a small, really clean, good smelling house, and I can eat all the food i want. and all for $200. I thought it was a good deal.

AgentYoda · 08-01-2003, 05:42 PM

How old is your brother? Crying then drugs? Still got privillages after that? I understand your frustration but I keep my cool in front of people, then go out side and kick a football REALLY hard (and grumble alot-hey- it works). It helps. But calm down. If he's younger than you I understand. He thinks he's funny. I was once like that. But jail wouldn't be worth it. And are you talking about running away?! If so, don't do it. It wouldn't help at all. You'd probably die. Your parents sound psycho (no offence) but they're letting junkie away with murder!
But i dont think your dream house exists.Hell, i dont care how tidy my house is. So calm down.

imported_Jonathan Resop · 08-01-2003, 05:45 PM

Hm. Well, I know you're still young, but I at least know what kind of thing you're going through. It can be pretty rough living in a family sometimes. Sometimes they get on your nerves. It happens. Although I never had a brother, so I wouldn't know what that's like. But I do have a younger sister who's constantly getting on my nerves. But we have good times as well. But yeah, what can I say. I guess all I can say is that they are your family and you're stuck with them. The best way to not get all pissed off with them all the time is to just try to control your emotions. Beating up your brother doesn't get too much accomplished. You just need to stay cool and talk things over with your parents. I donno. I don't know exactly what kind of life you're living, so everything I'm saying could just sound silly and worthless. But things have to work out for the better, you just need to work at them.-jay

JIM rides bLiNd boards · 08-01-2003, 05:46 PM

My life sucks to, i have only a dollar......

**Dylan** · 08-01-2003, 06:24 PM

Insensitivity, thy name is Jim...

Damn, Phil. I feel really bad for you. I guess the best you can do is make your parents realize the conditions you're living in. Just, whatever you do, don't take to drastic measures like running away, or even worse, suicide. Those won't solve anything.
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Introbulus · 08-02-2003, 12:19 AM

Well, that does sound rather lousy, and your brother sounds like a lousy brother, but I don't recommend beating him up, no matter what he does. You may think you have it rough, but there are people who lead a life much worse off than yours. The fact that you can post topics on the internet and own your own guitar is proof enough of that. No, I'm not talking about homeless people, nor am I talking about poor people, I'm talking about other mid-class kids who have an even more disfunctional family (At SSS, there's one that has a REALLY messed up life, with divorce, drug-addicted friends, and the works!). Now, I'm not saying you don't have your own problems, but you know running away isn't the right answer. Neither is violence.

Beam Yosho the Drunkard · 08-02-2003, 02:35 AM

Sounds like my cousin who just visited.
He did pot too. And the whole reason he came up to Alaska was to get off drugs and change his life. Didn't help much. One of my other cousins took advantage of him and sold pot to him. My parents knew these. We threated to call the police if this happened again. But they got angry and still smoked pot. We eventually just banned them from our house. My out of state cousin went back to Washington, with his crack-head mother.

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***Heroine of the Dragon*** · 08-02-2003, 05:05 AM

I'm sorry to read about your hassles.

Family-life can be very rough. Even people related have different expectations and different ideals. It's all a matter of juggling a lot of things when ya family.

I have no words to offer that will fix things up for you... sadly. I do hope though, that things start looking up for you and that happiness falls into your lap. I hope you find a way to live with your family too, if that's how it works out.

Good luck...

Shyg · 08-02-2003, 08:19 AM

Dang, that sounds rough compared to my quiet life, playing computer games. Why your bro souldn't be unplugging your Bass. He needs a lick of my Suplex skillz! -Suplex Kirby Omega

[ August 02, 2003, 08:21 AM: Message edited by: Suplex Kirby ]

supperdish · 08-02-2003, 09:14 AM

That's horrible.

I have a ****** brother, too. I feel your pain.
I help your "new life" goes well.

withgsus_413 · 08-02-2003, 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jim says MOO:
My life sucks to, i have only a dollar......

i know how you feel, well, not really, but im right there for you

Justin Minas · 08-02-2003, 07:37 PM

Thanks for support. I'm not running away from home or suicide.

08-02-2003, 07:50 PM

>_< Ouch, that hurts, my parents bug me too, they say I'm abnormal because I don't talk about feelings or stuff THEY like, so they WANT me to be dubbed "Care bear" and go down to the beauty bottom of the Social ladder, with all of the people who fail remedial classes, sit on girl's desks, and claim that they are the coolest person and that everyone else sucks.

imported_jigglypuffer · 08-02-2003, 07:53 PM

JIM rides bLiNd boards · 08-03-2003, 08:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dylan:
[QB]Insensitivity, thy name is Jim...

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A Genius · 08-04-2003, 10:58 AM

Not running away? That's probably for the better. Anyway, I personally have found that the best way to get rid of unwanted siblings is to thow bottle caps at them whenever they enter the room. It gets the point across, and nobody really cares if you throw bottle caps at someone. It works for my sister. Of course, my sister is eight.

-A Genius (I'm not anybody's first choice for comforting, believe me.)

Jathys · 08-04-2003, 07:12 PM

08-04-2003, 09:39 PM

Is your brother mentally retarded or something? First crying like a 2 year old, then smoking drugs like a 22 year old, just curios..

Fredfan · 08-04-2003, 09:41 PM

I don't know if you're just exaggerating or if you really do hate your brother. If the latter is the case, call the police if you see him doing drugs again, or even if you find them in his room or something. Don't consult your parents, just call the cops and bust him. This might be a good idea even if you don't hate him. It'll teach him not to do that crap.

Long Live Fred the Spanyard

Justin Minas · 08-09-2003, 11:56 PM

^Well, you see, that won't really work, because in California, all the cops do is confiscate the drugs and give you some warning. My ex-friend is the one who get's my brother the stuff. He's like 16, so I can't really beat him up, unless I come up from behind, when his gaurd is down, and pop him in the face.

And they smoke over my ex-friends house too. that is where they keep the drugs. And if I tell, they get their weed tooken away, I'd be a snitch, in which would result in severe beating which could lead to death.

So that is why the new place I'm in right now is great. Very clean, organized, and none of these problems. Life is good right now for me. I only come over here once in a while to maybe swim or go on the computer here. But it's been great over at the new place. Better than sleeping in my dog **** filled room. and alot more comfortable.

[ August 09, 2003, 11:59 PM: Message edited by: Phil the Alchemist ]

08-01-2003, 05:18 PM	#1
Justin Minas Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Playboy Mansion, pimpin\' the place up, yo? Posts: 1,575 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,349.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 1,849.00 Donate	Okay, what's happening is my life is going down the **hole. My parents are too unconcerned with my life. Basically, as Will Smith cleverly puts it "Parents just don't understand". And my house is very unsanatary, with chuiaha crap everywhere, a bunch of bugs, very messy. Kitchen is absolutely awful. and everytime I clean up my room, go somewhere to stay the night, I come back and it is worse than ever from my brother. I am so ing tired of it! RRRRRrrrroooooaaaaarrrr! And today, I was just playing guitar, and my * brother comes up and unplugs it. I plug it back in and say, "Go play your bass somewhere else", he keeps doing it, so I get real fed up and push him with my foot. Weak as he is, he begins to cry, claiming I knocked this wind out of him. he get's pissed, throws a lotion bottle at my nose, and nearly breaks (It's just really swollen). I go cking crazy and chases after him, my mom breaks it up, and I just run the house because I can't do nothing to him. I think for minute, very teary, very pissed. my dad comes out, talks to me and whatever, doesn't really help. Then I go back inside, talk to my mom, she's all "If you hit him back, I will call the police". I said "Fine do it, as long as I beat the out of him". "I don't like your attitude" I was like fine. The only way to solve this is either he goes or I go. He was like "You need Anger Management". I went into super crazy mode. i begin making loud heyna yells, mom tells me to knock it off, then when right when I was about to just run out the door, she coaxes me. I start yelling why i don't need anger management. "Only people who get mad at having Mountain Due spilled and start breaking everything. The * almost broke my nose!" Then I rambled on how I will beat my brother up until he pisses blood has a broken jaw, and ontop of all of that, until he thinks twice about throwing at me. I regret not beating the out of him in front of my parents. That would have proved he would have nowhere safe to run. If I did this, I would have honestly gladly gone to jail. And plus my parents are all words and no actions. They keep threatening boot camp, but never do it. And all this solving problems through words is bull**. So I have no choice to leave this place. Ya, I'll still visit like once a week or something, because I like my parents, but I can't stand my brother at all. It all started when he was showing off weed at the Police Activities league. He got handcuffed. And then last week he was caught doing weed. He sweared to God he didn't do it, then he admitted it he did. He said "Please, don't let me go to Jail, I'll be a good boy forever." Adventaually he talked my dad into making him not go to jail. big mistake. 4 days later he caught him smoking a cig in the alley, despite all this, he still has priviliages. I can't take this any longer. I'm getting out. the point of me telling you about my life is I need some support. just like words of encouragement or something. I need it. Because I am packing up right now. And if you want, send me donations or something, I am not pushing you to do it. To be honest, what I'll do with all the money is probably buy some things like clothes, CD's and all that. and with my work money, I'll use it to pay rent at the house and the rest I'll save. and adventually I'll get an Apartment and begin living by myself (When i turn 18, anyways). And hopefully, I can get a new start to life. Ya let me tell, I get to live in a small, really clean, good smelling house, and I can eat all the food i want. and all for $200. I thought it was a good deal.

08-01-2003, 05:42 PM	#2
AgentYoda Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: The Dagobah Matrix Posts: 168 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,245.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 1,745.00 Donate	How old is your brother? Crying then drugs? Still got privillages after that? I understand your frustration but I keep my cool in front of people, then go out side and kick a football REALLY hard (and grumble alot-hey- it works). It helps. But calm down. If he's younger than you I understand. He thinks he's funny. I was once like that. But jail wouldn't be worth it. And are you talking about running away?! If so, don't do it. It wouldn't help at all. You'd probably die. Your parents sound psycho (no offence) but they're letting junkie away with murder! But i dont think your dream house exists.Hell, i dont care how tidy my house is. So calm down.

08-01-2003, 05:45 PM	#3
imported_Jonathan Resop Join Date: Dec 1969 Posts: 0 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,272.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 1,272.00 Donate	Hm. Well, I know you're still young, but I at least know what kind of thing you're going through. It can be pretty rough living in a family sometimes. Sometimes they get on your nerves. It happens. Although I never had a brother, so I wouldn't know what that's like. But I do have a younger sister who's constantly getting on my nerves. But we have good times as well. But yeah, what can I say. I guess all I can say is that they are your family and you're stuck with them. The best way to not get all pissed off with them all the time is to just try to control your emotions. Beating up your brother doesn't get too much accomplished. You just need to stay cool and talk things over with your parents. I donno. I don't know exactly what kind of life you're living, so everything I'm saying could just sound silly and worthless. But things have to work out for the better, you just need to work at them.-jay

08-01-2003, 05:46 PM	#4
JIM rides bLiNd boards Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: New york, love it or move the **** out! Posts: 397 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 278.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 278.00 Donate	My life sucks to, i have only a dollar......

08-01-2003, 06:24 PM	#5
Dylan Banned Mod Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Teenage Wasteland Gender: Posts: 6,395 Thanks: 1,020 Thanked 1,011 Times in 465 Posts Points: 39,196.88 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 39,196.88 Donate	Insensitivity, thy name is Jim... Damn, Phil. I feel really bad for you. I guess the best you can do is make your parents realize the conditions you're living in. Just, whatever you do, don't take to drastic measures like running away, or even worse, suicide. Those won't solve anything. ************************************************** Visit Dil's Mario Page! And while you're at it, visit The Official Website of the Action Force 5!

08-02-2003, 12:19 AM	#6
Introbulus Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Time, Space Posts: 4,159 Thanks: 2 Thanked 19 Times in 9 Posts Points: 5,205.70 Bank: 1,241.75 Total Points: 6,447.45 Donate	Well, that does sound rather lousy, and your brother sounds like a lousy brother, but I don't recommend beating him up, no matter what he does. You may think you have it rough, but there are people who lead a life much worse off than yours. The fact that you can post topics on the internet and own your own guitar is proof enough of that. No, I'm not talking about homeless people, nor am I talking about poor people, I'm talking about other mid-class kids who have an even more disfunctional family (At SSS, there's one that has a REALLY messed up life, with divorce, drug-addicted friends, and the works!). Now, I'm not saying you don't have your own problems, but you know running away isn't the right answer. Neither is violence.

08-02-2003, 02:35 AM	#7
Beam Yosho the Drunkard Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The oversized rock of Hawaii. Gender: Posts: 5,664 Thanks: 5 Thanked 17 Times in 13 Posts Points: 23,958.39 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 24,458.39 Donate	Sounds like my cousin who just visited. He did pot too. And the whole reason he came up to Alaska was to get off drugs and change his life. Didn't help much. One of my other cousins took advantage of him and sold pot to him. My parents knew these. We threated to call the police if this happened again. But they got angry and still smoked pot. We eventually just banned them from our house. My out of state cousin went back to Washington, with his crack-head mother. EDIT : Heh. Posted sig TWICE. -------------------------------------------------- "Remember to chew your food." ~ I beleive it was Chuck E. Cheese that said that. Click here for a free Cup holder instantly in front of you! Where is Beam going? He's going to : Beam's House! After checking out Beam's Site you can go to : Planet Melee! [ August 02, 2003, 02:40 AM: Message edited by: Beam Yosho the neglected Rex. ]

08-02-2003, 05:05 AM	#8
*Heroine of the Dragon* The Grinnie Fool! ♥ VGFCodes Staff Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: In a pretty place surrounded by sparkly faerie dust!! Gender: Posts: 28,059 Thanks: 311 Thanked 386 Times in 298 Posts Blog Entries: 1 Points: 25,041.62 Bank: 4,046,287.58 Total Points: 4,071,329.19 Donate	I'm sorry to read about your hassles. Family-life can be very rough. Even people related have different expectations and different ideals. It's all a matter of juggling a lot of things when ya family. I have no words to offer that will fix things up for you... sadly. I do hope though, that things start looking up for you and that happiness falls into your lap. I hope you find a way to live with your family too, if that's how it works out. Good luck...

08-02-2003, 08:19 AM	#9
Shyg Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Parsons, TN Posts: 108 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 722.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 1,222.00 Donate	Dang, that sounds rough compared to my quiet life, playing computer games. Why your bro souldn't be unplugging your Bass. He needs a lick of my Suplex skillz! -Suplex Kirby Omega [ August 02, 2003, 08:21 AM: Message edited by: Suplex Kirby ]

08-02-2003, 09:14 AM	#10
supperdish Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: +3><@$ Gender: Posts: 4,033 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 6,590.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 7,090.00 Donate	That's horrible. I have a ****** brother, too. I feel your pain. I help your "new life" goes well.

08-02-2003, 07:37 PM	#12
Justin Minas Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Playboy Mansion, pimpin\' the place up, yo? Posts: 1,575 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,349.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 1,849.00 Donate	Thanks for support. I'm not running away from home or suicide.

08-02-2003, 07:50 PM	#13
Sim Kid Guest Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	>_< Ouch, that hurts, my parents bug me too, they say I'm abnormal because I don't talk about feelings or stuff THEY like, so they WANT me to be dubbed "Care bear" and go down to the beauty bottom of the Social ladder, with all of the people who fail remedial classes, sit on girl's desks, and claim that they are the coolest person and that everyone else sucks.

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08-04-2003, 10:58 AM	#16
A Genius Senior Member Join Date: May 2001 Location: Place Posts: 2,657 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 3,178.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 3,678.00 Donate	Not running away? That's probably for the better. Anyway, I personally have found that the best way to get rid of unwanted siblings is to thow bottle caps at them whenever they enter the room. It gets the point across, and nobody really cares if you throw bottle caps at someone. It works for my sister. Of course, my sister is eight. -A Genius (I'm not anybody's first choice for comforting, believe me.)

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08-04-2003, 09:39 PM	#18
Sim Kid Guest Posts: n/a Points: 0 Bank: 0 Total Points: 0 Donate	Is your brother mentally retarded or something? First crying like a 2 year old, then smoking drugs like a 22 year old, just curios..

08-04-2003, 09:41 PM	#19
Fredfan Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Who wants to know? Posts: 1,739 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,747.85 Bank: 530.60 Total Points: 2,278.45 Donate	I don't know if you're just exaggerating or if you really do hate your brother. If the latter is the case, call the police if you see him doing drugs again, or even if you find them in his room or something. Don't consult your parents, just call the cops and bust him. This might be a good idea even if you don't hate him. It'll teach him not to do that crap. Long Live Fred the Spanyard

08-09-2003, 11:56 PM	#20
Justin Minas Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Playboy Mansion, pimpin\' the place up, yo? Posts: 1,575 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 1,349.00 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 1,849.00 Donate	^Well, you see, that won't really work, because in California, all the cops do is confiscate the drugs and give you some warning. My ex-friend is the one who get's my brother the stuff. He's like 16, so I can't really beat him up, unless I come up from behind, when his gaurd is down, and pop him in the face. And they smoke over my ex-friends house too. that is where they keep the drugs. And if I tell, they get their weed tooken away, I'd be a snitch, in which would result in severe beating which could lead to death. So that is why the new place I'm in right now is great. Very clean, organized, and none of these problems. Life is good right now for me. I only come over here once in a while to maybe swim or go on the computer here. But it's been great over at the new place. Better than sleeping in my dog **** filled room. and alot more comfortable. [ August 09, 2003, 11:59 PM: Message edited by: Phil the Alchemist ]