I've figured myself out

Bomby · 03-02-2007, 12:56 AM

I have a tendency toward this, which triggered a series of these which lasted for weeks. I'm not going to be quick to diagnose myself with this but some of the symptoms do apply to me.

I know I used to have this but thanks to a screening of Female Convict #701: Scorpion, I think I'm getting over it.

Demonicus Prime · 03-02-2007, 04:58 PM

Well, when you've had your heart broken/stabbed/run over, you can't really expect to bounce back. I'm the same way. It's natural, instictual even.

Just keep fighting. We'll make it.

jbboo · 03-03-2007, 10:02 PM

To tell you the truth, I think I really do have love-shyness.

But I've been improving lately and, hopefully, I'll get through it.

***Cosmonautical*** · 03-04-2007, 09:58 AM

"Love-Shyness" sounds a bit like everyone in a private situation for the first time. Sometimes you need something to repeat itself once or twice before you'll see what you should be doing, I know it took a lot of effort and extra confidence to be sure of myself in situations like that. I also have had a habit of being involved with open-minded people who won't be offended or turned off just because I talk to them about desires, or merely having feelings. Most of the time, it's a lack of communication that kills or dooms a relationship, anyways. Part of the problem is the belief that women have to have this different and seperate standard of what's socially acceptable, and they honestly shouldn't. The way I see it, you should have enough common beliefs that you don't rub eachother the wrong way. Mostly, I think problems like this can all be overcome just by allowing yourself to have the confidence that you deserve.

03-02-2007, 12:56 AM	#1
Bomby You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5	I've figured myself out I have a tendency toward this, which triggered a series of these which lasted for weeks. I'm not going to be quick to diagnose myself with this but some of the symptoms do apply to me. I know I used to have this but thanks to a screening of Female Convict #701: Scorpion, I think I'm getting over it.

03-04-2007, 09:58 AM	#4
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,151 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	"Love-Shyness" sounds a bit like everyone in a private situation for the first time. Sometimes you need something to repeat itself once or twice before you'll see what you should be doing, I know it took a lot of effort and extra confidence to be sure of myself in situations like that. I also have had a habit of being involved with open-minded people who won't be offended or turned off just because I talk to them about desires, or merely having feelings. Most of the time, it's a lack of communication that kills or dooms a relationship, anyways. Part of the problem is the belief that women have to have this different and seperate standard of what's socially acceptable, and they honestly shouldn't. The way I see it, you should have enough common beliefs that you don't rub eachother the wrong way. Mostly, I think problems like this can all be overcome just by allowing yourself to have the confidence that you deserve. Last edited by Cosmonautical; 03-04-2007 at 10:22 AM.

03-02-2007, 04:58 PM	#2
Demonicus Prime Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: I Pity The Fool Who Confuses Me With Someone Other Than YoshiFreak. Gender: Posts: 3,108 Thanks: 648 Thanked 129 Times in 87 Posts	Well, when you've had your heart broken/stabbed/run over, you can't really expect to bounce back. I'm the same way. It's natural, instictual even. Just keep fighting. We'll make it.

03-03-2007, 10:02 PM	#3
jbboo Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Forsaken Fortress, Great Sea Gender: Posts: 197 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	To tell you the truth, I think I really do have love-shyness. But I've been improving lately and, hopefully, I'll get through it.