I'm the world's biggest loser.

**Crazyswordsman** · 04-27-2007, 03:02 AM

Why is it that I feel like I'm the only single guy on campus?

All the girls around here have boyfriends and the other boys have girlfriends. And nobody gives a damn about poor old CSM, who will never have a girlfriend because he doesn't like to play these stupid relationship games and wants to put the friend back in boy and girlfriend.

And every girl I HAVE dated, I feel like they want to use me for something, whether its for sex or a way to forget their problems. This isn't the kind of relationship I want to have. And I feel like I'll never have any friends because people are attached to their girlfriends/boyfriends and their frats/sororities. I feel like a complete social outcast.

This world is full of morons. Why the hell won't anyone be nice? -CSM

***Ace Mercury*** · 04-27-2007, 08:41 AM

Well, and least you're actually playing the game.

t3hDarkness · 04-27-2007, 08:58 AM

I know for a fact you are not the worlds biggest loser, you could be me.

As far as finding a group of friends goes, make your own and capture some Freshmen before they develop ties to other organizations.

**Crazyswordsman** · 04-27-2007, 02:19 PM

That's hard. The freshmen all live in the dorms and I'm off campus.

When will there be a woman who doesn't play games? -CSM

Perrin Aybara · 04-27-2007, 03:50 PM

Don't worry. You can rest assured that while I'm alive, there will be at least one bigger loser walking this earth.

I feel your pain, though.

I think you really only have two choices in situations like that, though.

You can either not let your situation bother you, don't worry or think about it and roll with life as it comes. Or you can actively try to change your situation, realizing that you will run into plenty of morons along the way.

I think the simple thing is, this is your life. You have to live it the way you want. And you can't let things get in your way. Do something about it, or don't, either way you're living your life.

If you can't stand the people around you, try looking for other people.

I can't say I know anything, though. Good luck.-jay

Rainbow Dash · 04-27-2007, 04:12 PM

I beat you for biggest loser title, Jay.

Perrin Aybara · 04-27-2007, 05:29 PM

Pft. Nah uh.-jay

Rainbow Dash · 04-27-2007, 07:15 PM

Duh huh.

***Heroine of the Dragon*** · 04-28-2007, 01:24 AM

I'm sorry you feel that way... it probably won't help for you to understand that there are other single guys and most likely on your same campus that feel similar to you. However, perhaps given your thoughts about your past relationships, you might like to work out what you DO want... and remember these when you meet new people.

The "waiting" always seems harder when we feel within ourselves that we're ready for a new aspect in our lives!!!

*grins* I disagree with your sweeping claim that the world is full of morons... but then again, I'm a faerie and know that I think differently (it must be true if I'm told that so often!!). There is a world filled with compassionate, thoughtful souls, too... you just have to believe it to see it.

I hope you feel not-so-alone now. You have friends here... even if we're not able to meet you for a milkshake later tonight... we're still thinking of you!!

Perrin Aybara · 04-28-2007, 11:34 AM

Duh nah.

And HotD is wrong. A vast majority of people are morons. In fact, everyone is a moron. Just most are more moronic than others.

*Bans HotD*

-jay

Brandon2390 · 04-28-2007, 11:57 AM

I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I'm probably willing to bet all of the girls you were involved with were into you but you just wanted to find some type of flaw because you weren't really into them. Thats the case I've seen going around lately. If not, apologies, but the way you phrased it made it seem that way.

I think you're thinking a little too much into this. Come 4 months there will probably be tons of breakups and you wont be the only one. Love works strange ways.

Lilac DownDeep · 04-28-2007, 12:19 PM

-^ He's gotta point.

Females are usually cautious when finding the right guy. I know it. >>;;

Eagle Eye · 04-28-2007, 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brandon2390

I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I'm probably willing to bet all of the girls you were involved with were into you but you just wanted to find some type of flaw because you weren't really into them. Thats the case I've seen going around lately. If not, apologies, but the way you phrased it made it seem that way.

I think you're thinking a little too much into this. Come 4 months there will probably be tons of breakups and you wont be the only one. Love works strange ways.

I have one word to say to this:

yse

Rainbow Dash · 05-06-2007, 07:39 PM

Duh-huh, Jay.

Perrin Aybara · 05-06-2007, 07:40 PM

Duh nuh.

-jay

Rainbow Dash · 05-07-2007, 07:40 AM

Duh-huh.

kmagnet · 08-24-2007, 09:55 AM

dude just drop every notion that you have in your mind I mean free your mind from all your fears. It's like this. As of now, you still are not ready for that kind of relationship just yet however I am not saying that you are completely unable to reach that step or level or whatever ok so I mean you gotta work your way to getting there and you would need only one thing man.CONFIDENCE.First is to find your victim so for now I would suggest that you find yourself not so popular girls man cause I bet alot of you would all be targetting that same gal so for now all I am saying is to gather up experience so like I said find your first target or victim and then if by any chance you get to come face to face and eye to eye just greet her. You see the idea here is very simple no guts no glory and the thing is for you to arrive at the answer you need to to test the subject man it's just like an experiment in one of your science projects. How will you be able to prove if she is interested? You need to provide the stimulus man you gotta show her a bit of interest first so that you could somehow draw a bit of her interest hopefully well if not then the answer is that she isnt interested in you after all so if that is the case the logical thing to do would be to hop on to the next one so you really have to make a list for this you know. It is not like I am trying to teach you to become a play boy but it's just for you to gain some experience on this kinda stuff so I hope I am really helping you at all hehe so anyway after maybe exchanging greetings.Keep on asking open ended questions ok I mean keep asking her something she really needs to expound on because girls love to speak their mind and they love someone who listens ok who JUST LISTENS WHEN THEY TALK so basically you dont have to do all the talking. You ask them a one liner or two maybe they throw back a paragraph yea so that's wat I am saying ok so after a while of having to listen to a few paragraphs you might want to take it some place else so ask her for a yes or no question if she is or is not busy later if yes proceed by asking her out and continue the conversation if not then move to your next victim. This is very systematic and pretty straightforward you know. Good luck on ur conquest

Robotazy · 08-25-2007, 02:35 PM

^ HEY, EVERYONE LOOK! IT'S THE "man who posts Gunjin length posts" MAN O_O

Panfan · 08-25-2007, 02:49 PM

This is a little bit off topic but, PARAGRAPHS.

***The Doctor*** · 08-25-2007, 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kmagnet

You ask them a one liner or two maybe they throw back a paragraph yea so that's wat I am saying ok so after a while of having to listen to a few paragraphs

LOL.

Anyway. It sounds like you at least socialise which is a hell of a lot more that what I do. *goes back to playing MGS:Snake Eater.*

04-27-2007, 03:02 AM	#1
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	I'm the world's biggest loser. Why is it that I feel like I'm the only single guy on campus? All the girls around here have boyfriends and the other boys have girlfriends. And nobody gives a damn about poor old CSM, who will never have a girlfriend because he doesn't like to play these stupid relationship games and wants to put the friend back in boy and girlfriend. And every girl I HAVE dated, I feel like they want to use me for something, whether its for sex or a way to forget their problems. This isn't the kind of relationship I want to have. And I feel like I'll never have any friends because people are attached to their girlfriends/boyfriends and their frats/sororities. I feel like a complete social outcast. This world is full of morons. Why the hell won't anyone be nice? -CSM

04-27-2007, 08:41 AM	#2
*Ace Mercury* Marshmallow Knight ☆ Supermod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Southern Ontario Gender: Posts: 23,274 Thanks: 568 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,582 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Best way to lose is to not play. Well, and least you're actually playing the game.

04-27-2007, 08:58 AM	#3
t3hDarkness Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: I weep oily black tears of joy. Gender: Posts: 7,590 Thanks: 119 Thanked 418 Times in 306 Posts Blog Entries: 5	I know for a fact you are not the worlds biggest loser, you could be me. As far as finding a group of friends goes, make your own and capture some Freshmen before they develop ties to other organizations.

04-27-2007, 02:19 PM	#4
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	That's hard. The freshmen all live in the dorms and I'm off campus. When will there be a woman who doesn't play games? -CSM

04-27-2007, 03:50 PM	#5
Perrin Aybara Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 12,760 Thanks: 194 Thanked 504 Times in 235 Posts	Don't worry. You can rest assured that while I'm alive, there will be at least one bigger loser walking this earth. I feel your pain, though. I think you really only have two choices in situations like that, though. You can either not let your situation bother you, don't worry or think about it and roll with life as it comes. Or you can actively try to change your situation, realizing that you will run into plenty of morons along the way. I think the simple thing is, this is your life. You have to live it the way you want. And you can't let things get in your way. Do something about it, or don't, either way you're living your life. If you can't stand the people around you, try looking for other people. I can't say I know anything, though. Good luck.-jay

04-27-2007, 04:12 PM	#6
Rainbow Dash been dreamin', i've been waitin' Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts	I beat you for biggest loser title, Jay.

04-27-2007, 05:29 PM	#7
Perrin Aybara Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 12,760 Thanks: 194 Thanked 504 Times in 235 Posts	Pft. Nah uh.-jay

04-27-2007, 07:15 PM	#8
Rainbow Dash been dreamin', i've been waitin' Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts	Duh huh.

04-28-2007, 01:24 AM	#9
*Heroine of the Dragon* The Grinnie Fool! ♥♥♥ VGFCodes Staff Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Twinklebutton Wintersprout Gender: Posts: 31,454 Thanks: 864 Thanked 851 Times in 632 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I'm sorry you feel that way... it probably won't help for you to understand that there are other single guys and most likely on your same campus that feel similar to you. However, perhaps given your thoughts about your past relationships, you might like to work out what you DO want... and remember these when you meet new people. The "waiting" always seems harder when we feel within ourselves that we're ready for a new aspect in our lives!!! grins I disagree with your sweeping claim that the world is full of morons... but then again, I'm a faerie and know that I think differently (it must be true if I'm told that so often!!). There is a world filled with compassionate, thoughtful souls, too... you just have to believe it to see it. I hope you feel not-so-alone now. You have friends here... even if we're not able to meet you for a milkshake later tonight... we're still thinking of you!!

04-28-2007, 11:34 AM	#10
Perrin Aybara Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 12,760 Thanks: 194 Thanked 504 Times in 235 Posts	Duh nah. And HotD is wrong. A vast majority of people are morons. In fact, everyone is a moron. Just most are more moronic than others. Bans HotD -jay

04-28-2007, 11:57 AM	#11
Brandon2390 Veteran Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Connecticut Posts: 10,519 Thanks: 7 Thanked 30 Times in 22 Posts	I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I'm probably willing to bet all of the girls you were involved with were into you but you just wanted to find some type of flaw because you weren't really into them. Thats the case I've seen going around lately. If not, apologies, but the way you phrased it made it seem that way. I think you're thinking a little too much into this. Come 4 months there will probably be tons of breakups and you wont be the only one. Love works strange ways.

04-28-2007, 12:19 PM	#12
Lilac DownDeep Arceus the Almighty Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Raxacoricofallapatorius Gender: Posts: 1,320 Thanks: 18 Thanked 37 Times in 25 Posts	-^ He's gotta point. Females are usually cautious when finding the right guy. I know it. >>;;

05-06-2007, 07:39 PM	#14
Rainbow Dash been dreamin', i've been waitin' Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts	Duh-huh, Jay.

05-06-2007, 07:40 PM	#15
Perrin Aybara Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 12,760 Thanks: 194 Thanked 504 Times in 235 Posts	Duh nuh. -jay

05-07-2007, 07:40 AM	#16
Rainbow Dash been dreamin', i've been waitin' Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts	Duh-huh.

08-24-2007, 09:55 AM	#17
kmagnet Newbie Join Date: Aug 2007 Gender: Posts: 4 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	dude just drop every notion that you have in your mind I mean free your mind from all your fears. It's like this. As of now, you still are not ready for that kind of relationship just yet however I am not saying that you are completely unable to reach that step or level or whatever ok so I mean you gotta work your way to getting there and you would need only one thing man.CONFIDENCE.First is to find your victim so for now I would suggest that you find yourself not so popular girls man cause I bet alot of you would all be targetting that same gal so for now all I am saying is to gather up experience so like I said find your first target or victim and then if by any chance you get to come face to face and eye to eye just greet her. You see the idea here is very simple no guts no glory and the thing is for you to arrive at the answer you need to to test the subject man it's just like an experiment in one of your science projects. How will you be able to prove if she is interested? You need to provide the stimulus man you gotta show her a bit of interest first so that you could somehow draw a bit of her interest hopefully well if not then the answer is that she isnt interested in you after all so if that is the case the logical thing to do would be to hop on to the next one so you really have to make a list for this you know. It is not like I am trying to teach you to become a play boy but it's just for you to gain some experience on this kinda stuff so I hope I am really helping you at all hehe so anyway after maybe exchanging greetings.Keep on asking open ended questions ok I mean keep asking her something she really needs to expound on because girls love to speak their mind and they love someone who listens ok who JUST LISTENS WHEN THEY TALK so basically you dont have to do all the talking. You ask them a one liner or two maybe they throw back a paragraph yea so that's wat I am saying ok so after a while of having to listen to a few paragraphs you might want to take it some place else so ask her for a yes or no question if she is or is not busy later if yes proceed by asking her out and continue the conversation if not then move to your next victim. This is very systematic and pretty straightforward you know. Good luck on ur conquest

08-25-2007, 02:35 PM	#18
Robotazy PRESS ANY KEY TO PANIC! Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: A Tiny Shed Gender: Posts: 16,483 Thanks: 529 Thanked 1,254 Times in 897 Posts Blog Entries: 46	^ HEY, EVERYONE LOOK! IT'S THE "man who posts Gunjin length posts" MAN O_O

08-25-2007, 02:49 PM	#19
Panfan AND HE PRAYS Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Grayskull Gender: Posts: 18,806 Thanks: 1,405 Thanked 2,247 Times in 1,337 Posts Blog Entries: 15	This is a little bit off topic but, PARAGRAPHS.