Not having a girlfriend

Domus · 05-05-2007, 01:15 AM

It's sad, this loneliness I feel inside. When you don't have a girlfriend and it just makes you want to cry, but life goes on... I've been single for a year and a half, the truly sad thing is at my new school the only girl that likes me is some nut job. Even more I think that I lost the ability to even like someone. My heart has gone so cold and black that I could kill someone without guilt or even blinking an eye... Anymore sad stories?

Kil'jaeden · 05-05-2007, 07:32 PM

Actually, I do find that I have more time just to lay around. The bad part is not having much to look forward to and seeing her. Anytime a memory bothers me I quash it. I spend more time with my friends, who say that I'm back to my old self (A cynical, sarcastic slightly depresing slightly impulsive jerk and/or nice person). Maybe I'm better off. I am not the type to chase girls, because I prefer them to come to me. I have very few friends who are girls, and for the most part they live in a world I don't. I was cynical about this type of thing before, and then she changed my mind. Now I am back to my old thought. As for your situation....have you talked to this weird girl much? Are you interested in anyone else? Because if you aren't, you can't force a new relationship to replace an old one, and if you are still confused it might just leave you more confused. Hell, women are confusing and that's about all we can know.

CuccoLady · 05-05-2007, 08:04 PM

What's wrong with girls who are nutjobs, might I ask???

User Name · 05-05-2007, 08:29 PM

^Amen to that, sister.

Kil'jaeden · 05-05-2007, 10:44 PM

I like strangeness, but I draw the line at having a collection of ex's heads.

**Loot** · 05-05-2007, 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abel Cain

I've been single for a year and a half,

Shut up. I've been single for nearly seventeen years, damn it, and I'm not going to go emo over not having a relationship.

**Valigarmander** · 05-06-2007, 01:15 AM

I have a friend who's a nutjob. And you know what? She's a wonderful friend. She is also hot, as I am into short girls with glasses and braces. HAWT.

Maybe you should give this "nutjob" a chance. If you're so lonely, you can give her a chance, and find out if she's really an incredible woman or if she's really just some loon. If you aren't feeling that lonely, then stop whining about it. This is my advice. If a girl likes you, try liking her back. Good things can happen.

I know from personal experience.

^ You've never had a relationship, so you shut up. You don't know what it's like to be in one and then out. Imagine this: you have the world's most wonderful, body-wracking orgasm ever! Once it ends, naturally, you're going to want more.

But if you've never felt that wonderful, body-wracking orgasm, you probably don't think it's all that great. You don't really understand why people who have had that orgasm get all worked up over it. God my analogies suck.

Love is like a drug. When you're high, you're on top of the world. When you're off, it hurts real bad. And it is very, very, very hard to quit.

**Galefore** · 05-06-2007, 02:24 AM

^Um. I happen to know which nutjob he's talking about, considering I know Abel personally. He means she's more like a stalker... If I could only begin to describe how much she frightens me. Abel gets these mushy notes from her (poor grammar, too, from what I've seen). Apparently, it creeps him out.

**Valigarmander** · 05-06-2007, 06:15 AM

...Well, maybe her heart is in the right place?

Kil'jaeden · 05-06-2007, 09:44 AM

Have you tried completely crushing her soul?

You know, crazy girls would probably be my only hope. To actually like me, you'd have to be crazy.

Bomby · 05-06-2007, 05:00 PM

Boo hoo. My advice is to learn that there's more to life than women. No, really.

Kil'jaeden · 05-06-2007, 05:18 PM

Yeah, like men, for instance.

Bomby · 05-06-2007, 05:36 PM

That was the worst follow-up ever.

Kil'jaeden · 05-06-2007, 05:39 PM

Probably, but that's all I've got. Life is there so you can impress the opposite sex, or the same one, or both. Right?

**Marchie** · 05-06-2007, 05:40 PM

I've been single my whole life, but what I know is that love causes heartbreak. I've never had luck with liking someone because I've always been shot down because I tell the wrong person, and that person rats me out, so I can't trust anyone with my secrets either. (Jeez, this is turning into a rant) All love has cause me is heartbreak, and I can't say it's worth my time if it's going to break me.

Bomby · 05-06-2007, 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kil'jaeden

Probably, but that's all I've got. Life is there so you can impress the opposite sex, or the same one, or both. Right?

No. Life is about how much Snapple you can consume in a three-hour Dariathon, playing Street Fighter II: Turbo during commercial breaks.

Kil'jaeden · 05-06-2007, 06:36 PM

I will now declare you my God for telling me the meaning of life.

Bomby · 05-06-2007, 07:41 PM

I knew you'd see the truth.

Perrin Aybara · 05-06-2007, 07:47 PM

Do what I did. Forget that whole silly "romance" and "girlfriend" thing and go get your Ph.D. It's much more fulfilling.

Now if you excuse me, I'm going to go heat up a Hot Pocket for supper now and play Super Paper Mario all alone for the rest of the night.

And then...perhaps watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and cry myself to sleep...

Oh wait, I did that last weekend. Crap.-jay

Kil'jaeden · 05-06-2007, 07:47 PM

I don't know how to phrase my love for you, sir.

05-05-2007, 01:15 AM	#1
Domus Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: I'm watching from where they were. Gender: Posts: 224 Thanks: 11 Thanked 16 Times in 13 Posts	Not having a girlfriend It's sad, this loneliness I feel inside. When you don't have a girlfriend and it just makes you want to cry, but life goes on... I've been single for a year and a half, the truly sad thing is at my new school the only girl that likes me is some nut job. Even more I think that I lost the ability to even like someone. My heart has gone so cold and black that I could kill someone without guilt or even blinking an eye... Anymore sad stories? Last edited by Domus; 05-05-2007 at 01:35 AM.

05-06-2007, 01:15 AM	#7
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,700 Times in 2,580 Posts Blog Entries: 20	I have a friend who's a nutjob. And you know what? She's a wonderful friend. She is also hot, as I am into short girls with glasses and braces. HAWT. Maybe you should give this "nutjob" a chance. If you're so lonely, you can give her a chance, and find out if she's really an incredible woman or if she's really just some loon. If you aren't feeling that lonely, then stop whining about it. This is my advice. If a girl likes you, try liking her back. Good things can happen. I know from personal experience. ^ You've never had a relationship, so you shut up. You don't know what it's like to be in one and then out. Imagine this: you have the world's most wonderful, body-wracking orgasm ever! Once it ends, naturally, you're going to want more. But if you've never felt that wonderful, body-wracking orgasm, you probably don't think it's all that great. You don't really understand why people who have had that orgasm get all worked up over it. God my analogies suck. Love is like a drug. When you're high, you're on top of the world. When you're off, it hurts real bad. And it is very, very, very hard to quit. Last edited by Valigarmander; 05-06-2007 at 01:21 AM.

05-06-2007, 09:44 AM	#10
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	Have you tried completely crushing her soul? You know, crazy girls would probably be my only hope. To actually like me, you'd have to be crazy. Last edited by Kil'jaeden; 05-06-2007 at 09:44 AM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

05-05-2007, 07:32 PM	#2
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	Actually, I do find that I have more time just to lay around. The bad part is not having much to look forward to and seeing her. Anytime a memory bothers me I quash it. I spend more time with my friends, who say that I'm back to my old self (A cynical, sarcastic slightly depresing slightly impulsive jerk and/or nice person). Maybe I'm better off. I am not the type to chase girls, because I prefer them to come to me. I have very few friends who are girls, and for the most part they live in a world I don't. I was cynical about this type of thing before, and then she changed my mind. Now I am back to my old thought. As for your situation....have you talked to this weird girl much? Are you interested in anyone else? Because if you aren't, you can't force a new relationship to replace an old one, and if you are still confused it might just leave you more confused. Hell, women are confusing and that's about all we can know.

05-05-2007, 08:04 PM	#3
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	What's wrong with girls who are nutjobs, might I ask???

05-05-2007, 08:29 PM	#4
User Name Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Gotham City Gender: Posts: 7,209 Thanks: 701 Thanked 536 Times in 367 Posts	^Amen to that, sister.

05-05-2007, 10:44 PM	#5
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	I like strangeness, but I draw the line at having a collection of ex's heads.

05-06-2007, 02:24 AM	#8
Galefore EXPLOSION GOD OF MUSIC Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Some studio somewhere Gender: Posts: 8,275 Thanks: 1,361 Thanked 826 Times in 535 Posts Blog Entries: 5	^Um. I happen to know which nutjob he's talking about, considering I know Abel personally. He means she's more like a stalker... If I could only begin to describe how much she frightens me. Abel gets these mushy notes from her (poor grammar, too, from what I've seen). Apparently, it creeps him out.

05-06-2007, 06:15 AM	#9
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,700 Times in 2,580 Posts Blog Entries: 20	...Well, maybe her heart is in the right place?

05-06-2007, 05:00 PM	#11
Bomby You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5	Boo hoo. My advice is to learn that there's more to life than women. No, really.

05-06-2007, 05:18 PM	#12
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	Yeah, like men, for instance.

05-06-2007, 05:36 PM	#13
Bomby You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5	That was the worst follow-up ever.

05-06-2007, 05:39 PM	#14
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	Probably, but that's all I've got. Life is there so you can impress the opposite sex, or the same one, or both. Right?

05-06-2007, 05:40 PM	#15
Marchie Pokeman Master since 1999 Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Wiscaaaaaaaaaaansin/Michigan Gender: Posts: 16,647 Thanks: 1,442 Thanked 680 Times in 477 Posts	I've been single my whole life, but what I know is that love causes heartbreak. I've never had luck with liking someone because I've always been shot down because I tell the wrong person, and that person rats me out, so I can't trust anyone with my secrets either. (Jeez, this is turning into a rant) All love has cause me is heartbreak, and I can't say it's worth my time if it's going to break me.

05-06-2007, 06:36 PM	#17
Kil'jaeden Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: in your mind Gender: Posts: 2,132 Thanks: 21 Thanked 146 Times in 99 Posts	I will now declare you my God for telling me the meaning of life.

05-06-2007, 07:41 PM	#18
Bomby You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5	I knew you'd see the truth.

05-06-2007, 07:47 PM	#19
Perrin Aybara Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 12,760 Thanks: 194 Thanked 504 Times in 235 Posts	Do what I did. Forget that whole silly "romance" and "girlfriend" thing and go get your Ph.D. It's much more fulfilling. Now if you excuse me, I'm going to go heat up a Hot Pocket for supper now and play Super Paper Mario all alone for the rest of the night. And then...perhaps watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and cry myself to sleep... Oh wait, I did that last weekend. Crap.-jay