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 09-28-2007, 09:47 PM | #2 |
| You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind!  Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender:  Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5 | Perhaps I could explain this thread a bit better... I'm in a really weird spot right now. I think I might've fallen for this girl on my floor, but I'm not quite sure if I have, and if I have fallen for her then I'm not sure why. I mean, I know I like her as a friend and all, but I'm not sure if that's it. She was single before but she's been hanging around this one guy on our floor quite a lot the past few days. Of course, that doesn't mean that they're dating, but it could start or whatever. Even so, if she's not dating him, I don't know if I could push myself to ask her out, because I feel like I might've somehow subconsciously forced myself into becoming interested in her. That and I'm pretty sure she knows of my moral ambiguity and the shadier parts of history with girls that I'm only able to divulge when its 3:00 AM and I'm sleep deprived, so even though we get along as friends I'm not sure she would even want to be involved with me as more than such. Then again, I'm not even sure if I really would want to be involved with her in a relationdateshipthingy, but the thought keeps reoccurring. And it's stressing me the **** out. And I can't stop listening to "Wonderwall" by Oasis and "Ever Fallen In Love?" by the Buzzcocks. |
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| 09-29-2007, 01:09 AM | #3 |
 Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Twinklebutton Wintersprout Gender:  Posts: 31,454 Thanks: 864 Thanked 851 Times in 632 Posts Blog Entries: 1 | Before I say too much... may I just ask you a couple of things?... *obvious rhetorical question* but you don't have to answer... except to yourself, perhaps!!  There are obviously things you truly like about this girl, otherwise you wouldn't be confused about whether or not you have deep feelings for her. When you're all happy and it's 3pm... how do you communicate with this girl? Can you talk with her about anything and still feel comfortable with her the next day after you thought about what you said? Do you find yourself feeling happier when you're with her and talking with her? Does she initiate some of the conversation and "keep" you talking? Have you thought of asking her just to share a coffee *insert preferred drink if you're not a caffeine addict*? What would be a bad thing if you did discover that you had deep feelings for her? And, I hope this becomes easier for you very soon, Bomby!!!! Grinnie for you!!!  |
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| 09-29-2007, 03:03 AM | #4 |
| You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5 | Wow, I feel like pointing out that you're only one post away from being at 26,000 posts. And now, I feel it necessary to somewhat answer your questions with vague anecdotes. Not too long after I made that post, I actually saw her in the hallway, and she initiated conversation with me after my usual greeting of "Yo." She had mentioned how she was downstairs at the Witte Hall party and upon hearing "Hey Ya" she thought of me  .I'm generally happier when I'm with her, generally because we both have our mischievous tendencies. We can generally keep a conversation going, but that's not to say we've had some awkward moments. One time we just ended up staring at each other for like five seconds and then practically yelling at each other for it, only to decide that we'd met at eyes at the same time and were trying to figure out why I/she was staring at her/me. I've thought about asking her to a football (soccer) match. Actually, she asked me about it, too, since we're both into it. Maybe that was what helped spark interested in her initially. Come to think about it, we really could be more than friends, but I guess after what has happened to me in the past, I'm not really big into the idea of being in a serious, emotionally involved relationdateshipthingy. |
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| 09-29-2007, 09:28 AM | #5 |
| been dreamin', i've been waitin'  Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts | Damn you non-USA people and your infatuation with saying football is soccer and not football! |
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| 09-29-2007, 11:19 AM | #6 |
| *Diddy bops*  Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Gender: Posts: 15,014 Thanks: 1,616 Thanked 1,084 Times in 597 Posts | Bomby's USin. |
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| 09-29-2007, 11:48 AM | #7 | |
| Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In the TARDIS Gender: Posts: 13,880 Thanks: 915 Thanked 656 Times in 426 Posts Blog Entries: 1 | Quote:
And what's wrong with "Wonderwall" | |
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| 09-29-2007, 12:46 PM | #8 |
| Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Inside Gender: Posts: 6,743 Thanks: 5 Thanked 325 Times in 198 Posts | I still prefer American football. There's not enough scoring in European football. But anyway... I think if you could be more than just friends, you should probably go for it. Don't let past relationships effect you too much, because this isn't a past relationship, this is a new relationship. If you keep letting yourself get bothered by the past, you might not find anyone, but if you let it go and try it, you could end up finding something special. |
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| 09-29-2007, 01:38 PM | #9 | |
| *Diddy bops* Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Gender: Posts: 15,014 Thanks: 1,616 Thanked 1,084 Times in 597 Posts | Quote:
Anyway Bomby, you have to sit and think about it man. Don't stress yourself out trying to figure out what is going on, sit and think, and if that doesn't work, just go with teh gut and ask her out. | |
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| 09-30-2007, 09:54 PM | #10 | |
| You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5 | Quote:
My problem with girls in the past, Dre, has probably been that I think too much about it. Too hard about it. I'm really not too uncomfortable with the idea of asking her out, though I do feel that since she knows about my "morally ambiguous" (thanks a lot, ******** Mike) past she may be hesitant to date me. As would pretty much any girl. (Not to mention the fact that she shares a first name with two of my biggest unrequited romantic interests kind of scares me. It's like symbolism in a book. The reason I'm agnostic and not atheist is because of these really strange freak coincidences that seem to be written by some big guy up in the sky trying to seriously mess with my head.) | |
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| 09-30-2007, 10:18 PM | #11 | |
| Awesome member  Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender:  Posts: 15,896 Thanks: 1,130 Thanked 1,919 Times in 1,046 Posts | Quote:
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| 09-30-2007, 11:37 PM | #13 |
| Awesome member Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 15,896 Thanks: 1,130 Thanked 1,919 Times in 1,046 Posts | I love that song. |
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| 10-01-2007, 11:05 PM | #15 |
| Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Twinklebutton Wintersprout Gender: Posts: 31,454 Thanks: 864 Thanked 851 Times in 632 Posts Blog Entries: 1 | Awwwww I'm sorry for you, Bomby!!! But you can still be friends, if that's what you truly want. You know... this is what a faerie believes; the power of thought counts... and I believe that there is someone out there who is 'perfect' for you. It may take a while for this to be 'fulfilled'... but it'll happen as long as you believe in it, too. *hugs* Stay smiley... *grinnie for you* |
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| 10-02-2007, 02:38 PM | #16 | ||
| You just freaking blew Joe Biden's mind! Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: WHAT?house Gender: Posts: 19,491 Thanks: 513 Thanked 1,449 Times in 849 Posts Blog Entries: 5 | Felt this was appropriate: | ||
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