I don't have any friends.

Dizzy · 05-08-2008, 05:46 AM

I don't go to school anymore, so I don't see many peers. I don't have anyone to actually talk to. Besides, all the friends I had in school don't associate with me anymore. Wesley was my best friend since 4th grade, but he hates me now because I'm asexual. No one would sit with me at lunch because they thought I was going to strangle them. Just because I'm non-social, everyone thinks I'm some sort of homocidal freak. *sigh*

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-08-2008, 09:12 AM

I'll be your friend. -CSM

Minukelsus · 05-08-2008, 09:28 AM

Hey cheer up mate, its not the end of the world just yet! I'm quite sure lots of people on this forum consider you a good friend, right? You remind me of my little brother! Who got so depressed with life he tragically committed suicide. You see he had no friends, and was bullied at school merely because he was different! He was dyslexic you see! Yet never would he tell me owt, always kept his feelings inside. Until that tragic day I found him dead... I miss my young brother so much, but I cannot bring him back... Everyday I visit his grave with a rose... I loved him dearly!!

Eagle Eye · 05-08-2008, 10:12 AM

Anti-sexual?

You mean like, you don't want sex as in abstinence? Or you don't like it period?

SephirothKirby · 05-08-2008, 03:11 PM

Maybe I don't know what antisexual means, because I don't quite see how it fits in your situation.

**X-3** · 05-08-2008, 04:43 PM

Call your friends. Arrange to meet/hang out with them or something. I don't think anyone hates you, so don't make yourself think anyone does.

Redshirt · 05-08-2008, 05:19 PM

Seeking Attention · 05-08-2008, 07:21 PM

Does Antisexual mean you don't have a sexuallity? Please elaborate.

Speed · 05-08-2008, 09:48 PM

I'm going through the same kind of thing DZ (Only Minus the Antisexual

)
I no longer go to school but I stil manage to see my friends as for your friend ditching you I can kind of relate my best friend Ryan started blowing me off to hang out with the "Cool Kids". What I did was get my mom to enroll me in some IT clases and I made lots of friends there. you should take a class about something that interests you sure way to make friends.

**Galefore** · 05-08-2008, 10:03 PM

Eh. I sometimes fret about a lack of solid friends, but a lot of people are hypocritical anyway. You sort of start to see that nobody you meet is ever completely trustworthy and 'there for you'. I'm pretty antisocial myself, but only because I choose to concentrate on my own benefit and not theirs. If you feel blown off or alone, trust me, there's a kindred spirit somewhere to relate to.

Metal Man · 05-08-2008, 10:58 PM

Perhaps he means asexual, which means having no desires of that kind whatsoever.

That said, I went for years without friends--until I hit College. Now I have friends in low and high places, and they even got me nominated for an academic honors award! So... remember that friendlessness is never permanent. Even dead people have fans if their name is remembered much.

Seeking Attention · 05-09-2008, 03:08 PM

Who wouldn't want sex?

Eagle Eye · 05-09-2008, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irby

Who wouldn't want sex?

.........I'm actually going to agree with Irby.

But your preferences are your preferences.

Seeking Attention · 05-09-2008, 03:41 PM

Yes. By the way DZ I'm not making fun of you or anything. Just so you know.

**Marchie** · 05-09-2008, 10:33 PM

Heh, sometimes when I'm depressed, I have the same problem, Im anti-social, and don't want to talk to anyone, that's just something that happens. Kids just don't understand that.

Now, asexual though? The hell, man? Haha, I use that as a term of not being interested in anyone myself.

***Heroine of the Dragon*** · 05-10-2008, 02:20 AM

Well, DZ is 14... Not everyone at 14 feels the same things... it's all a matter of upbringing and beliefs and personal things, too.

What I'm saying is, it's PERFECTLY okay to be asexual, DZ!!!

And you have friends... we're here. But I understand that you want friends to be social with. Well, friendship is one of those complicated things where you actually have to put time and effort in and be a friend yourself, as well. But you already know this, I bet!!!

I suggest that you work out your favourite interests offline, that can be done in a group... for example, sport... you might not be the athletic type, so think of things like ten pin bowling or whatever else you actually think you'll enjoy... then join a club. And go participate with other people.

You'll find that you'll make friends easier with people who share similar interests.

And as corny as it sounds, practice smiling... especially if you don't already!!! It's a known fact that people are attracted to others that seem to be smiling, displaying they're happy with themselves, if nothing else.

And, Wesley will hopefully become more tolerant of others differences as he grows up...

*gives you marshmallows*

Jesus · 05-10-2008, 11:24 AM

I find it wrong that you are now being home schooled after your parents find out you have aspergers. You need to overcome that and with home schooling it just makes it ten times worse.

Dizzy · 05-12-2008, 05:19 AM

That's not why I'm being home-schooled. And besides, that happened way before the Aspergers thing.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-12-2008, 10:59 AM

Why are you being homeschooled anyway (question mark)

Also, it's not like everyone who was homeschooled is antisocial. You can still go out and do fun things. -CSM

Dizzy · 05-12-2008, 03:10 PM

1. Beats me.
2. No. I live in the depths of nowhere. The nearest town is about 20 miles away.

05-08-2008, 05:46 AM	#1
Dizzy Podiaphobe Join Date: Oct 2007 Gender: Posts: 19,359 Thanks: 1,764 Thanked 1,161 Times in 804 Posts Blog Entries: 116	I don't have any friends. I don't go to school anymore, so I don't see many peers. I don't have anyone to actually talk to. Besides, all the friends I had in school don't associate with me anymore. Wesley was my best friend since 4th grade, but he hates me now because I'm asexual. No one would sit with me at lunch because they thought I was going to strangle them. Just because I'm non-social, everyone thinks I'm some sort of homocidal freak. sigh Last edited by Dizzy; 05-09-2008 at 05:38 AM. Reason: What MM said.

05-08-2008, 09:12 AM	#2
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	I'll be your friend. -CSM

05-08-2008, 09:28 AM	#3
Minukelsus Beautiful Radiant Flower Join Date: May 2008 Location: United Kingdom of Great Britain: (the Empire on which the sun never sets) Gender: Posts: 1,710 Thanks: 154 Thanked 98 Times in 88 Posts	Hey cheer up mate, its not the end of the world just yet! I'm quite sure lots of people on this forum consider you a good friend, right? You remind me of my little brother! Who got so depressed with life he tragically committed suicide. You see he had no friends, and was bullied at school merely because he was different! He was dyslexic you see! Yet never would he tell me owt, always kept his feelings inside. Until that tragic day I found him dead... I miss my young brother so much, but I cannot bring him back... Everyday I visit his grave with a rose... I loved him dearly!!

05-08-2008, 10:12 AM	#4
Eagle Eye Diddy bops Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Gender: Posts: 15,014 Thanks: 1,616 Thanked 1,084 Times in 597 Posts	Anti-sexual? You mean like, you don't want sex as in abstinence? Or you don't like it period?

05-08-2008, 03:11 PM	#5
SephirothKirby Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Those who criticize our generation forget who raised it. Gender: Posts: 7,213 Thanks: 373 Thanked 760 Times in 447 Posts	Maybe I don't know what antisexual means, because I don't quite see how it fits in your situation.

05-08-2008, 04:43 PM	#6
X-3 Useful as an Owl Join Date: Jan 2004 Gender: Posts: 15,943 Thanks: 753 Thanked 1,213 Times in 790 Posts Blog Entries: 10	Call your friends. Arrange to meet/hang out with them or something. I don't think anyone hates you, so don't make yourself think anyone does.

05-08-2008, 05:19 PM	#7
Redshirt Wiggidy Wack Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: A place with things Gender: Posts: 16,699 Thanks: 703 Thanked 1,006 Times in 695 Posts Blog Entries: 50

05-08-2008, 07:21 PM	#8
Seeking Attention Banned Join Date: Jul 2006 Gender: Posts: 0 Thanks: 489 Thanked 185 Times in 153 Posts	Does Antisexual mean you don't have a sexuallity? Please elaborate.

05-08-2008, 09:48 PM	#9
Speed Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: If there's a bright center to the universe I'm on the planet it's farthest from Gender: Posts: 3,747 Thanks: 1,598 Thanked 320 Times in 224 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I'm going through the same kind of thing DZ (Only Minus the Antisexual ) I no longer go to school but I stil manage to see my friends as for your friend ditching you I can kind of relate my best friend Ryan started blowing me off to hang out with the "Cool Kids". What I did was get my mom to enroll me in some IT clases and I made lots of friends there. you should take a class about something that interests you sure way to make friends.

05-08-2008, 10:03 PM	#10
Galefore EXPLOSION GOD OF MUSIC Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Some studio somewhere Gender: Posts: 8,275 Thanks: 1,361 Thanked 826 Times in 535 Posts Blog Entries: 5	Eh. I sometimes fret about a lack of solid friends, but a lot of people are hypocritical anyway. You sort of start to see that nobody you meet is ever completely trustworthy and 'there for you'. I'm pretty antisocial myself, but only because I choose to concentrate on my own benefit and not theirs. If you feel blown off or alone, trust me, there's a kindred spirit somewhere to relate to.

05-08-2008, 10:58 PM	#11
Metal Man Fairy-Slaying Maniac Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: 1592 Miles Away From Here Gender: Posts: 18,062 Thanks: 148 Thanked 683 Times in 482 Posts	Perhaps he means asexual, which means having no desires of that kind whatsoever. That said, I went for years without friends--until I hit College. Now I have friends in low and high places, and they even got me nominated for an academic honors award! So... remember that friendlessness is never permanent. Even dead people have fans if their name is remembered much.

05-09-2008, 03:08 PM	#12
Seeking Attention Banned Join Date: Jul 2006 Gender: Posts: 0 Thanks: 489 Thanked 185 Times in 153 Posts	Who wouldn't want sex?

05-09-2008, 03:41 PM	#14
Seeking Attention Banned Join Date: Jul 2006 Gender: Posts: 0 Thanks: 489 Thanked 185 Times in 153 Posts	Yes. By the way DZ I'm not making fun of you or anything. Just so you know.

05-09-2008, 10:33 PM	#15
Marchie Pokeman Master since 1999 Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Wiscaaaaaaaaaaansin/Michigan Gender: Posts: 16,647 Thanks: 1,442 Thanked 680 Times in 477 Posts	Heh, sometimes when I'm depressed, I have the same problem, Im anti-social, and don't want to talk to anyone, that's just something that happens. Kids just don't understand that. Now, asexual though? The hell, man? Haha, I use that as a term of not being interested in anyone myself.

05-10-2008, 02:20 AM	#16
*Heroine of the Dragon* The Grinnie Fool! ♥♥♥ VGFCodes Staff Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Twinklebutton Wintersprout Gender: Posts: 31,454 Thanks: 864 Thanked 851 Times in 632 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Well, DZ is 14... Not everyone at 14 feels the same things... it's all a matter of upbringing and beliefs and personal things, too. What I'm saying is, it's PERFECTLY okay to be asexual, DZ!!! And you have friends... we're here. But I understand that you want friends to be social with. Well, friendship is one of those complicated things where you actually have to put time and effort in and be a friend yourself, as well. But you already know this, I bet!!! I suggest that you work out your favourite interests offline, that can be done in a group... for example, sport... you might not be the athletic type, so think of things like ten pin bowling or whatever else you actually think you'll enjoy... then join a club. And go participate with other people. You'll find that you'll make friends easier with people who share similar interests. And as corny as it sounds, practice smiling... especially if you don't already!!! It's a known fact that people are attracted to others that seem to be smiling, displaying they're happy with themselves, if nothing else. And, Wesley will hopefully become more tolerant of others differences as he grows up... gives you marshmallows

05-10-2008, 11:24 AM	#17
Jesus Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Gender: Posts: 5,617 Thanks: 104 Thanked 139 Times in 101 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I find it wrong that you are now being home schooled after your parents find out you have aspergers. You need to overcome that and with home schooling it just makes it ten times worse.

05-12-2008, 05:19 AM	#18
Dizzy Podiaphobe Join Date: Oct 2007 Gender: Posts: 19,359 Thanks: 1,764 Thanked 1,161 Times in 804 Posts Blog Entries: 116	That's not why I'm being home-schooled. And besides, that happened way before the Aspergers thing.

05-12-2008, 10:59 AM	#19
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	Why are you being homeschooled anyway (question mark) Also, it's not like everyone who was homeschooled is antisocial. You can still go out and do fun things. -CSM

05-12-2008, 03:10 PM	#20
Dizzy Podiaphobe Join Date: Oct 2007 Gender: Posts: 19,359 Thanks: 1,764 Thanked 1,161 Times in 804 Posts Blog Entries: 116	1. Beats me. 2. No. I live in the depths of nowhere. The nearest town is about 20 miles away.