My girlfriends a sex addict

Minukelsus · 05-19-2008, 05:57 PM

Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive...

Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

Luigiman7 · 05-19-2008, 06:05 PM

thats a bad thing?

**Valigarmander** · 05-19-2008, 06:16 PM

^ You may as well be screaming "I'M A VIRGIN" right now.

If she's putting too much pressure on you, try talking it out with her. If she wants to hop in bed alllll the time, then make time so you can do other things. There's more to love than just sex. I dunno... tease her a little.

If you don't want to have sex, then just tell her no. Maybe, ask her why she's wanting it so much. Is this a sudden change, or something that's been going on for a while?

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-19-2008, 07:23 PM

I'm a man who nearly got raped once. So I can know how it feels. -CSM

Rainbow Dash · 05-19-2008, 07:32 PM

Not to be offensive or anything, but it's really hard to get raped by a woman. Was she just super strong and very forceful or what?

**Valigarmander** · 05-19-2008, 07:36 PM

^ "Rape" from woman-to-man is different than man-to-woman. Often times, when a man is "raped" it's usually more of a pressure thing than a physical attack.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-19-2008, 07:53 PM

Well, she was being violent. And I'm a softie. A huge softie. -CSM

Eagle Eye · 05-19-2008, 08:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kevrosini

Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive...

Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

Okay, #1, calm down

#2- TMI around line 4

#3- People get like that after a while due to a lack of sex, or just a random craving. I'd ask her what's the deal with the extreme horny moods lately and talk about it. If you're tired, I'd just let her ride to save yourself energy.

***Booyakasha*** · 05-19-2008, 08:21 PM

Pffffft.

***Cosmonautical*** · 05-19-2008, 08:26 PM

Don't look a gift-horse in the vagina.

Eagle Eye · 05-19-2008, 08:45 PM

Also, if you don't think about ejaculating, you won't.

At least, not too quickly.

**Valigarmander** · 05-19-2008, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crank Dat Shakira

Also, if you don't think about ejaculating, you won't.

...Really?

That sounds like a potential lifesaver.

**X-3** · 05-19-2008, 08:54 PM

I think you should confront her about this, I guess. There might be something behind this large amount of sex.

That's my advice, at least. I'm not very experienced with relationships(Thus, end result of my advice might end in heartbreak, tragedy and of course, drama), but it might be worth looking into. I guess.

Eagle Eye · 05-19-2008, 10:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Valigarmander

...Really?

That sounds like a potential lifesaver.

From what I've heard that kind of stuff is mostly mental (at least, premature is). It's worked for me in some cases, but not so much the next, mainly because telling yourself not to think about it while having sex makes you think about it.

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 05-19-2008, 10:13 PM

Talk to her about it, not us. Explain your needs and limits, listen to hers, etc etc etc.

Minukelsus · 05-19-2008, 10:34 PM

^ Ok, fair enough. Thanks all for the helpfull advice... Much appreciated!!!!

But personally I don't find it funny, but there yer go,eh. Sorry for wasting yer time, sorry for posting and sorry for joining. Bye!!!!

***Cosmonautical*** · 05-19-2008, 11:16 PM

Overreaction is awesome.

Minukelsus · 05-20-2008, 03:02 AM

^ Yeah awesome. Overreacting totally reaks of serious AWESOMENESS!!!! So true, so, so TRUE...

Jesus · 05-20-2008, 06:02 AM

I have to admit I get bored with having sex after a while as well. I'm always up for it, but it's mostly for her now.

Dizzy · 05-20-2008, 08:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds

Talk to her about it, not us. Explain your needs and limits, listen to hers, etc etc etc.

I don't know if you resolved your issue or not, but I'm going to agree with this. If she's still pressuring you, just explain to her that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she really cares about you, she'll respect your feelings and try not to pressure you to do anything you don't feel like.

05-19-2008, 05:57 PM	#1
Minukelsus Beautiful Radiant Flower Join Date: May 2008 Location: United Kingdom of Great Britain: (the Empire on which the sun never sets) Gender: Posts: 1,710 Thanks: 154 Thanked 98 Times in 88 Posts	My girlfriends a sex addict Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive... Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

05-19-2008, 06:05 PM	#2
Luigiman7 ヽ(◔ ◡ ◔)ノ.･ﾟ*｡･+☆ Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ~)´◡｀(~ Gender: Posts: 17,605 Thanks: 1,134 Thanked 1,012 Times in 713 Posts Blog Entries: 8	thats a bad thing?

05-19-2008, 06:16 PM	#3
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,700 Times in 2,580 Posts Blog Entries: 20	^ You may as well be screaming "I'M A VIRGIN" right now. If she's putting too much pressure on you, try talking it out with her. If she wants to hop in bed alllll the time, then make time so you can do other things. There's more to love than just sex. I dunno... tease her a little. If you don't want to have sex, then just tell her no. Maybe, ask her why she's wanting it so much. Is this a sudden change, or something that's been going on for a while?

05-19-2008, 07:23 PM	#4
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	I'm a man who nearly got raped once. So I can know how it feels. -CSM

05-19-2008, 07:32 PM	#5
Rainbow Dash been dreamin', i've been waitin' Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: a bomb-ass cloud house bachelorette pad Gender: Posts: 24,401 Thanks: 173 Thanked 1,179 Times in 716 Posts	Not to be offensive or anything, but it's really hard to get raped by a woman. Was she just super strong and very forceful or what?

05-19-2008, 07:36 PM	#6
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,700 Times in 2,580 Posts Blog Entries: 20	^ "Rape" from woman-to-man is different than man-to-woman. Often times, when a man is "raped" it's usually more of a pressure thing than a physical attack.

05-19-2008, 07:53 PM	#7
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	Well, she was being violent. And I'm a softie. A huge softie. -CSM

05-19-2008, 08:21 PM	#9
*Booyakasha* SuperMod of War Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Wisconsinland Gender: Posts: 9,945 Thanks: 157 Thanked 1,481 Times in 763 Posts	Pffffft.

05-19-2008, 08:26 PM	#10
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,151 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	Don't look a gift-horse in the vagina.

05-19-2008, 08:45 PM	#11
Eagle Eye Diddy bops Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Gender: Posts: 15,014 Thanks: 1,616 Thanked 1,084 Times in 597 Posts	Also, if you don't think about ejaculating, you won't. At least, not too quickly.

05-19-2008, 08:54 PM	#13
X-3 Useful as an Owl Join Date: Jan 2004 Gender: Posts: 15,943 Thanks: 753 Thanked 1,213 Times in 790 Posts Blog Entries: 10	I think you should confront her about this, I guess. There might be something behind this large amount of sex. That's my advice, at least. I'm not very experienced with relationships(Thus, end result of my advice might end in heartbreak, tragedy and of course, drama), but it might be worth looking into. I guess.

05-19-2008, 10:13 PM	#15
*Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds* Admin "mine.. not yours. NO. MINE." Epic Ladynerd Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Forteresse de Valois Gender: Posts: 28,504 Thanks: 1,658 Thanked 1,820 Times in 1,042 Posts	Talk to her about it, not us. Explain your needs and limits, listen to hers, etc etc etc.

05-19-2008, 10:34 PM	#16
Minukelsus Beautiful Radiant Flower Join Date: May 2008 Location: United Kingdom of Great Britain: (the Empire on which the sun never sets) Gender: Posts: 1,710 Thanks: 154 Thanked 98 Times in 88 Posts	^ Ok, fair enough. Thanks all for the helpfull advice... Much appreciated!!!! But personally I don't find it funny, but there yer go,eh. Sorry for wasting yer time, sorry for posting and sorry for joining. Bye!!!!

05-19-2008, 11:16 PM	#17
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,151 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	Overreaction is awesome.

05-20-2008, 03:02 AM	#18
Minukelsus Beautiful Radiant Flower Join Date: May 2008 Location: United Kingdom of Great Britain: (the Empire on which the sun never sets) Gender: Posts: 1,710 Thanks: 154 Thanked 98 Times in 88 Posts	^ Yeah awesome. Overreacting totally reaks of serious AWESOMENESS!!!! So true, so, so TRUE...

05-20-2008, 06:02 AM	#19
Jesus Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Gender: Posts: 5,617 Thanks: 104 Thanked 139 Times in 101 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I have to admit I get bored with having sex after a while as well. I'm always up for it, but it's mostly for her now.