Need Opinions

Brandon2390 · 12-29-2008, 12:58 PM

Alright, so I've been home for a few weeks for the holidays and everything and I went back to working for my parents a little bit at the restuarant doing serving for weddings and things. Well, a few weeks ago, I worked 2 events back to back. The first one was a wedding, and the second one was a holiday party. Anyway, after the wedding, some new people came in to replace the ones who were working the wedding, yet I stayed around for the whole day. One of the girls that came in for the holiday party I was really feeling. We started flirting basically the whole night, and she was very attractive. My mom let me leave a little early though since I had worked the whole day, and the girl was on the floor still working so I basically forgot about getting her number since I was so focused on leaving being tired as hell working a 13 hour day.

So I figure out an hour later that I never got the girl's number, and by this time the whole event is over, and she leaves. Now I know that my mom has her number cause it's her employee, but I'm thinking it's creepy to call her.

I realize the longer I wait, the more awkward it would be if I called her, but it turns out I waited a few weeks and am still contemplating it. I looked for her on myspace/facebook, but she doesn't have one. There's a slim chance that I will end up seeing her again over break as there's no more events planned until I'm back at school, and I probably won't be back for a couple months. I'm interested to hear opinions on this.

Swordmaster Link · 12-29-2008, 01:21 PM

Hm, that is tricky cause of the duration of time. How well does does your mom know her outside of the work relationship, if at all? It seems like calling might be the only option at this point, it's just a matter of the degree of awkwardness...based on how long you wait and how well your mom knows her. Wish I could be of more help.

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 12-29-2008, 06:52 PM

If you call, just make it a friendly thing. The more casual you make it, the less likely she'll take it as a creepy thing- just call and say hey, I remembered that it was fun to have you around at work, do you want to catch up and *insert appropriate entertainment* (have a coffee/see a movie with friends/go skating/whatever you do).

Good luck, dude.

12-29-2008, 12:58 PM	#1
Brandon2390 Veteran Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Connecticut Posts: 10,519 Thanks: 7 Thanked 30 Times in 22 Posts	Need Opinions Alright, so I've been home for a few weeks for the holidays and everything and I went back to working for my parents a little bit at the restuarant doing serving for weddings and things. Well, a few weeks ago, I worked 2 events back to back. The first one was a wedding, and the second one was a holiday party. Anyway, after the wedding, some new people came in to replace the ones who were working the wedding, yet I stayed around for the whole day. One of the girls that came in for the holiday party I was really feeling. We started flirting basically the whole night, and she was very attractive. My mom let me leave a little early though since I had worked the whole day, and the girl was on the floor still working so I basically forgot about getting her number since I was so focused on leaving being tired as hell working a 13 hour day. So I figure out an hour later that I never got the girl's number, and by this time the whole event is over, and she leaves. Now I know that my mom has her number cause it's her employee, but I'm thinking it's creepy to call her. I realize the longer I wait, the more awkward it would be if I called her, but it turns out I waited a few weeks and am still contemplating it. I looked for her on myspace/facebook, but she doesn't have one. There's a slim chance that I will end up seeing her again over break as there's no more events planned until I'm back at school, and I probably won't be back for a couple months. I'm interested to hear opinions on this.

12-29-2008, 01:21 PM	#2
Swordmaster Link Super Bodyguard & King of the Arcade Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Wherever you want me to be Gender: Posts: 32,132 Thanks: 253 Thanked 951 Times in 640 Posts Blog Entries: 2	Hm, that is tricky cause of the duration of time. How well does does your mom know her outside of the work relationship, if at all? It seems like calling might be the only option at this point, it's just a matter of the degree of awkwardness...based on how long you wait and how well your mom knows her. Wish I could be of more help.

12-29-2008, 06:52 PM	#3
*Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds* Admin "mine.. not yours. NO. MINE." Epic Ladynerd Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Forteresse de Valois Gender: Posts: 28,504 Thanks: 1,658 Thanked 1,820 Times in 1,042 Posts	If you call, just make it a friendly thing. The more casual you make it, the less likely she'll take it as a creepy thing- just call and say hey, I remembered that it was fun to have you around at work, do you want to catch up and insert appropriate entertainment (have a coffee/see a movie with friends/go skating/whatever you do). Good luck, dude.