I made a horrible mistake.

**Crazyswordsman** · 03-28-2009, 05:59 PM

There was this girl I really liked and who really liked me. I had her over last night. However, she wanted to spend tonight as well. I told her I was tired and wanted some alone time and asked if we could part ways. I forgot to tell her I was really tired from work this week, but I did tell her I had to get up early for my mom's birthday tomorrow.

When we got back from a walk I was really tired and collapsed. She left and I forgot to walk her back to the train station. She was really pissed and now I am too. I feel terrible. What should I do? -CSM

**X-3** · 03-28-2009, 06:09 PM

Call her and apologize if you haven't already. That seems like the best thing to do, I guess.

also, don't put up such a negative demeanor. Getting angry at yourself for making a small mistake isn't helping anyone. Case in point: "I made a horrible mistake." You're a nice guy, don't be so hard on yourself.

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 03-28-2009, 08:46 PM

Aww, that's not horrible, CSM. You made a mistake, and she got annoyed by it. Just apologise and explain why it happened (you were exhausted, no one can fault you that). Tell her you feel bad about it, and maybe offer to do something special to show her you care.

Remember, confidence is attractive. Do your best to avoid being too hard on yourself. Accept that you made a mistake, but know that you didn't purposefully do something mean, you know?

*hugs* You're a good guy, CSM.

**Crazyswordsman** · 03-28-2009, 10:40 PM

Thanks guys. We made up. And now we understand each other's needs. -CSM

***Cosmonautical*** · 03-29-2009, 02:35 AM

Damn. This is not even remotely "crime against god" material. CSM, I'm very disappointed.

03-28-2009, 05:59 PM	#1
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	I made a horrible mistake. There was this girl I really liked and who really liked me. I had her over last night. However, she wanted to spend tonight as well. I told her I was tired and wanted some alone time and asked if we could part ways. I forgot to tell her I was really tired from work this week, but I did tell her I had to get up early for my mom's birthday tomorrow. When we got back from a walk I was really tired and collapsed. She left and I forgot to walk her back to the train station. She was really pissed and now I am too. I feel terrible. What should I do? -CSM

03-28-2009, 06:09 PM	#2
X-3 Useful as an Owl Join Date: Jan 2004 Gender: Posts: 15,943 Thanks: 753 Thanked 1,213 Times in 790 Posts Blog Entries: 10	Call her and apologize if you haven't already. That seems like the best thing to do, I guess. also, don't put up such a negative demeanor. Getting angry at yourself for making a small mistake isn't helping anyone. Case in point: "I made a horrible mistake." You're a nice guy, don't be so hard on yourself.

03-28-2009, 08:46 PM	#3
*Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds* Admin "mine.. not yours. NO. MINE." Epic Ladynerd Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Forteresse de Valois Gender: Posts: 28,504 Thanks: 1,658 Thanked 1,820 Times in 1,042 Posts	Aww, that's not horrible, CSM. You made a mistake, and she got annoyed by it. Just apologise and explain why it happened (you were exhausted, no one can fault you that). Tell her you feel bad about it, and maybe offer to do something special to show her you care. Remember, confidence is attractive. Do your best to avoid being too hard on yourself. Accept that you made a mistake, but know that you didn't purposefully do something mean, you know? hugs You're a good guy, CSM.

03-28-2009, 10:40 PM	#4
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	Thanks guys. We made up. And now we understand each other's needs. -CSM

03-29-2009, 02:35 AM	#5
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,151 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	Damn. This is not even remotely "crime against god" material. CSM, I'm very disappointed.