I suck at this

CodenameV · 01-13-2010, 01:07 AM

Me and CL are no longer together. Basically, she fell out of love with me; that's all there is to it. I feel a bunch of different emotions, none of them good ones. :/ I might be taking a hiatus from VGF for a bit; I haven't decided yet. I guess I'm just doomed at relationships. 3 relationships; 3 being dumped. STRIIIIIIIKE THREE, I'm out. I'm just done with love for quite a long time. =/

Metal Man · 01-13-2010, 02:31 AM

You can't beat me, I've never had any such thing.

Trust me when I say it's not the end of the world.

***Ace Mercury*** · 01-13-2010, 07:39 AM

I think that the ladies have a better emotional support group behind them in these sort of circumstances. They get together, talk, have cheesecake and whathaveyou, and generally make themselves feel better. Guys? We're more about punching and making stupid jokes.

**Valigarmander** · 01-13-2010, 08:19 AM

Thanks a lot, X-3.

Anywho, as for the breakup, try not to let it get you too much. Once you've gotten over it, you can dust yourself off and try again. That's the way relationships work, you keep on trying. And you're always welcome here at VGF.

**LASER BEAR ASSAULT UNIT** · 01-13-2010, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by CodenameV

Me and CL are no longer together. Basically, she fell out of love with me; that's all there is to it. I feel a bunch of different emotions, none of them good ones. :/ I might be taking a hiatus from VGF for a bit; I haven't decided yet. I guess I'm just doomed at relationships. 3 relationships; 3 being dumped. STRIIIIIIIKE THREE, I'm out. I'm just done with love for quite a long time. =/

I don't know how man times I've said I'm done with love man, I really don't, it feels like it was a regular phrase I used for a long time, but, listen, people come, people go, it hurts, I know first hand it really does, and it feels like the world just tore your heart out. But. There's always a new day, always a new start, and really, if you give up on something, what's not to say all the oppertunities you'll miss? It hurts now, yeah, I know. But, believe me, the pain will eventually subside, and you'll be ready eventually.

Give me a shout via PM should you need someone or something like that.

*manhug*

Metal Mario · 01-13-2010, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Metal Man

You can't beat me, I've never had any such thing.

And you can't beat me. Not unless you're a 25-five-year-old (almost 26) virgin who's never even had a proper girlfriend.

Stop trying to be Metal Mario. You'll never be him.

***Ace Mercury*** · 01-13-2010, 12:19 PM

Does denigrating yourself actually make people feel better? I don't mean this as a snark; is this sort of emotional pain mitigated by saying "I'm so much worse off than you?"

Metal Mario · 01-13-2010, 01:12 PM

Brother, if I couldn't laugh at myself, I'd never stop crying.

CodenameV · 01-13-2010, 02:28 PM

Thanks for the support, guys. I'm probably not gonna leave VGF afterall. And besides, this isn't the end of the world. I'll just enjoy single life for a while, and I'll find the right girl at one point or another.

**LASER BEAR ASSAULT UNIT** · 01-13-2010, 02:32 PM

Not a prob, bro. Keep it chilled for a while.

Jere · 01-13-2010, 03:06 PM

Hang in there old Chap

User Name · 01-13-2010, 03:09 PM

Sorry to both of you.

Love seems like a difficult thing, but you've got your whole life ahead of you. This is just a chapter. I wish you both the best.

Panfan · 01-15-2010, 06:25 PM

Sad to hear this man. I've struck out on quite a few occasions (I'm pretty sure Satan first coined to phrase "I just want to be friends"), but hey, I've at least seemed to have gotten somewhat better at this relationshippy stuff and I'm sure you have too. Just keep your head up man.

I REALLY HATE POKEMON! · 01-15-2010, 06:30 PM

i herd chesecake

**X-3** · 01-15-2010, 09:06 PM

Sorry to hear about that. I don't think you should give up on love just yet, though. Stick around.

t3hDarkness · 01-15-2010, 11:57 PM

Cl has been really quiet lately too.

Pyropunk · 01-16-2010, 12:21 AM

awww sorry guys

Always a bummer to hear things don't work out but you guys will find good matches sooner or later ^___^

Metal Man · 01-20-2010, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Metal Mario

And you can't beat me. Not unless you're a 25-five-year-old (almost 26) virgin who's never even had a proper girlfriend.

Stop trying to be Metal Mario. You'll never be him.

You'll always be older than me by 4 years, and here at VGF for another extra year, so yes, you beat me in those departments.

It's still strange how many things we share in common.

01-13-2010, 01:07 AM	#1
CodenameV Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Mudkipland, CA Gender: Posts: 215 Thanks: 43 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts	I suck at this Me and CL are no longer together. Basically, she fell out of love with me; that's all there is to it. I feel a bunch of different emotions, none of them good ones. :/ I might be taking a hiatus from VGF for a bit; I haven't decided yet. I guess I'm just doomed at relationships. 3 relationships; 3 being dumped. STRIIIIIIIKE THREE, I'm out. I'm just done with love for quite a long time. =/

01-15-2010, 09:06 PM	#15
X-3 Useful as an Owl Join Date: Jan 2004 Gender: Posts: 15,943 Thanks: 753 Thanked 1,213 Times in 790 Posts Blog Entries: 10	All of this advice is late Sorry to hear about that. I don't think you should give up on love just yet, though. Stick around.

01-13-2010, 02:31 AM	#2
Metal Man Fairy-Slaying Maniac Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: 1592 Miles Away From Here Gender: Posts: 18,062 Thanks: 148 Thanked 683 Times in 482 Posts	You can't beat me, I've never had any such thing. Trust me when I say it's not the end of the world.

01-13-2010, 07:39 AM	#3
*Ace Mercury* Marshmallow Knight ☆ Supermod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Southern Ontario Gender: Posts: 23,274 Thanks: 568 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,582 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I think that the ladies have a better emotional support group behind them in these sort of circumstances. They get together, talk, have cheesecake and whathaveyou, and generally make themselves feel better. Guys? We're more about punching and making stupid jokes.

01-13-2010, 08:19 AM	#4
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,700 Times in 2,580 Posts Blog Entries: 20	Thanks a lot, X-3. Anywho, as for the breakup, try not to let it get you too much. Once you've gotten over it, you can dust yourself off and try again. That's the way relationships work, you keep on trying. And you're always welcome here at VGF.

01-13-2010, 12:19 PM	#7
*Ace Mercury* Marshmallow Knight ☆ Supermod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Southern Ontario Gender: Posts: 23,274 Thanks: 568 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,582 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Does denigrating yourself actually make people feel better? I don't mean this as a snark; is this sort of emotional pain mitigated by saying "I'm so much worse off than you?"

01-13-2010, 01:12 PM	#8
Metal Mario Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 1999 Gender: Posts: 16,435 Thanks: 72 Thanked 190 Times in 127 Posts	Brother, if I couldn't laugh at myself, I'd never stop crying.

01-13-2010, 02:28 PM	#9
CodenameV Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Mudkipland, CA Gender: Posts: 215 Thanks: 43 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts	Thanks for the support, guys. I'm probably not gonna leave VGF afterall. And besides, this isn't the end of the world. I'll just enjoy single life for a while, and I'll find the right girl at one point or another.

01-13-2010, 02:32 PM	#10
LASER BEAR ASSAULT UNIT Videos Mod Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In my pants Gender: Posts: 4,613 Thanks: 2,502 Thanked 767 Times in 422 Posts	Not a prob, bro. Keep it chilled for a while.

01-13-2010, 03:06 PM	#11
Jere Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sutme Gender: Posts: 3,648 Thanks: 404 Thanked 331 Times in 256 Posts Blog Entries: 3	Hang in there old Chap

01-13-2010, 03:09 PM	#12
User Name Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Gotham City Gender: Posts: 7,209 Thanks: 701 Thanked 536 Times in 367 Posts	Sorry to both of you. Love seems like a difficult thing, but you've got your whole life ahead of you. This is just a chapter. I wish you both the best.

01-15-2010, 06:25 PM	#13
Panfan AND HE PRAYS Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Grayskull Gender: Posts: 18,806 Thanks: 1,405 Thanked 2,247 Times in 1,337 Posts Blog Entries: 15	Sad to hear this man. I've struck out on quite a few occasions (I'm pretty sure Satan first coined to phrase "I just want to be friends"), but hey, I've at least seemed to have gotten somewhat better at this relationshippy stuff and I'm sure you have too. Just keep your head up man.

01-15-2010, 06:30 PM	#14
I REALLY HATE POKEMON! Goku lives on the Sun Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: California, U.S.A Gender: Posts: 12,717 Thanks: 1,334 Thanked 275 Times in 234 Posts Blog Entries: 1	i herd chesecake

01-15-2010, 11:57 PM	#16
t3hDarkness Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: I weep oily black tears of joy. Gender: Posts: 7,590 Thanks: 119 Thanked 418 Times in 306 Posts Blog Entries: 5	Cl has been really quiet lately too.

01-16-2010, 12:21 AM	#17
Pyropunk Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Orlando, FL Gender: Posts: 367 Thanks: 139 Thanked 26 Times in 25 Posts	awww sorry guys Always a bummer to hear things don't work out but you guys will find good matches sooner or later ^___^