I need a hug

Chewtoy · 05-10-2011, 05:44 PM

My girlfriend who I have been going out with for a couple weeks now, just broke up with me. Because she likes- get this -my best friend. And my best friend doesn't like her that way, which breaks her heart, which breaks my heart. My god. I'm depressed.

1-up Salesman · 05-10-2011, 06:21 PM

That's screwed up, man. I'm going to go ahead and say that if she would leave you, then she wasn't right for you anyway and your better off without her, rather than living life with a companion of unfaithful spirit. *hug*

User Name · 05-10-2011, 06:32 PM

Aww, I'm sorry, man. Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants anyway. *hugs* I hope things get better.

Jere · 05-10-2011, 06:38 PM

Triangle dramas is never fun, except if they involve cupcakes then they are hilarious but that's not important right now.

But hearing that your girlfriend are out for someone else can get to you but you should not get to depressed about it, especially since (this is what i get from it atleast correct me if im wrong please) she apperantly used you to get closer to your friend, her attraction towards your friend maybe rose after she got together with you but you but it's still a douche thing to do.

And in the long run, you will meet other nice people you might fall into a romantic relationship with (that's what i have been told at least).

Hope you can resolve this peacefully and still continue to be good friends!

And don't be depressed it doesn't fit anyone to drag their feet behind them.

Chewtoy · 05-10-2011, 06:53 PM

I know for a fact she wasn't using me since her and my bestfriend haven't met before we started dating. But still. I understand where she is coming from. She likes someone else now. It's not her fault she feels that way. I'm not angry at her, just sad that all the happy times we've had are coming to an end. It's hard to just move on.

Jere · 05-10-2011, 07:18 PM

It's always hard to move on, i had some great times with people this winter and when i was going down to the coast again it felt bad due to the fun times being over.

Something that need to be said though is that when i was driving out of town i cought up with one of the guys I used to hang with, we formed a short 130 Km/h fast convoy for a couple of miles then he had to take another route, last thing I did was to give him a thumbs up, a toothy grin and a glance over my sunglasses.

What i want to say with this... well.... i had something.... was it about custard pie... no.... ah now i remember:

Make the best of it!

Chewtoy · 05-10-2011, 07:42 PM

I guess. The thing that sucks about life is that it never stays the same. You might as well enjoy things while they last, because before you know it they'll be over.

1-up Salesman · 05-10-2011, 08:48 PM

Don't worry- I can tell from you not actually being too angry that you're very understanding and "sensitive" and that will be appreciated by others, boosting your chances with another, I suppose. Hang in there.

Life sucks, but then it doesn't. It's a big bipolar mess of crap, video games, religion, and something about dieting. PM me if you want, I would be glad to talk to you.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-10-2011, 09:08 PM

Do guys hug guys to cheer them up? In society, probably not, but I hate society's rules so I'll give you a hug.

And that REALLY sucks that she broke up with you because she likes your best friend better. Honestly, she's just really shallow. Think of her that way and know you're waaay better than she is. -CSM

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 05-10-2011, 10:08 PM

It sounds like she's just being inexperienced and young. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone makes poor decisions. I'm sorry to hear you've come out of this hurt, but give yourself some time, and it won't be as bad. *hugs*

CuccoLady · 05-10-2011, 11:53 PM

^ That.

You're being really kind and understanding of the whole situation, despite the pain, and that is very admirable. Keep your chin up and keep moving forward.

:{D

Zaden · 05-11-2011, 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crazyswordsman

... I hate society's rules. -CSM

Crazyswordsman says something I agree with! And I gotta quote it; I so ditto this. Society makes up crap that I facepalm so hard.

Well, Chewtoy, I'm not there with you in person. I hope the sentiment of an e-hug will do.

*hug*

Remember: Philanthropists will always love you!

P.S.: Oh gosh. I used "facepalm" as a transitive verb. I am succumbing to the Internet's speech patterns that I despise so much...

***Cosmonautical*** · 05-11-2011, 01:03 AM

You know what I like? Cake. I haven't left my wife because of that, so far. If she gets jealous, well, then we'll talk.

~le sigh

1-up Salesman · 05-11-2011, 10:11 AM

^Nicely done.

Pyropunk · 05-22-2011, 08:41 PM

(((((((hugs))))))) sorry to hear the chaos... hang in there... you're awesome and your soulmate is out there

It's just not time yet

lamarwisneski · 01-18-2012, 05:48 AM

Well you don't need to upset..Like she broke your heart,your friend broke her ...Even you should feel good that you got free with the cheater who cheats you and like your friend instead of you..You will get better than her..Be happy and live your life as much as you can..

**Galefore** · 01-18-2012, 08:32 PM

ZOMBIE THREAD

IT'S A BOOMER

OH GOD IT GOT BILE ALL OVER ME

05-10-2011, 05:44 PM	#1
Chewtoy Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: I live in my Minecraft world. Gender: Posts: 27 Thanks: 8 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I need a hug My girlfriend who I have been going out with for a couple weeks now, just broke up with me. Because she likes- get this -my best friend. And my best friend doesn't like her that way, which breaks her heart, which breaks my heart. My god. I'm depressed.

05-10-2011, 06:21 PM	#2
1-up Salesman Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Letting you guys know that I'm planning on continuing Attack of the Spammers soon. Gender: Posts: 4,095 Thanks: 2,162 Thanked 250 Times in 194 Posts Blog Entries: 9	That's screwed up, man. I'm going to go ahead and say that if she would leave you, then she wasn't right for you anyway and your better off without her, rather than living life with a companion of unfaithful spirit. hug

05-10-2011, 06:32 PM	#3
User Name Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Gotham City Gender: Posts: 7,209 Thanks: 701 Thanked 536 Times in 367 Posts	Aww, I'm sorry, man. Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants anyway. hugs I hope things get better.

05-10-2011, 06:38 PM	#4
Jere Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sutme Gender: Posts: 3,648 Thanks: 404 Thanked 331 Times in 256 Posts Blog Entries: 3	Triangle dramas is never fun, except if they involve cupcakes then they are hilarious but that's not important right now. But hearing that your girlfriend are out for someone else can get to you but you should not get to depressed about it, especially since (this is what i get from it atleast correct me if im wrong please) she apperantly used you to get closer to your friend, her attraction towards your friend maybe rose after she got together with you but you but it's still a douche thing to do. And in the long run, you will meet other nice people you might fall into a romantic relationship with (that's what i have been told at least). Hope you can resolve this peacefully and still continue to be good friends! And don't be depressed it doesn't fit anyone to drag their feet behind them.

05-10-2011, 06:53 PM	#5
Chewtoy Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: I live in my Minecraft world. Gender: Posts: 27 Thanks: 8 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I know for a fact she wasn't using me since her and my bestfriend haven't met before we started dating. But still. I understand where she is coming from. She likes someone else now. It's not her fault she feels that way. I'm not angry at her, just sad that all the happy times we've had are coming to an end. It's hard to just move on.

05-10-2011, 07:18 PM	#6
Jere Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Sutme Gender: Posts: 3,648 Thanks: 404 Thanked 331 Times in 256 Posts Blog Entries: 3	It's always hard to move on, i had some great times with people this winter and when i was going down to the coast again it felt bad due to the fun times being over. Something that need to be said though is that when i was driving out of town i cought up with one of the guys I used to hang with, we formed a short 130 Km/h fast convoy for a couple of miles then he had to take another route, last thing I did was to give him a thumbs up, a toothy grin and a glance over my sunglasses. What i want to say with this... well.... i had something.... was it about custard pie... no.... ah now i remember: Make the best of it!

05-10-2011, 07:42 PM	#7
Chewtoy Junior Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: I live in my Minecraft world. Gender: Posts: 27 Thanks: 8 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I guess. The thing that sucks about life is that it never stays the same. You might as well enjoy things while they last, because before you know it they'll be over.

05-10-2011, 08:48 PM	#8
1-up Salesman Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Letting you guys know that I'm planning on continuing Attack of the Spammers soon. Gender: Posts: 4,095 Thanks: 2,162 Thanked 250 Times in 194 Posts Blog Entries: 9	Don't worry- I can tell from you not actually being too angry that you're very understanding and "sensitive" and that will be appreciated by others, boosting your chances with another, I suppose. Hang in there. Life sucks, but then it doesn't. It's a big bipolar mess of crap, video games, religion, and something about dieting. PM me if you want, I would be glad to talk to you.

05-10-2011, 09:08 PM	#9
Crazyswordsman This key doesn't work. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 10,791 Thanks: 1,019 Thanked 686 Times in 467 Posts	Do guys hug guys to cheer them up? In society, probably not, but I hate society's rules so I'll give you a hug. And that REALLY sucks that she broke up with you because she likes your best friend better. Honestly, she's just really shallow. Think of her that way and know you're waaay better than she is. -CSM

05-10-2011, 10:08 PM	#10
*Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds* Admin "mine.. not yours. NO. MINE." Epic Ladynerd Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Forteresse de Valois Gender: Posts: 28,504 Thanks: 1,658 Thanked 1,820 Times in 1,042 Posts	It sounds like she's just being inexperienced and young. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone makes poor decisions. I'm sorry to hear you've come out of this hurt, but give yourself some time, and it won't be as bad. hugs

05-10-2011, 11:53 PM	#11
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	^ That. You're being really kind and understanding of the whole situation, despite the pain, and that is very admirable. Keep your chin up and keep moving forward. :{D

05-11-2011, 01:03 AM	#13
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,156 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	You know what I like? Cake. I haven't left my wife because of that, so far. If she gets jealous, well, then we'll talk. ~le sigh

05-11-2011, 10:11 AM	#14
1-up Salesman Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Letting you guys know that I'm planning on continuing Attack of the Spammers soon. Gender: Posts: 4,095 Thanks: 2,162 Thanked 250 Times in 194 Posts Blog Entries: 9	^Nicely done.

05-22-2011, 08:41 PM	#15
Pyropunk Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Orlando, FL Gender: Posts: 367 Thanks: 139 Thanked 26 Times in 25 Posts	(((((((hugs))))))) sorry to hear the chaos... hang in there... you're awesome and your soulmate is out there It's just not time yet

01-18-2012, 05:48 AM	#16
lamarwisneski Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Gender: Posts: 59 Thanks: 0 Thanked 5 Times in 4 Posts	Well you don't need to upset..Like she broke your heart,your friend broke her ...Even you should feel good that you got free with the cheater who cheats you and like your friend instead of you..You will get better than her..Be happy and live your life as much as you can..

01-18-2012, 08:32 PM	#17
Galefore EXPLOSION GOD OF MUSIC Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Some studio somewhere Gender: Posts: 8,275 Thanks: 1,361 Thanked 826 Times in 535 Posts Blog Entries: 5	ZOMBIE THREAD IT'S A BOOMER OH GOD IT GOT BILE ALL OVER ME