Saving My Girlfriend

Random User · 07-03-2011, 03:32 PM

So I have been in a relationship with a girl I met online for a month or so now after knowing her for three months. And so we were texting each other, as my parents decided not to take my texting away after all. She said she felt nervous and uneasy since she was out with friends in town at one in the mourning in the middle of town. I decided to stay up with her and text her to get her to feel at ease. She had met some guy earlier in the day that her friends wanted her to meet. They all found him and her and this guy, named Starr, they were alone since her group of friends left. She was nervous and I told her to tell me if he tries anything. I get a text seconds later saying "Help." So I call her as fast as I can, not knowing what else to really do, and she picks up and acts as if I'm her mother calling her home, then hung up.

Ten minutes I was worried about what had happened until she called. Her voice was really shaky, and she told me the guy had her pinned to the wall and had her pants down when I called and let her go since she had to go. If I hadn't called, I don't know what would've happened, but I don't really want to. But, wow. I just physically protected my girlfriend from hundreds of miles away.

She kept thanking me and I stayed on the phone with her until she got home safely. I felt pretty good afterwards.

***The Doctor*** · 07-03-2011, 03:53 PM

Epic. Well done.

Redshirt · 07-03-2011, 04:02 PM

That's awesome.

User Name · 07-03-2011, 06:24 PM

I think you did the best thing you could've done. I'm so glad it worked out. Mighty fine job, there.

CuccoLady · 07-03-2011, 08:17 PM

That's a giant PHEW if I ever heard one. Good job.

1-up Salesman · 07-03-2011, 10:16 PM

You're cool.

ZeldaGirl · 07-03-2011, 10:58 PM

1) Awesome work by you.

2) Have you spoken to her about reporting this guy? That's attempted sexual assault/rape, right there. That's serious stuff, and she has the opportunity to turn him in so he doesn't do that to anyone else. At the very least, she could probably talk to an officer or counselor and review her options.

***CaptHayfever*** · 07-04-2011, 12:05 AM

Might wanna suggest that she get some less douchey friends, too. They just abandoned her with a stranger?

And remember, "I'm-a Random User, number one!"

SephirothKirby · 07-04-2011, 12:23 AM

You did good, man.

Dizzy · 07-04-2011, 09:21 AM

*bequeaths to you a crown of awesome*

Vgfian · 07-04-2011, 11:13 AM

Great job, brah. *pats back* =) good goin.

***Cosmonautical*** · 07-04-2011, 12:06 PM

Yikes. Hope your girl's dealing with this well, bud. Make sure you bring up reporting him to the authorities, as ZG mentioned. No one should have to go through that kind of thing.

Random User · 07-04-2011, 12:19 PM

Yeah, she's been doing fine and doesn't think much of it now. I've asked her to tell her mom, but she's nervous about what her mother would say. I left it alone then, since she was still a bit shaken, but I'll talk to her about it again now that she's feeling better.

Redshirt · 07-04-2011, 12:41 PM

I've looked through this topic twice and I just now read the title as "Saving my Garfield"

and now back to you regular posting

I REALLY HATE POKEMON! · 07-04-2011, 01:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random Bohab

So I have been in a relationship with a girl I met online for a month or so now after knowing her for three months. And so we were texting each other, as my parents decided not to take my texting away after all. She said she felt nervous and uneasy since she was out with friends in town at one in the mourning in the middle of town. I decided to stay up with her and text her to get her to feel at ease. She had met some guy earlier in the day that her friends wanted her to meet. They all found him and her and this guy, named Starr, they were alone since her group of friends left. She was nervous and I told her to tell me if he tries anything. I get a text seconds later saying "Help." So I call her as fast as I can, not knowing what else to really do, and she picks up and acts as if I'm her mother calling her home, then hung up.

Ten minutes I was worried about what had happened until she called. Her voice was really shaky, and she told me the guy had her pinned to the wall and had her pants down when I called and let her go since she had to go. If I hadn't called, I don't know what would've happened, but I don't really want to. But, wow. I just physically protected my girlfriend from hundreds of miles away.

She kept thanking me and I stayed on the phone with her until she got home safely. I felt pretty good afterwards.

How does one discretely text for help while in the midst of a sexual assault?

Antisocial · 07-04-2011, 06:33 PM

^ Very carefully.

You are a good person, Sir Random User.

Glux · 07-04-2011, 06:59 PM

I wish I had some kind of physical award to present to you.

I REALLY HATE POKEMON! · 07-06-2011, 08:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Antisocial

^ Very carefully.

You are a good person, Sir Random User.

Well yeah, that goes without saying...

07-03-2011, 03:32 PM	#1
Random User Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Equestrian Republic of Spanglidesh Gender: Posts: 3,562 Thanks: 321 Thanked 195 Times in 143 Posts Blog Entries: 4	Saving My Girlfriend So I have been in a relationship with a girl I met online for a month or so now after knowing her for three months. And so we were texting each other, as my parents decided not to take my texting away after all. She said she felt nervous and uneasy since she was out with friends in town at one in the mourning in the middle of town. I decided to stay up with her and text her to get her to feel at ease. She had met some guy earlier in the day that her friends wanted her to meet. They all found him and her and this guy, named Starr, they were alone since her group of friends left. She was nervous and I told her to tell me if he tries anything. I get a text seconds later saying "Help." So I call her as fast as I can, not knowing what else to really do, and she picks up and acts as if I'm her mother calling her home, then hung up. Ten minutes I was worried about what had happened until she called. Her voice was really shaky, and she told me the guy had her pinned to the wall and had her pants down when I called and let her go since she had to go. If I hadn't called, I don't know what would've happened, but I don't really want to. But, wow. I just physically protected my girlfriend from hundreds of miles away. She kept thanking me and I stayed on the phone with her until she got home safely. I felt pretty good afterwards.

07-04-2011, 06:33 PM	#16
Antisocial Janitor Join Date: May 2000 Gender: Posts: 11,471 Thanks: 14 Thanked 1,296 Times in 536 Posts	Cellphones come through yet again. ^ Very carefully. You are a good person, Sir Random User.

07-03-2011, 03:53 PM	#2
*The Doctor* The Last Timelord. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In the TARDIS Gender: Posts: 13,880 Thanks: 915 Thanked 656 Times in 426 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Epic. Well done.

07-03-2011, 04:02 PM	#3
Redshirt Wiggidy Wack Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: A place with things Gender: Posts: 16,699 Thanks: 704 Thanked 1,006 Times in 695 Posts Blog Entries: 50	That's awesome.

07-03-2011, 06:24 PM	#4
User Name Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Gotham City Gender: Posts: 7,209 Thanks: 701 Thanked 536 Times in 367 Posts	I think you did the best thing you could've done. I'm so glad it worked out. Mighty fine job, there.

07-03-2011, 08:17 PM	#5
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	That's a giant PHEW if I ever heard one. Good job.

07-03-2011, 10:16 PM	#6
1-up Salesman Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Letting you guys know that I'm planning on continuing Attack of the Spammers soon. Gender: Posts: 4,095 Thanks: 2,162 Thanked 250 Times in 194 Posts Blog Entries: 9	You're cool.

07-03-2011, 10:58 PM	#7
ZeldaGirl Awesome member Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 15,896 Thanks: 1,130 Thanked 1,919 Times in 1,046 Posts	1) Awesome work by you. 2) Have you spoken to her about reporting this guy? That's attempted sexual assault/rape, right there. That's serious stuff, and she has the opportunity to turn him in so he doesn't do that to anyone else. At the very least, she could probably talk to an officer or counselor and review her options.

07-04-2011, 12:05 AM	#8
*CaptHayfever* Smash SuperMod Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: (n) - the place where I am Gender: Posts: 27,661 Thanks: 1,991 Thanked 2,486 Times in 1,513 Posts	Might wanna suggest that she get some less douchey friends, too. They just abandoned her with a stranger? And remember, "I'm-a Random User, number one!"

07-04-2011, 12:23 AM	#9
SephirothKirby Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Those who criticize our generation forget who raised it. Gender: Posts: 7,213 Thanks: 373 Thanked 760 Times in 447 Posts	You did good, man.

07-04-2011, 09:21 AM	#10
Dizzy Podiaphobe Join Date: Oct 2007 Gender: Posts: 19,359 Thanks: 1,764 Thanked 1,161 Times in 804 Posts Blog Entries: 116	bequeaths to you a crown of awesome

07-04-2011, 11:13 AM	#11
Vgfian Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Listening to Seeking 7 Seven and giving out free hugs. :) Gender: Posts: 6,862 Thanks: 2,433 Thanked 398 Times in 311 Posts	Great job, brah. pats back =) good goin.

07-04-2011, 12:06 PM	#12
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,100 Thanks: 2,156 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	Yikes. Hope your girl's dealing with this well, bud. Make sure you bring up reporting him to the authorities, as ZG mentioned. No one should have to go through that kind of thing.

07-04-2011, 12:19 PM	#13
Random User Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Equestrian Republic of Spanglidesh Gender: Posts: 3,562 Thanks: 321 Thanked 195 Times in 143 Posts Blog Entries: 4	Yeah, she's been doing fine and doesn't think much of it now. I've asked her to tell her mom, but she's nervous about what her mother would say. I left it alone then, since she was still a bit shaken, but I'll talk to her about it again now that she's feeling better.

07-04-2011, 12:41 PM	#14
Redshirt Wiggidy Wack Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: A place with things Gender: Posts: 16,699 Thanks: 704 Thanked 1,006 Times in 695 Posts Blog Entries: 50	I've looked through this topic twice and I just now read the title as "Saving my Garfield" and now back to you regular posting

07-04-2011, 06:59 PM	#17
Glux Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Home Gender: Posts: 7,122 Thanks: 647 Thanked 360 Times in 236 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I wish I had some kind of physical award to present to you.