Some one help me - Page 2

Bartman101 · 09-25-2006, 02:27 PM

^^do you?????????

Katyrna · 09-25-2006, 04:39 PM

Though you guys are dating currently, I just wanted to throw in a thought or two. I'm like her, sort of. There's this guy I've liked since last year, and sometimes I thought maybe he liked me, but lately, it was like "I doubt it." But I knew I wouldn't forgive myself if I said nothing like I did once in the past.

So I asked him out to Homecoming today after Psychology.

I don't think he could not know what I meant when I said, "Hey, this may be out of left field, but I was wondering if you wanted to go to Homecoming?" Maybe I startled him. He didn't bolt, at least, though you'd hope that as a senior, guys have matured a little since middle school... But anyway, there is a small possibility he didn't realize I was seriously asking him out. On the other hand, he might just not have known what to do.

So he says, "Well, I might be king..." while smiling, if maybe a hint unsure, maybe not, and distractedly messing with his phone in his hand. thing is, he's on the ballot for homecoming king. That's basically how things ended--I'd already used all my courage just asking him and we'd hit the stairs. It was time to go to Spanish.

So i didn't get a Yes. I didn't get a No. I didn't even get a maybe. At least it would be an ANSWER.

My moral? If a girl asks you out, try not to avoid it because you'll end up making her feel as lost as ever. It'd be nice if I thought his fudging was just him avoiding me because he was startled, not cuz he didn't want to. I dunno, but that's a little optimistic--and in my opinion, unrealistic. It's better to reject someone, albeit nicely, than leave them hanging like I am today, ugh... And now I dunno what to do tomorrow... xP

Bomby · 09-25-2006, 05:25 PM

^ Same goes to you girls.

Katyrna · 09-25-2006, 05:38 PM

Yeah, my bad. Thinking a little one-sidedly there.

Brandon2390 · 09-25-2006, 08:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rubber Band Man

Yes you are

Hope it all works out bartyboy

I would have said something but SML took the words out of my mouth.

09-25-2006, 02:27 PM	#21
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09-25-2006, 04:39 PM	#22
Katyrna Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Hiding in the band locker from the man with an air bazooka... Gender: Posts: 243 Thanks: 6 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Points: 3,581.39 Bank: 592.15 Total Points: 4,173.54 Donate	Though you guys are dating currently, I just wanted to throw in a thought or two. I'm like her, sort of. There's this guy I've liked since last year, and sometimes I thought maybe he liked me, but lately, it was like "I doubt it." But I knew I wouldn't forgive myself if I said nothing like I did once in the past. So I asked him out to Homecoming today after Psychology. I don't think he could not know what I meant when I said, "Hey, this may be out of left field, but I was wondering if you wanted to go to Homecoming?" Maybe I startled him. He didn't bolt, at least, though you'd hope that as a senior, guys have matured a little since middle school... But anyway, there is a small possibility he didn't realize I was seriously asking him out. On the other hand, he might just not have known what to do. So he says, "Well, I might be king..." while smiling, if maybe a hint unsure, maybe not, and distractedly messing with his phone in his hand. thing is, he's on the ballot for homecoming king. That's basically how things ended--I'd already used all my courage just asking him and we'd hit the stairs. It was time to go to Spanish. So i didn't get a Yes. I didn't get a No. I didn't even get a maybe. At least it would be an ANSWER. My moral? If a girl asks you out, try not to avoid it because you'll end up making her feel as lost as ever. It'd be nice if I thought his fudging was just him avoiding me because he was startled, not cuz he didn't want to. I dunno, but that's a little optimistic--and in my opinion, unrealistic. It's better to reject someone, albeit nicely, than leave them hanging like I am today, ugh... And now I dunno what to do tomorrow... xP

09-25-2006, 05:25 PM	#23
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09-25-2006, 05:38 PM	#24
Katyrna Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Hiding in the band locker from the man with an air bazooka... Gender: Posts: 243 Thanks: 6 Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts Points: 3,581.39 Bank: 592.15 Total Points: 4,173.54 Donate	Yeah, my bad. Thinking a little one-sidedly there.