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Curly Brace · 10-30-2006, 08:19 AM

Sean...just tell the woman. Shyness will get you nowhere in life, but a glass wall to see the world. No matter what you do, you cannot move forward because of that glass wall is in your way, and the more you see of what you want to do, the more thicker the glass gets. Just take a hammer, and smash it down, and be free. Don't strict yourself. That is never a healthy way of getting things done.

If you want something done, do it. Don't just sit their twiddling your thumbs, that isn't going to accomplish something. Your just going to feel so bad,

Lurch1982 · 10-30-2006, 06:12 PM

There's nothing that I can add that hasn't been said by a dozen people across two topics.

Seriously, don't ask for advice if you're going to make some lame excuses as to why you should remain in whatever emotional hole you've dug yourself into.

Thing is, if you're acting like an anti-social creep, she's not going to put her life on hold because you may or may not have feeling for her and may or may not ever tell her.

Regardless, the same advice from the previous topic applies here, and regardless of what anyone says, I'm sure you're going to find a lame excuse to throw any and all advice in the trash.

Codiekitty · 10-30-2006, 07:02 PM

I personally would've had the "you never tell her" line slowly descending. Although I think S1x was trying for that, but it kind of looks like he just lost his leveling.

Where are these lemmings going? The Super Nintendo Super Shire! Hop in line and follow them there!

***ZeldaGirl*** · 10-30-2006, 07:59 PM

Well, Sean, whatever you eventually decide, just remember this quote:

Quote:

Originally Posted by RENT

Forget regret, or life is yours to miss.... [there's] No day but today.

Swordmaster Link · 10-30-2006, 08:17 PM

I feel as if there are too many words being typed in this topic, here's a quick summation:

Just do it.

Trust me, it feels good, regardless of the outcome.

Chunky Kong12345 · 10-30-2006, 08:42 PM

SML, you missed the parts of Sean being ignorant of the advice.

**Sean P Kelly** · 10-30-2006, 09:36 PM

You know it's easy to say "tell her how you feel." It's common sense right?

Yeah, I'm sure it probably worked alright for you, but I can also guess that you probably had nothing to lose.

You are not somebody, who has gone through most of his life without that little thing called "friends."

You are not somebody, who feels envy at your siblings for being able to spend hours talking to people on MSN, while you only have family members + two others on your list.

You are not somebody, who goes out alone and feels depressed because of it.

I need whatever friends I got and I'm not going to risk loosing my ONLY friend at University over a little crush.

If the right time comes, I will gladly reveal my feelings to this girl, but I am not going to do it only to clear my conscience.

I just hope you can understand this.

Now, just close this topic, because I'm through with what you guys think.

Swordmaster Link · 10-30-2006, 10:00 PM

...until you make the next topic.

**Sean P Kelly** · 10-30-2006, 10:06 PM

^ When I say I'm through, I MEAN I'm through.

Valigarmander · 10-30-2006, 10:10 PM

...Why did you even ask for our advice if all you wanted to do was shoot it down?

Lorem Ipsum · 10-30-2006, 10:12 PM

Sean, you're pathetic. You post topics asking for help when we've already given you all the help we could. But really, why would you ask us for our damn opinions when you can't stand them? You're being ridiculous. How can you make such a dubious assertion that everyone else has friends when a large part of VGF is those people? Why do you think you're different than everybody else, Sean? We all have problems, and even though in real life you don't have friends, you have them on VGF. And you're damn sure not gaining many by acting so immature. Do you realize how many people have no friends in real life? The numbers are staggering, Sean. Your persecution complex ignores this simple fact. You aren't alone, you aren't a 'minority of one,' you lack friends so do so many other people. Maybe you should think of how other people live. Maybe you should realize that many members, like myself, are on VGF because we DON'T have friends in the real world. And you state that you have something to lose. As the rest of us don't? As the rest of us don't feel the cold, bitter pain of rejection? Can you honestly believe we all can afford to take chances? That everyone in the world is better off than you?
Some of us never HAD a chance.

Curly Brace · 10-30-2006, 10:16 PM

... *locks*

10-30-2006, 08:19 AM	#41
Curly Brace THE ALL AROUND YUMMIEST. Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Maryland Gender: Posts: 5,774 Thanks: 127 Thanked 116 Times in 82 Posts Points: 14,370.93 Bank: 37,251.94 Total Points: 51,622.88 Donate	Sean...just tell the woman. Shyness will get you nowhere in life, but a glass wall to see the world. No matter what you do, you cannot move forward because of that glass wall is in your way, and the more you see of what you want to do, the more thicker the glass gets. Just take a hammer, and smash it down, and be free. Don't strict yourself. That is never a healthy way of getting things done. If you want something done, do it. Don't just sit their twiddling your thumbs, that isn't going to accomplish something. Your just going to feel so bad, __________________ WHAT HAS SCIENCE DONE?!

10-30-2006, 10:16 PM	#52
Curly Brace THE ALL AROUND YUMMIEST. Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Maryland Gender: Posts: 5,774 Thanks: 127 Thanked 116 Times in 82 Posts Points: 14,370.93 Bank: 37,251.94 Total Points: 51,622.88 Donate	... locks __________________ WHAT HAS SCIENCE DONE?!

10-30-2006, 06:12 PM	#42
Lurch1982 Senior Member Join Date: May 2000 Location: Katrinaland, USA Gender: Posts: 9,092 Thanks: 117 Thanked 175 Times in 116 Posts Points: 23,564.73 Bank: 113,982.44 Total Points: 137,547.17 Donate	There's nothing that I can add that hasn't been said by a dozen people across two topics. Seriously, don't ask for advice if you're going to make some lame excuses as to why you should remain in whatever emotional hole you've dug yourself into. Thing is, if you're acting like an anti-social creep, she's not going to put her life on hold because you may or may not have feeling for her and may or may not ever tell her. Regardless, the same advice from the previous topic applies here, and regardless of what anyone says, I'm sure you're going to find a lame excuse to throw any and all advice in the trash.

10-30-2006, 07:02 PM	#43
Codiekitty Just Another Face in Red Jumpsuit Join Date: May 2001 Location: Lemmingland Gender: Posts: 19,143 Thanks: 121 Thanked 175 Times in 120 Posts Points: 41,750.72 Bank: 3,021,450.74 Total Points: 3,063,201.46 Donate	I personally would've had the "you never tell her" line slowly descending. Although I think S1x was trying for that, but it kind of looks like he just lost his leveling. Where are these lemmings going? The Super Nintendo Super Shire! Hop in line and follow them there!

10-30-2006, 08:17 PM	#45
Swordmaster Link Super Bodyguard & King of the Arcade Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Wherever you want me to be Gender: Posts: 29,488 Thanks: 211 Thanked 504 Times in 347 Posts Points: 430.64 Bank: 1,050,203.33 Total Points: 1,050,633.97 Donate	I feel as if there are too many words being typed in this topic, here's a quick summation: Just do it. Trust me, it feels good, regardless of the outcome.

10-30-2006, 08:42 PM	#46
Chunky Kong12345 The Eternally Overlooked Outcast Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: ogmftwbqq Gender: Posts: 16,295 Thanks: 61 Thanked 202 Times in 146 Posts Points: 954.52 Bank: 86,115.20 Total Points: 87,069.72 Donate	SML, you missed the parts of Sean being ignorant of the advice.

10-30-2006, 09:36 PM	#47
Sean P Kelly SMBHQ Mod Movies Mod Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Toronto, ON, Canada Gender: Posts: 3,214 Thanks: 9 Thanked 40 Times in 31 Posts Points: 171,634.76 Bank: 54,417.92 Total Points: 226,052.67 Donate	You know it's easy to say "tell her how you feel." It's common sense right? Yeah, I'm sure it probably worked alright for you, but I can also guess that you probably had nothing to lose. You are not somebody, who has gone through most of his life without that little thing called "friends." You are not somebody, who feels envy at your siblings for being able to spend hours talking to people on MSN, while you only have family members + two others on your list. You are not somebody, who goes out alone and feels depressed because of it. I need whatever friends I got and I'm not going to risk loosing my ONLY friend at University over a little crush. If the right time comes, I will gladly reveal my feelings to this girl, but I am not going to do it only to clear my conscience. I just hope you can understand this. Now, just close this topic, because I'm through with what you guys think.

10-30-2006, 10:00 PM	#48
Swordmaster Link Super Bodyguard & King of the Arcade Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Wherever you want me to be Gender: Posts: 29,488 Thanks: 211 Thanked 504 Times in 347 Posts Points: 430.64 Bank: 1,050,203.33 Total Points: 1,050,633.97 Donate	...until you make the next topic.

10-30-2006, 10:06 PM	#49
Sean P Kelly SMBHQ Mod Movies Mod Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Toronto, ON, Canada Gender: Posts: 3,214 Thanks: 9 Thanked 40 Times in 31 Posts Points: 171,634.76 Bank: 54,417.92 Total Points: 226,052.67 Donate	^ When I say I'm through, I MEAN I'm through.

10-30-2006, 10:10 PM	#50
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10-30-2006, 10:12 PM	#51
Lorem Ipsum Illuminatus Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Philadelphia, PA Gender: Posts: 8,256 Thanks: 208 Thanked 163 Times in 130 Posts Points: 2,501.00 Bank: 99,512.47 Total Points: 102,013.47 Donate	Sean, you're pathetic. You post topics asking for help when we've already given you all the help we could. But really, why would you ask us for our damn opinions when you can't stand them? You're being ridiculous. How can you make such a dubious assertion that everyone else has friends when a large part of VGF is those people? Why do you think you're different than everybody else, Sean? We all have problems, and even though in real life you don't have friends, you have them on VGF. And you're damn sure not gaining many by acting so immature. Do you realize how many people have no friends in real life? The numbers are staggering, Sean. Your persecution complex ignores this simple fact. You aren't alone, you aren't a 'minority of one,' you lack friends so do so many other people. Maybe you should think of how other people live. Maybe you should realize that many members, like myself, are on VGF because we DON'T have friends in the real world. And you state that you have something to lose. As the rest of us don't? As the rest of us don't feel the cold, bitter pain of rejection? Can you honestly believe we all can afford to take chances? That everyone in the world is better off than you? Some of us never HAD a chance.