Double Date Trouble

Link CDLVI · 02-15-2007, 11:09 PM

Ok, I have gotten over Gabby (Yea!

), and have been going quite smoothly, if you ask me. I almost have a new date (for she has kissed me once), named Cassie, and really like her. My best friend, Michael, my absolute best friend is going out with a girl I know, named Morgan. He said we needed to talk during lunch. I met him by the door, and he asked me if we could go on a double date (Him and Morgan, Me and Cassie). He said his mother gave him some money for his report card, and we would go to the movies. I told him it would be a 100% yes, but we had to ask our dates out first. Fourtunatly, they both said yes, and we are in the clear. We are both extremly nervous, and I would kind of like some advice. OMG, this is my first date I ever had. EVER. As sad as it is, i've never been on a date. So what do you think? Some advice would be nice (maybe even some for Michael). Thanks! (and wish me luck

)

Valigarmander · 02-15-2007, 11:33 PM

There isn't much I can say, seeing how I've never dated before either. I'd say, start out friendly, like any double date, but as things come to an end, pull apart a little and morph into a single date. You'll need for you two to be nice and alone for the real magic to happen. At least, that's what I think. I truly wish you the best.

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 02-16-2007, 09:00 AM

There's not a real lot to advise on. Being your first date, you don't need to worry at all about whether or not there's lots of making out, you know?

Wait until you're pretty comfortable before you make any moves, there's no point in feeling bad because you rushed for a kiss or whatever. Hold Cassie's hand when you're walking to show her you care, remember to smile a lot and if you want the date to go well, make sure you pay her the most attention. It's fine to have a good time with Michael and Morgan as well (don't ignore them outright XD), since they're you're friends and are there with you as well, but you want your lady to feel like she's the most important person to you.

That's probably about all I can say. If you wanted to pass on any suggestions to Michael, just make sure he knows to give his main attention to Morgan, also. Everyone likes being important. Even moreso on a double date.

Oh, and don't feel weird if the girls go off together for a little while. For some reason they seem to do that, so it must be fairly normal. Especially the "bathroom migration", when they all seem to go in together and return together. *shrug* (sorry, I don't do it myself, so I don't understand that very well, but I see it all the time)

Most of all, have a good time. Hope it goes really well ^_^

Acradius · 02-16-2007, 09:11 AM

Here's just a little advice: don't try to impress her with things that wouldn't build a relationship. For instance, intelligence is a definite relationship-builder, as is a good sense of humor. Impressing her by showing how many crayons you can stick up your nose is not.

Link CDLVI · 02-24-2007, 08:28 PM

I had like the best freaking time of my life

. We went to go see Norbit (A nice movie for some laughs and what not), and I was kissed once again. II took everyone's advice (exept Acradius's), and it worked really well. I thought it was nice, but before the movie ended (say, about 15 minutes before), the unthinkable happened...

"Do you want to be my boyfriend"?

My mind went blank. I had no idea what to say. I could have swore for a moment, my heart stopped. All I could think was "OMGITHINKIHAVEAGIRLFRIENDLIEKWHATSHOULDIDOATTHISM OMENTEXEPTBEREALLYQUIETANDSAYYESBUTICANTBECAUSEIMS OSPEECHLESS". After like 5 minutes of silence, I said yes. So woot. Thank you everyone, so much!

Valigarmander · 02-24-2007, 09:03 PM

KICK ASS! Good for you.

Sir Delicious Rightfoot · 02-24-2007, 09:15 PM

I didn't share advice with you, but I passed on my sexy uberness to you mentally. Good job.

02-15-2007, 11:09 PM	#1
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02-24-2007, 08:28 PM	#5
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02-24-2007, 09:15 PM	#7
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02-15-2007, 11:33 PM	#2
Valigarmander Frankly, more awesome than you. Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Either UN's bed or Andre's bed. Gender: Posts: 12,868 Thanks: 764 Thanked 1,272 Times in 638 Posts Points: 99.27 Bank: 114,439.15 Total Points: 114,538.42 Donate	There isn't much I can say, seeing how I've never dated before either. I'd say, start out friendly, like any double date, but as things come to an end, pull apart a little and morph into a single date. You'll need for you two to be nice and alone for the real magic to happen. At least, that's what I think. I truly wish you the best.

02-16-2007, 09:00 AM	#3
*Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds* Admin "mine.. not yours. NO. MINE." Epic Ladynerd Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Forteresse de Valois Gender: Posts: 23,558 Thanks: 248 Thanked 351 Times in 216 Posts Points: 64,956.48 Bank: 130,971.20 Total Points: 195,927.68 Donate	There's not a real lot to advise on. Being your first date, you don't need to worry at all about whether or not there's lots of making out, you know? Wait until you're pretty comfortable before you make any moves, there's no point in feeling bad because you rushed for a kiss or whatever. Hold Cassie's hand when you're walking to show her you care, remember to smile a lot and if you want the date to go well, make sure you pay her the most attention. It's fine to have a good time with Michael and Morgan as well (don't ignore them outright XD), since they're you're friends and are there with you as well, but you want your lady to feel like she's the most important person to you. That's probably about all I can say. If you wanted to pass on any suggestions to Michael, just make sure he knows to give his main attention to Morgan, also. Everyone likes being important. Even moreso on a double date. Oh, and don't feel weird if the girls go off together for a little while. For some reason they seem to do that, so it must be fairly normal. Especially the "bathroom migration", when they all seem to go in together and return together. shrug (sorry, I don't do it myself, so I don't understand that very well, but I see it all the time) Most of all, have a good time. Hope it goes really well ^_^

02-16-2007, 09:11 AM	#4
Acradius Member Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Where Time, Space and Reality fade, and there is left only the mind... Gender: Posts: 934 Thanks: 20 Thanked 25 Times in 19 Posts Points: 13,218.25 Bank: 20,352.66 Total Points: 33,570.92 Donate	Here's just a little advice: don't try to impress her with things that wouldn't build a relationship. For instance, intelligence is a definite relationship-builder, as is a good sense of humor. Impressing her by showing how many crayons you can stick up your nose is not.

02-24-2007, 09:03 PM	#6
Valigarmander Frankly, more awesome than you. Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Either UN's bed or Andre's bed. Gender: Posts: 12,868 Thanks: 764 Thanked 1,272 Times in 638 Posts Points: 99.27 Bank: 114,439.15 Total Points: 114,538.42 Donate	KICK ASS! Good for you.