I'm a ****ing over emotional tw*t..

[MASALOBOTOMY]

Jacob says:
Basicly, I think that I am too protective, a little bit crazy about you and I'm afraid I'll loose you cause of that >:
Jacob says:
do you understand what I'm saying >:
Jacob says:
the thing is, I never EVER want to loose you >:
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
what if I turn into a bitch and you get bored of me?
Jacob says:
I won't get bored of you
Jacob says:
That's the thing
Jacob says:
I doubt you'll become a bitch 100%
Jacob says:
cause tbh, yout the best thing that ever has happened to me, and I love you more than anything >:
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
I might
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
Just if I ever have to leave you, I dont want to think you'll be devistated
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
It makes me sared
Jacob says:
so, are you feeling like your being forced to stay with me?
Jacob says:
Due to that fear
Jacob says:
?
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
no
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
I'm saying that one day I might have to leave you for some reason
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
and it scares me how it'll leave you if that ever happens
Jacob says:
I will be devistated. That's correct
Jacob says:
under what circumstances would you leave me, anyway?
Jacob says:
I never want it to happen, but at occasion, I get a bad feeling that it will eventually. >.<
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
All good things come to an end
Jacob says:
are you implying...?
Jacob says:
or am I being an idiot
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
implying what?
Jacob says:
gah
Jacob says:
here's the question I've been wanting to ask for ages, but I've been scared
Jacob says:
Do you really love me, like are you IN love with me, would you wanna spend forever with me, please I want a 100% truthful answer
Jacob says:
please. 100% truth
Lucfier Tarantula (Trust me, I watched a video about this in year four and they said you shouldnt keep it a secret...) says:
I do love you, I love you more than anyone else I've ever met, but I'm only sixteen and I am scared of commitment, I love you so so so much but I'm scared one day I wont. Not the consiquence of not loving you, but I'm young and indiciciv and I'm scared I'll fall out of love one day and I dont want that to happen.



Guys, I've actually fallen in love with this girl, and I know loads of you are thinking I havn't, but I damn well have, I'm scared I'll lose her, and I'm actaully crying over it as I type this down, sorry I need to tell someone my problems...

[The Joker]

1. Don't Cry

2. Loosing her will hurt much like it hurts now...... you will not die

3. Never make it seem that you are so in love with some one that they have to worry about your health if they ever leave you. Who wants a girlfriend that doesn't love you any more but stays with you only because she’s afraid that leaving you would drive you to hurting yourself.

4. It's never good when the feeling you have for some one doesn't change or perhaps gets stronger, while the other persons feelings for you become complicated less intense or altogether something that frightens them.

5. You will fall in love again I promise you at your age you have plenty more love to give

6. Be happy with the time you were able to share with her and don't ruin them by trying to keep having those moments if she isn't willing to be with you any longer.

7. Your young but because your young doesn't mean that you can't love so don't let anyone say your love isn't real

8. You both have a lot more time to live your lives and love and loose and hurt so don't rush this so much.

9.Especially seeing as she's the one who actually recognizes that she's young and knows that "feelings" much like "people" can change with time. Respect her decision and don't make her feel bad for feeling the way she does, that will only serve to alienate you as a friend and make her feel guilty.

10. It looks like staying friends is a definite possibility here, so if she doesn't want to be your girl any more than JUST be her friend. If you truly love her like you say you do, then you will be willing to stay friends rather than cut her out of your life like a pair of shoes that do not fit anymore.

[Princess Zelda of Hyrule]

^What he said. You're not overemotional. Don't blame yourself for something you can't control.

[MASALOBOTOMY]

Thanks for the advice guys, but now, apperently she thinks I hate her! ARGH!! How the F*CK can this get any worst?!

[Princess Zelda of Hyrule]

It could get worse. Trust me.

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by Joker

1. Don't Cry

2. Loosing her will hurt much like it hurts now...... you will not die

3. Never make it seem that you are so in love with some one that they have to worry about your health if they ever leave you. Who wants a girlfriend that doesn't love you any more but stays with you only because she’s afraid that leaving you would drive you to hurting yourself.

4. It's never good when the feeling you have for some one doesn't change or perhaps gets stronger, while the other persons feelings for you become complicated less intense or altogether something that frightens them.

5. You will fall in love again I promise you at your age you have plenty more love to give

6. Be happy with the time you were able to share with her and don't ruin them by trying to keep having those moments if she isn't willing to be with you any longer.

7. Your young but because your young doesn't mean that you can't love so don't let anyone say your love isn't real

8. You both have a lot more time to live your lives and love and loose and hurt so don't rush this so much.

9.Especially seeing as she's the one who actually recognizes that she's young and knows that "feelings" much like "people" can change with time. Respect her decision and don't make her feel bad for feeling the way she does, that will only serve to alienate you as a friend and make her feel guilty.

10. It looks like staying friends is a definite possibility here, so if she doesn't want to be your girl any more than JUST be her friend. If you truly love her like you say you do, then you will be willing to stay friends rather than cut her out of your life like a pair of shoes that do not fit anymore.

That is perhaps the gayest ...ish I have ever wrote...that’s like Liberace gay….totally gay…

[Kil'jaeden]

I'm not one to give advice about controlling emotions, but oh well.

I'd say this is not a good sign. Is she trying to hint at something there?

On the other hand, I've seen something like this before (I was/am in the middle of two friends) and it turned out OK, so maybe it'll be fine.

Just keep your head about you. Nothing's fallen yet.

[Super Murdero Bros.]

Dude, if you think you're a ****ing over-emotional tw*t, then you should have seen me the past year. It's been almost a year since my first girlfriend broke up with me, and I spent more than half of it bitching, whining, moping, crying and thrashing myself over the stupid thing. Don't put yourself down for this.

Now, here's a fact, and your girlfriend is great to be brave enough to admit it, but most teenage relationships fail. That isn't to say yours will, but I just think she's worried that one day you'll split up. In today's world where most relationships last about as long as a bag of Oreo cookies, it's hard not to contemplate, "What if our relationship will end the same way?"

Man, she loves you, you know that, she knows that, and I know that just by reading what she wrote. She doesn't want to leave you, but she's just feeling a little doubt. Does this mean your relationship is going to break apart? NO. If she's feeling worried about how your relationship is going to turn out, just reassure her. Do something special for her. Write her a poem, take her out on a date, buy her something really nice. Just hold her in your arms, and tell her how much you really care about her, and that she doesn't need to worry about those kind of things, ever. If you really do love this girl, and you want to be hers forever, nows the time to show it. If she really does love you back, she'll hear you and realize that your time together is far from over.

Inability to communicate easily can kill a relationship. It's what happened to me and Jessi last year. There were problems, but we didn't vocalize them, we both felt doubts, but we didn't reassure each other, and then we separated. Don't let this happen to you, man, you don't deserve that. Make every moment with her count, for you and for her.

Hope I've helped, bro. Good luck.

[User Name]

^Val is completely right. I know what it's like to doubt a relationship. I know that it's easy to convince yourself that it isn't going to work no matter what the circumstances are. You both have to know that it'll work. If not, there's really no point in trying. If you think it will last, convince her of the same thing. Like Val said, do something special to draw the attention back to you instead of her doubts.

If you think she's right in thinking that eventually it will fail, at least be happy with the time you had with her. Don't think of it as a negative thing. That will only drag you into a dark place. Instead, focus on what went wrong and the good times you had and work harder on your next relationship. Learn from this experience. It may seem horrible now, but in the long run you won't regret being in the relationship no matter how long it was. You're learning.

I hope things work out for you in a way that you can learn new things and also be happy in the long run.

[DELICIOUS POISON]

Honestly, it's just your own insecurity. You've realized that there's a possibility that you will one day separate, but you haven't thought carefully about why. Why would you? Because the relationship isn't working out? That's kind of a cop-out. It has more to do with people not paying enough attention to see what they need to change. You should be making her comfortable just as she should be to you, and not worrying about being separated.

Basically, just be honest about your thoughts and your feelings. Think things through. It'll be easy.

[Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds]

Everyone wonders about breaking up in a long-term/serious relationship.
You wonder what you'll do if it happens.
You wonder how you could ever find someone else to care about.
You wonder how upset the other person is going to be, and because you're thinking about it while you DO love them, it makes you hurt all weird inside.

You can't imagine them not being a part of your life, and you definitely can't imagine them not loving you anymore.

All of it just makes you sad...

THEN you stop and go, "oh my god!" and begin wondering if there's something wrong with you, or the person you love, or the relationship.
You're stuck wondering WHY you're thinking about what would happen if you broke up.
You wonder if this means you don't love them as much anymore. If maybe, this is the beginning of the end already.

You know the worst part, though? You know you're wondering about a very real possibility. And it really gets scary, then.

However, nothing wrong with you or her, or the relationship if you're just thinking about what might happen. It's all normal things to think about, everyone contemplates the future, and as long as you genuinely want the relationship to work, there's always a great possibility that it will. Even if you are young, it can still work out wonderfully for both of you.

It's true, you need to communicate. The fact that your lady is willing to tell you she's scared of this is a really good sign, in fact. She trusts you. She's open with you. And while you should be honest, you also need to find in yourself the ability to ALSO truthfully tell her that you will eventually be okay if she were to stop loving you. Life does go on after a sad event, but you can't live waiting for the crash.

Let her know you love her, and you trust her, and that you don't have to worry about breaking up until one of you actually needs to. She cares about you, obviously, so just focus on that.

Good luck, Masa. *hugs*