Sweet bleeding Jesus...

**Booyakasha** · 12-11-2007, 10:18 PM

...all right. This past year, I'd been going out with a girl fairly steadily. It wasn't a 'hey, we're getting married eventually' kind of thing. Just laughs, right? Nothing physical, aside from some necking. When I leave for camp for the summer, everything seems fine. Well, in July, while I'm away, she calls me up there and breaks things off with me. Standard female breaking-up line of crap--'I need someone who can be there for me', 'let's still be friends', blah blah blah. It hurt, but I had my scouting pals to see me through. I got over it.

So tonight, I'm at the Blockbuster, and she walks in with a good friend of mine from high school, and she's extremely, extremely pregnant. Like, busting at the seams pregnant. Now, it doesn't take a statistician to realise that the math is f*cked here--December minus eight-odd months pregnant doesn't equal goddamn July or later. This is raw.

So I'm standing there in goddamn Blockbuster, watching the two of them. It's obvious they're a couple. I'm so angry I'm shaking. I step into the same row as them, and say, 'What the hell is going on?' They see me, and they apparently see something they don't like, because they put down their crap, back away, and head for the door. I follow them out (I probably shouldn't have), and as they're getting to my friend's car, I yell at them, 'F*ck both of you traitors!' They drive off.

And I didn't feel like going back into the Blockbuster after that, so I just left and walked around in the snow for a while and then came home. I haven't eaten anything. I can't sit still--studying's out. I feel like breaking something or punching the wall. There's no booze in the house. I don't know what the hell to do with myself. I'm sorry.

**Wyborn** · 12-11-2007, 10:25 PM

Hey, that ****ing sucks. I'm sorry to hear that, buddy.

If you got a real-life friend you can call and talk to for a while, it'll help.

I don't know what else to tell you. Can't imagine many worse things than that when it comes to reflecting on a relationship.

But hey, at least it's not something that you yourself were roped into, right? Slightly better than you getting stuck with the little bastard (literally).

**Booyakasha** · 12-11-2007, 10:27 PM

Thanks, man.

**Wyborn** · 12-11-2007, 10:31 PM

Yeah. You're gonna hear from a lot of people in this topic in the next hour or two, but it's pretty much guaranteed that nobody here is going to be able to empathize with the sheer weight of what you just experienced. That's seriously ****ed up.

But it is over, right? Not something you still need to deal with. Coping with that betrayal is ongoing but for all intents and purposes the event is behind you; it'll take a while, but you'll feel better before too long.

Galefore · 12-11-2007, 10:31 PM

Backstabbing? As much as that sounds horrendous, I'd be worried whether or not that baby may have any connections to yourself. I doubt it, but just to clear up the story.

Anyway, I'd say to try and forget it. Unless the baby is yours, you'll never have to see or worry about those two again. But then again, maybe that's what has you worried.

My advice is pretty useless here, but I'd say you should either forget it as best you can or try to talk to them about it. Don't lose your cool, bro. Try to keep yourself under control and find a solution.

But man, I feel for you. Hope everything gets worked out.

**Dylan** · 12-11-2007, 10:34 PM

Ouch, man. Just ouch. I don't even really know how to throw out any advice on how to deal with them.

Whatever you do, man, don't do anything to hurt you or them. The best thing you can do is just forget them. F**k them. You don't need them in your life.

-Dylan

**Wyborn** · 12-11-2007, 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jolly Ol' St. Galefore

Backstabbing? As much as that sounds horrendous, I'd be worried whether or not that baby may have any connections to yourself. I doubt it, but just to clear up the story.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Booyakasha

Nothing physical, aside from some necking.

**Booyakasha** · 12-11-2007, 10:35 PM

Baby isn't mine. We never did anything that would get her pregnant. Baby's either my dirtbag friend's or someone else's.

EmoCL · 12-11-2007, 10:37 PM

That sucks. Nothing hurts more than betrayal... I know this, but not nearly as deeply as you.

I'm so sorry this has happened to you... just try to move on and realize that not all us girls are ****ing whores; I know sometimes you lose faith in everything, but I assure you that it'll all work out.

You get out of life what you put into it, I am a firm believer in this. And that means that, despite the hardships, you (being a kind and good person) will end up happy and successful... take my word for it; she didn't deserve you.

I hope you can get over this soon; best to move on to better things than dwell on the past.

I'm so sorry about this; hope things get better. *hugz*

SilverWind · 12-11-2007, 10:42 PM

Jesus, Boo. >_< That's terrible. I... don't know what to say.

Seriously, you did no fault. Don't beat yourself over it. Go out and booze with your friends for a night (don't do it alone!), and try to get it off your mind. She wasn't worth it, and you shouldn't get hung up on it.

Brandon2390 · 12-11-2007, 10:56 PM

Good god, that's awful man. It's over now though, you were able to get over her before, and you can again, not that it's the same thing. Best to just try to forget about it I guess..best advice I can give.

**Booyakasha** · 12-11-2007, 11:37 PM

Went out to shovel snow, and fielded a phone call from her just as I was coming back in. She was crying when I picked up, so I hung up on her. I know, it isn't nice, but that crying trick isn't fair play either. And even if she isn't just trying to jedi me, well, I could give a damn anyway.

Thanks, everyone. I don't like to share out my troubles like this, but I didn't know what else to do--I mean, the streets were empty, the house was empty, and it's so quiet after a heavy snowfall. I felt all alone, like, and didn't know what else to do.

Everybody Nose · 12-11-2007, 11:43 PM

You were in the right to hang up man. I've been through a similair situation, and it's no fun. My cousin used to have a punching bag for such events (takes away SO much stress), but whatever.

There's really nothing that can be said other than the fact that she was a lying, cheating bitch (excuse my french for a sec). She didn't deserve you, you don't deserve her, wham, end of story.

Platinum · 12-11-2007, 11:50 PM

Wow! just wow! That is crazy, but some girls are like that... you didn't need her anyway, you don't want to be with something like that.

EmoCL · 12-11-2007, 11:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Booyakasha

Thanks, everyone. I don't like to share out my troubles like this, but I didn't know what else to do--I mean, the streets were empty, the house was empty, and it's so quiet after a heavy snowfall. I felt all alone, like, and didn't know what else to do.

Isn't that what this forum is for?

We're all always here for you, man. Good luck with all this.

***ZeldaGirl*** · 12-12-2007, 12:35 AM

Sheesh, man, I am so sorry for you! That his horrible, and I don't blame you for feeling this way. But, to echo Wy, at least it's out of your hands - if she's going to be that kind of person, then you dodged a bullet. So, yeah, it hurts now, but in the long run, you been spared a whole hell of a lot of trouble.

But still, because it sucks ANYWAY:

* ZeldaGirl hugs Boo.

Pyropunk · 12-12-2007, 01:24 AM

wtf is this the year of messed up relationships? dude i am SO sorry to hear this crap is going on!!! What a lame wench to do that, u don't need her at all if she's like that, you're better of WAY better off man.

**HUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSS**

The Doctor · 12-12-2007, 05:27 AM

Something is seriously wrong with people nowadays. Sorry to hear about it Boo. All I can offer is that you're better of without someone like her, and your Ex-friend too.

DELICIOUS POISON · 01-03-2008, 07:41 PM

Well, it might sound insensitive, but I guess that was a real dead-end in life you're probably better off not having taken. Power to you.

Let it be known that we mighty nerdz of the webz are behind you all the way, Boo, with out pointy mouse cursors clicking fervently and wildly enough to shake the very chairs we slouch upon.

12-11-2007, 10:18 PM	#1
Booyakasha Mod of War Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Wisconsinland Gender: Posts: 6,893 Thanks: 77 Thanked 370 Times in 235 Posts Points: 12,027.24 Bank: 26,696.25 Total Points: 38,723.49 Donate	Sweet bleeding Jesus... ...all right. This past year, I'd been going out with a girl fairly steadily. It wasn't a 'hey, we're getting married eventually' kind of thing. Just laughs, right? Nothing physical, aside from some necking. When I leave for camp for the summer, everything seems fine. Well, in July, while I'm away, she calls me up there and breaks things off with me. Standard female breaking-up line of crap--'I need someone who can be there for me', 'let's still be friends', blah blah blah. It hurt, but I had my scouting pals to see me through. I got over it. So tonight, I'm at the Blockbuster, and she walks in with a good friend of mine from high school, and she's extremely, extremely pregnant. Like, busting at the seams pregnant. Now, it doesn't take a statistician to realise that the math is fcked here--December minus eight-odd months pregnant doesn't equal goddamn July or later. This is raw. So I'm standing there in goddamn Blockbuster, watching the two of them. It's obvious they're a couple. I'm so angry I'm shaking. I step into the same row as them, and say, 'What the hell is going on?' They see me, and they apparently see something they don't like, because they put down their crap, back away, and head for the door. I follow them out (I probably shouldn't have), and as they're getting to my friend's car, I yell at them, 'Fck both of you traitors!' They drive off. And I didn't feel like going back into the Blockbuster after that, so I just left and walked around in the snow for a while and then came home. I haven't eaten anything. I can't sit still--studying's out. I feel like breaking something or punching the wall. There's no booze in the house. I don't know what the hell to do with myself. I'm sorry. __________________ Boo--the only dude bad enough to rescue the president Last edited by Booyakasha; 12-11-2007 at 10:25 PM.

12-11-2007, 10:27 PM	#3
Booyakasha Mod of War Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Wisconsinland Gender: Posts: 6,893 Thanks: 77 Thanked 370 Times in 235 Posts Points: 12,027.24 Bank: 26,696.25 Total Points: 38,723.49 Donate	Thanks, man. __________________ Boo--the only dude bad enough to rescue the president

12-11-2007, 10:35 PM	#8
Booyakasha Mod of War Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Wisconsinland Gender: Posts: 6,893 Thanks: 77 Thanked 370 Times in 235 Posts Points: 12,027.24 Bank: 26,696.25 Total Points: 38,723.49 Donate	Baby isn't mine. We never did anything that would get her pregnant. Baby's either my dirtbag friend's or someone else's. __________________ Boo--the only dude bad enough to rescue the president

12-11-2007, 11:37 PM	#12
Booyakasha Mod of War Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Wisconsinland Gender: Posts: 6,893 Thanks: 77 Thanked 370 Times in 235 Posts Points: 12,027.24 Bank: 26,696.25 Total Points: 38,723.49 Donate	Went out to shovel snow, and fielded a phone call from her just as I was coming back in. She was crying when I picked up, so I hung up on her. I know, it isn't nice, but that crying trick isn't fair play either. And even if she isn't just trying to jedi me, well, I could give a damn anyway. Thanks, everyone. I don't like to share out my troubles like this, but I didn't know what else to do--I mean, the streets were empty, the house was empty, and it's so quiet after a heavy snowfall. I felt all alone, like, and didn't know what else to do. __________________ Boo--the only dude bad enough to rescue the president

12-11-2007, 10:25 PM	#2
Wyborn Zelda Mod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: All over the place Gender: Posts: 12,326 Thanks: 86 Thanked 439 Times in 269 Posts Points: 17,284.94 Bank: 82,155.51 Total Points: 99,440.45 Donate	Hey, that ****ing sucks. I'm sorry to hear that, buddy. If you got a real-life friend you can call and talk to for a while, it'll help. I don't know what else to tell you. Can't imagine many worse things than that when it comes to reflecting on a relationship. But hey, at least it's not something that you yourself were roped into, right? Slightly better than you getting stuck with the little bastard (literally).

12-11-2007, 10:31 PM	#4
Wyborn Zelda Mod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: All over the place Gender: Posts: 12,326 Thanks: 86 Thanked 439 Times in 269 Posts Points: 17,284.94 Bank: 82,155.51 Total Points: 99,440.45 Donate	Yeah. You're gonna hear from a lot of people in this topic in the next hour or two, but it's pretty much guaranteed that nobody here is going to be able to empathize with the sheer weight of what you just experienced. That's seriously ****ed up. But it is over, right? Not something you still need to deal with. Coping with that betrayal is ongoing but for all intents and purposes the event is behind you; it'll take a while, but you'll feel better before too long.

12-11-2007, 10:31 PM	#5
Galefore Gunjinkeeper Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Tumbledown Cottage Gender: Posts: 5,749 Thanks: 675 Thanked 399 Times in 298 Posts Blog Entries: 2 Points: 776.25 Bank: 20,368.64 Total Points: 21,144.88 Donate	Backstabbing? As much as that sounds horrendous, I'd be worried whether or not that baby may have any connections to yourself. I doubt it, but just to clear up the story. Anyway, I'd say to try and forget it. Unless the baby is yours, you'll never have to see or worry about those two again. But then again, maybe that's what has you worried. My advice is pretty useless here, but I'd say you should either forget it as best you can or try to talk to them about it. Don't lose your cool, bro. Try to keep yourself under control and find a solution. But man, I feel for you. Hope everything gets worked out.

12-11-2007, 10:34 PM	#6
Dylan Banned Mod Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Teenage Wasteland Gender: Posts: 6,301 Thanks: 963 Thanked 954 Times in 441 Posts Points: 33,739.60 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 33,739.60 Donate	Ouch, man. Just ouch. I don't even really know how to throw out any advice on how to deal with them. Whatever you do, man, don't do anything to hurt you or them. The best thing you can do is just forget them. F**k them. You don't need them in your life. -Dylan

12-11-2007, 10:37 PM	#9
EmoCL Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: BADABBADCABABADKFAFEAWVEAOFA IMMA SCAT MAN Gender: Posts: 4,432 Thanks: 1,147 Thanked 380 Times in 320 Posts Points: 9,155.17 Bank: 776.98 Total Points: 9,932.15 Donate	That sucks. Nothing hurts more than betrayal... I know this, but not nearly as deeply as you. I'm so sorry this has happened to you... just try to move on and realize that not all us girls are ***ing whores; I know sometimes you lose faith in everything, but I assure you that it'll all work out. You get out of life what you put into it, I am a firm believer in this. And that means that, despite the hardships, you (being a kind and good person) will end up happy and successful... take my word for it; she didn't deserve you. I hope you can get over this soon; best to move on to better things than dwell on the past. I'm so sorry about this; hope things get better. hugz*

12-11-2007, 10:42 PM	#10
SilverWind Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Looking up at the stars... Posts: 8,225 Thanks: 2 Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts Points: 13,356.24 Bank: 500.00 Total Points: 13,856.24 Donate	Jesus, Boo. >_< That's terrible. I... don't know what to say. Seriously, you did no fault. Don't beat yourself over it. Go out and booze with your friends for a night (don't do it alone!), and try to get it off your mind. She wasn't worth it, and you shouldn't get hung up on it.

12-11-2007, 10:56 PM	#11
Brandon2390 Veteran Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Connecticut Posts: 10,402 Thanks: 6 Thanked 21 Times in 17 Posts Points: 40,056.87 Bank: 1,104.02 Total Points: 41,160.89 Donate	Good god, that's awful man. It's over now though, you were able to get over her before, and you can again, not that it's the same thing. Best to just try to forget about it I guess..best advice I can give.

12-11-2007, 11:43 PM	#13
Everybody Nose All the girls standing in the line for the bathroom Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Gender: Posts: 13,246 Thanks: 997 Thanked 679 Times in 393 Posts Points: 50,356.03 Bank: 648,018.89 Total Points: 698,374.92 Donate	You were in the right to hang up man. I've been through a similair situation, and it's no fun. My cousin used to have a punching bag for such events (takes away SO much stress), but whatever. There's really nothing that can be said other than the fact that she was a lying, cheating bitch (excuse my french for a sec). She didn't deserve you, you don't deserve her, wham, end of story.

12-11-2007, 11:50 PM	#14
Platinum Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Wv Gender: Posts: 1,369 Thanks: 48 Thanked 21 Times in 21 Posts Points: 2,579.24 Bank: 23,885.95 Total Points: 26,465.19 Donate	Wow! just wow! That is crazy, but some girls are like that... you didn't need her anyway, you don't want to be with something like that.

12-12-2007, 12:35 AM	#16
*ZeldaGirl* Venting SuperMod Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 12,042 Thanks: 512 Thanked 846 Times in 579 Posts Points: 28,480.24 Bank: 428,487.62 Total Points: 456,967.85 Donate	Sheesh, man, I am so sorry for you! That his horrible, and I don't blame you for feeling this way. But, to echo Wy, at least it's out of your hands - if she's going to be that kind of person, then you dodged a bullet. So, yeah, it hurts now, but in the long run, you been spared a whole hell of a lot of trouble. But still, because it sucks ANYWAY: * ZeldaGirl hugs Boo.

12-12-2007, 01:24 AM	#17
Pyropunk Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: a place that is a grove of cottages, MN Gender: Posts: 104 Thanks: 11 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Points: 2,881.70 Bank: 627.97 Total Points: 3,509.67 Donate	wtf is this the year of messed up relationships? dude i am SO sorry to hear this crap is going on!!! What a lame wench to do that, u don't need her at all if she's like that, you're better of WAY better off man. HUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSS

12-12-2007, 05:27 AM	#18
The Doctor Timelord. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In my Tardis Gender: Posts: 11,959 Thanks: 416 Thanked 359 Times in 248 Posts Blog Entries: 1 Points: 76,970.17 Bank: 1,571,810.07 Total Points: 1,648,780.24 Donate	Something is seriously wrong with people nowadays. Sorry to hear about it Boo. All I can offer is that you're better of without someone like her, and your Ex-friend too.

01-03-2008, 07:41 PM	#19
DELICIOUS POISON Retro Nintendo Supermod Art & Literature Mod Metroid Mod Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 16,234 Thanks: 519 Thanked 1,376 Times in 706 Posts Points: 6,624.64 Bank: 2,464,338.98 Total Points: 2,470,963.62 Donate	Well, it might sound insensitive, but I guess that was a real dead-end in life you're probably better off not having taken. Power to you. Let it be known that we mighty nerdz of the webz are behind you all the way, Boo, with out pointy mouse cursors clicking fervently and wildly enough to shake the very chairs we slouch upon.