I don't have any friends. - VGF

DarkZero · 05-08-2008, 05:46 AM

I don't go to school anymore, so I don't see many peers. I don't have anyone to actually talk to. Besides, all the friends I had in school don't associate with me anymore. Wesley was my best friend since 4th grade, but he hates me now because I'm asexual. No one would sit with me at lunch because they thought I was going to strangle them. Just because I'm non-social, everyone thinks I'm some sort of homocidal freak. *sigh*

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-08-2008, 09:12 AM

I'll be your friend. -CSM

Kevrosini · 05-08-2008, 09:28 AM

Hey cheer up mate, its not the end of the world just yet! I'm quite sure lots of people on this forum consider you a good friend, right? You remind me of my little brother! Who got so depressed with life he tragically committed suicide. You see he had no friends, and was bullied at school merely because he was different! He was dyslexic you see! Yet never would he tell me owt, always kept his feelings inside. Until that tragic day I found him dead... I miss my young brother so much, but I cannot bring him back... Everyday I visit his grave with a rose... I loved him dearly!!

ADVENTURE BUS · 05-08-2008, 10:12 AM

Anti-sexual?

You mean like, you don't want sex as in abstinence? Or you don't like it period?

SephirothKirby · 05-08-2008, 03:11 PM

Maybe I don't know what antisexual means, because I don't quite see how it fits in your situation.

X-3 · 05-08-2008, 04:43 PM

Call your friends. Arrange to meet/hang out with them or something. I don't think anyone hates you, so don't make yourself think anyone does.

MUSHMAN · 05-08-2008, 05:19 PM

Irby · 05-08-2008, 07:21 PM

Does Antisexual mean you don't have a sexuallity? Please elaborate.

speed is OVER 9000 · 05-08-2008, 09:48 PM

I'm going through the same kind of thing DZ (Only Minus the Antisexual

)
I no longer go to school but I stil manage to see my friends as for your friend ditching you I can kind of relate my best friend Ryan started blowing me off to hang out with the "Cool Kids". What I did was get my mom to enroll me in some IT clases and I made lots of friends there. you should take a class about something that interests you sure way to make friends.

Galefore · 05-08-2008, 10:03 PM

Eh. I sometimes fret about a lack of solid friends, but a lot of people are hypocritical anyway. You sort of start to see that nobody you meet is ever completely trustworthy and 'there for you'. I'm pretty antisocial myself, but only because I choose to concentrate on my own benefit and not theirs. If you feel blown off or alone, trust me, there's a kindred spirit somewhere to relate to.

Metal Man · 05-08-2008, 10:58 PM

Perhaps he means asexual, which means having no desires of that kind whatsoever.

That said, I went for years without friends--until I hit College. Now I have friends in low and high places, and they even got me nominated for an academic honors award! So... remember that friendlessness is never permanent. Even dead people have fans if their name is remembered much.

Irby · 05-09-2008, 03:08 PM

Who wouldn't want sex?

ADVENTURE BUS · 05-09-2008, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irby

Who wouldn't want sex?

.........I'm actually going to agree with Irby.

But your preferences are your preferences.

Irby · 05-09-2008, 03:41 PM

Yes. By the way DZ I'm not making fun of you or anything. Just so you know.

**March of the Covenant** · 05-09-2008, 10:33 PM

Heh, sometimes when I'm depressed, I have the same problem, Im anti-social, and don't want to talk to anyone, that's just something that happens. Kids just don't understand that.

Now, asexual though? The hell, man? Haha, I use that as a term of not being interested in anyone myself.

***Heroine of the Dragon*** · 05-10-2008, 02:20 AM

Well, DZ is 14... Not everyone at 14 feels the same things... it's all a matter of upbringing and beliefs and personal things, too.

What I'm saying is, it's PERFECTLY okay to be asexual, DZ!!!

And you have friends... we're here. But I understand that you want friends to be social with. Well, friendship is one of those complicated things where you actually have to put time and effort in and be a friend yourself, as well. But you already know this, I bet!!!

I suggest that you work out your favourite interests offline, that can be done in a group... for example, sport... you might not be the athletic type, so think of things like ten pin bowling or whatever else you actually think you'll enjoy... then join a club. And go participate with other people.

You'll find that you'll make friends easier with people who share similar interests.

And as corny as it sounds, practice smiling... especially if you don't already!!! It's a known fact that people are attracted to others that seem to be smiling, displaying they're happy with themselves, if nothing else.

And, Wesley will hopefully become more tolerant of others differences as he grows up...

*gives you marshmallows*

wariovswario · 05-10-2008, 11:24 AM

I find it wrong that you are now being home schooled after your parents find out you have aspergers. You need to overcome that and with home schooling it just makes it ten times worse.

DarkZero · 05-12-2008, 05:19 AM

That's not why I'm being home-schooled. And besides, that happened way before the Aspergers thing.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-12-2008, 10:59 AM

Why are you being homeschooled anyway (question mark)

Also, it's not like everyone who was homeschooled is antisocial. You can still go out and do fun things. -CSM

DarkZero · 05-12-2008, 03:10 PM

1. Beats me.
2. No. I live in the depths of nowhere. The nearest town is about 20 miles away.

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Kevrosini Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: In my Castle. Somewhere in england Gender: Posts: 650 Thanks: 18 Thanked 24 Times in 22 Posts Points: 3,177.39 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,177.39 Donate	Hey cheer up mate, its not the end of the world just yet! I'm quite sure lots of people on this forum consider you a good friend, right? You remind me of my little brother! Who got so depressed with life he tragically committed suicide. You see he had no friends, and was bullied at school merely because he was different! He was dyslexic you see! Yet never would he tell me owt, always kept his feelings inside. Until that tragic day I found him dead... I miss my young brother so much, but I cannot bring him back... Everyday I visit his grave with a rose... I loved him dearly!!

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X-3 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Brigade HQ Gender: Posts: 8,997 Thanks: 263 Thanked 273 Times in 202 Posts Blog Entries: 3 Points: 5,223.47 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 5,223.47 Donate	Call your friends. Arrange to meet/hang out with them or something. I don't think anyone hates you, so don't make yourself think anyone does.

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Irby Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Canada, Eh. Gender: Posts: 6,444 Thanks: 306 Thanked 93 Times in 78 Posts Blog Entries: 5 Points: 37,288.68 Bank: 13,387.34 Total Points: 50,676.02 Donate	Does Antisexual mean you don't have a sexuallity? Please elaborate.

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speed is OVER 9000 Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: The Distant Future, the year 2000, The Distant Future, The Distant Future... Gender: Posts: 1,279 Thanks: 335 Thanked 36 Times in 35 Posts Blog Entries: 1 Points: 12,849.86 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 12,849.86 Donate	I'm going through the same kind of thing DZ (Only Minus the Antisexual ) I no longer go to school but I stil manage to see my friends as for your friend ditching you I can kind of relate my best friend Ryan started blowing me off to hang out with the "Cool Kids". What I did was get my mom to enroll me in some IT clases and I made lots of friends there. you should take a class about something that interests you sure way to make friends.

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Galefore Gunjinkeeper Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Dry land. Gender: Posts: 5,526 Thanks: 601 Thanked 334 Times in 267 Posts Blog Entries: 2 Points: 3,524.66 Bank: 34,041.06 Total Points: 37,565.72 Donate	Eh. I sometimes fret about a lack of solid friends, but a lot of people are hypocritical anyway. You sort of start to see that nobody you meet is ever completely trustworthy and 'there for you'. I'm pretty antisocial myself, but only because I choose to concentrate on my own benefit and not theirs. If you feel blown off or alone, trust me, there's a kindred spirit somewhere to relate to.

05-08-2008, 10:58 PM	#11
Metal Man Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Gender: Posts: 6,700 Thanks: 74 Thanked 187 Times in 128 Posts Points: 7,819.06 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 7,819.06 Donate	Perhaps he means asexual, which means having no desires of that kind whatsoever. That said, I went for years without friends--until I hit College. Now I have friends in low and high places, and they even got me nominated for an academic honors award! So... remember that friendlessness is never permanent. Even dead people have fans if their name is remembered much.

05-09-2008, 03:08 PM	#12
Irby Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Canada, Eh. Gender: Posts: 6,444 Thanks: 306 Thanked 93 Times in 78 Posts Blog Entries: 5 Points: 37,288.68 Bank: 13,387.34 Total Points: 50,676.02 Donate	Who wouldn't want sex?

05-09-2008, 03:41 PM	#14
Irby Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Canada, Eh. Gender: Posts: 6,444 Thanks: 306 Thanked 93 Times in 78 Posts Blog Entries: 5 Points: 37,288.68 Bank: 13,387.34 Total Points: 50,676.02 Donate	Yes. By the way DZ I'm not making fun of you or anything. Just so you know.

05-09-2008, 10:33 PM	#15
March of the Covenant I VOTED Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: On a deserted island Gender: Posts: 10,524 Thanks: 747 Thanked 312 Times in 218 Posts Points: 11,926.69 Bank: 96,790.18 Total Points: 108,716.87 Donate	Heh, sometimes when I'm depressed, I have the same problem, Im anti-social, and don't want to talk to anyone, that's just something that happens. Kids just don't understand that. Now, asexual though? The hell, man? Haha, I use that as a term of not being interested in anyone myself.

05-10-2008, 02:20 AM	#16
*Heroine of the Dragon* The Grinnie Fool! ♥ VGFCodes Staff Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: In a pretty place surrounded by sparkly faerie dust!! Gender: Posts: 27,525 Thanks: 241 Thanked 254 Times in 188 Posts Blog Entries: 1 Points: 16,520.24 Bank: 1,869,175.36 Total Points: 1,885,695.59 Donate	Well, DZ is 14... Not everyone at 14 feels the same things... it's all a matter of upbringing and beliefs and personal things, too. What I'm saying is, it's PERFECTLY okay to be asexual, DZ!!! And you have friends... we're here. But I understand that you want friends to be social with. Well, friendship is one of those complicated things where you actually have to put time and effort in and be a friend yourself, as well. But you already know this, I bet!!! I suggest that you work out your favourite interests offline, that can be done in a group... for example, sport... you might not be the athletic type, so think of things like ten pin bowling or whatever else you actually think you'll enjoy... then join a club. And go participate with other people. You'll find that you'll make friends easier with people who share similar interests. And as corny as it sounds, practice smiling... especially if you don't already!!! It's a known fact that people are attracted to others that seem to be smiling, displaying they're happy with themselves, if nothing else. And, Wesley will hopefully become more tolerant of others differences as he grows up... gives you marshmallows

05-12-2008, 05:19 AM	#18
DarkZero Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: In the refrigerator, behind the mayonaise, next to the ketchup, and to the left of the coleslaw. Gender: Posts: 2,574 Thanks: 196 Thanked 94 Times in 72 Posts Points: 17,009.34 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 17,009.34 Donate	That's not why I'm being home-schooled. And besides, that happened way before the Aspergers thing.

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Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,975 Thanks: 537 Thanked 372 Times in 256 Posts Points: 126,040.18 Bank: 26,171.80 Total Points: 152,211.98 Donate	Why are you being homeschooled anyway (question mark) Also, it's not like everyone who was homeschooled is antisocial. You can still go out and do fun things. -CSM

05-12-2008, 03:10 PM	#20
DarkZero Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: In the refrigerator, behind the mayonaise, next to the ketchup, and to the left of the coleslaw. Gender: Posts: 2,574 Thanks: 196 Thanked 94 Times in 72 Posts Points: 17,009.34 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 17,009.34 Donate	1. Beats me. 2. No. I live in the depths of nowhere. The nearest town is about 20 miles away.