My girlfriends a sex addict - VGF

Kevrosini · 05-19-2008, 05:57 PM

Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive...

Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

LuWEEGEEman · 05-19-2008, 06:05 PM

thats a bad thing?

Smarmy Vent · 05-19-2008, 06:16 PM

^ You may as well be screaming "I'M A VIRGIN" right now.

If she's putting too much pressure on you, try talking it out with her. If she wants to hop in bed alllll the time, then make time so you can do other things. There's more to love than just sex. I dunno... tease her a little.

If you don't want to have sex, then just tell her no. Maybe, ask her why she's wanting it so much. Is this a sudden change, or something that's been going on for a while?

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-19-2008, 07:23 PM

I'm a man who nearly got raped once. So I can know how it feels. -CSM

Chunky Kong12345 · 05-19-2008, 07:32 PM

Not to be offensive or anything, but it's really hard to get raped by a woman. Was she just super strong and very forceful or what?

Smarmy Vent · 05-19-2008, 07:36 PM

^ "Rape" from woman-to-man is different than man-to-woman. Often times, when a man is "raped" it's usually more of a pressure thing than a physical attack.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-19-2008, 07:53 PM

Well, she was being violent. And I'm a softie. A huge softie. -CSM

ADVENTURE BUS · 05-19-2008, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevrosini

Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive...

Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

Okay, #1, calm down

#2- TMI around line 4

#3- People get like that after a while due to a lack of sex, or just a random craving. I'd ask her what's the deal with the extreme horny moods lately and talk about it. If you're tired, I'd just let her ride to save yourself energy.

**Booyakasha** · 05-19-2008, 08:21 PM

Pffffft.

GRENTLEMEN · 05-19-2008, 08:26 PM

Don't look a gift-horse in the vagina.

ADVENTURE BUS · 05-19-2008, 08:45 PM

Also, if you don't think about ejaculating, you won't.

At least, not too quickly.

Smarmy Vent · 05-19-2008, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Crank Dat Shakira

Also, if you don't think about ejaculating, you won't.

...Really?

That sounds like a potential lifesaver.

X-3 · 05-19-2008, 08:54 PM

I think you should confront her about this, I guess. There might be something behind this large amount of sex.

That's my advice, at least. I'm not very experienced with relationships(Thus, end result of my advice might end in heartbreak, tragedy and of course, drama), but it might be worth looking into. I guess.

ADVENTURE BUS · 05-19-2008, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Valigarmander

...Really?

That sounds like a potential lifesaver.

From what I've heard that kind of stuff is mostly mental (at least, premature is). It's worked for me in some cases, but not so much the next, mainly because telling yourself not to think about it while having sex makes you think about it.

***Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds*** · 05-19-2008, 10:13 PM

Talk to her about it, not us. Explain your needs and limits, listen to hers, etc etc etc.

Kevrosini · 05-19-2008, 10:34 PM

^ Ok, fair enough. Thanks all for the helpfull advice... Much appreciated!!!!

But personally I don't find it funny, but there yer go,eh. Sorry for wasting yer time, sorry for posting and sorry for joining. Bye!!!!

GRENTLEMEN · 05-19-2008, 11:16 PM

Overreaction is awesome.

Kevrosini · 05-20-2008, 03:02 AM

^ Yeah awesome. Overreacting totally reaks of serious AWESOMENESS!!!! So true, so, so TRUE...

wariovswario · 05-20-2008, 06:02 AM

I have to admit I get bored with having sex after a while as well. I'm always up for it, but it's mostly for her now.

DarkZero · 05-20-2008, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds

Talk to her about it, not us. Explain your needs and limits, listen to hers, etc etc etc.

I don't know if you resolved your issue or not, but I'm going to agree with this. If she's still pressuring you, just explain to her that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she really cares about you, she'll respect your feelings and try not to pressure you to do anything you don't feel like.

05-19-2008, 08:21 PM	#9
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05-19-2008, 08:45 PM	#11
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05-20-2008, 06:02 AM	#19
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05-19-2008, 05:57 PM	#1
Kevrosini Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: In my Castle. Somewhere in england Gender: Posts: 656 Thanks: 18 Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts Points: 3,248.91 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,248.91 Donate	My girlfriends a sex addict Oh god, someone help me. I can't take it, she's acting like all crazy... I think me girlfriend is turning into a 'sex addict' which is driving me nuts!!! Seriously, is this normal? do most women have an HIGH sex drive... Well, she's demanding sex five times a bloody day - I for one ain't up for that, that's for sure! I mean JESUS CHRIST, i'm knackered after three shags. Apparently, she thinks havin sex is the only way I express my love for her; which is BULL****, I think she's beautiful - inside and out... It's sooooo hard to make her understand that I love her, but this feisty attitude ain't helping. Please someone, share some good advise.... Cos as of right now i'm losing me cool!!!

05-19-2008, 06:05 PM	#2
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05-19-2008, 06:16 PM	#3
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05-19-2008, 07:23 PM	#4
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05-19-2008, 07:32 PM	#5
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05-19-2008, 07:36 PM	#6
Smarmy Vent The night is darkest just before the dawn. Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Gotham Gender: Posts: 12,626 Thanks: 726 Thanked 1,135 Times in 598 Posts Points: 213.29 Bank: 116,047.15 Total Points: 116,260.44 Donate	^ "Rape" from woman-to-man is different than man-to-woman. Often times, when a man is "raped" it's usually more of a pressure thing than a physical attack.

05-19-2008, 07:53 PM	#7
Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,980 Thanks: 538 Thanked 373 Times in 256 Posts Points: 126,566.11 Bank: 26,695.24 Total Points: 153,261.34 Donate	Well, she was being violent. And I'm a softie. A huge softie. -CSM

05-19-2008, 08:26 PM	#10
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05-19-2008, 08:54 PM	#13
X-3 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Brigade HQ Gender: Posts: 9,023 Thanks: 264 Thanked 277 Times in 206 Posts Blog Entries: 3 Points: 5,751.30 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 5,751.30 Donate	I think you should confront her about this, I guess. There might be something behind this large amount of sex. That's my advice, at least. I'm not very experienced with relationships(Thus, end result of my advice might end in heartbreak, tragedy and of course, drama), but it might be worth looking into. I guess.

05-19-2008, 10:13 PM	#15
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05-19-2008, 10:34 PM	#16
Kevrosini Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: In my Castle. Somewhere in england Gender: Posts: 656 Thanks: 18 Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts Points: 3,248.91 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,248.91 Donate	^ Ok, fair enough. Thanks all for the helpfull advice... Much appreciated!!!! But personally I don't find it funny, but there yer go,eh. Sorry for wasting yer time, sorry for posting and sorry for joining. Bye!!!!

05-19-2008, 11:16 PM	#17
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05-20-2008, 03:02 AM	#18
Kevrosini Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: In my Castle. Somewhere in england Gender: Posts: 656 Thanks: 18 Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts Points: 3,248.91 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,248.91 Donate	^ Yeah awesome. Overreacting totally reaks of serious AWESOMENESS!!!! So true, so, so TRUE...