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Serial Miller · 05-11-2008, 06:46 AM

The funny thing about being lonely is that there are so many lonely people out there. You're cool enough in my book, and I might not be a lady, but I'd chill with you any time if you were around.

...Bars are a great place to meet ~~significant-others~~alcoholics.

Tazy_10 · 05-11-2008, 09:53 AM

Looking for love in all the wrong places

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-11-2008, 10:42 AM

The irony is all my friends got their girlfriends this way. It makes me sick. -CSM

**Perrin Aybara** · 05-11-2008, 04:22 PM

In my experience, in your situation, or in any situation for that matter, there are two things you can do:

1) Do something about it to change your situation
2) Learn to accept your situation

If you don't like being lonely, do something. If that's not working, do something again. Or try something else.

It's your life.

-jay

Metal Man · 05-11-2008, 09:43 PM

Trips to places with strangers works real good.

'Course, I'm crazy like that, so I don't really apply...

***ZeldaGirl*** · 05-12-2008, 11:08 PM

I speak from experience when I say that being lonely sucks, but when you stop worry about being alone and just start going with the flow, you will find someone to make you not alone anymore - whether this person is a friend or significant other, you'll at least have someone.

And don't ever worry about feeling alone - I mean, you have us, right!?

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-12-2008, 11:59 PM

Trust me, Jay, I try :P

Thanks ZG. I'm happy to have you guys. Hey, how much longer till you're done with school (my question mark key broke a few weeks ago). -CSM

**Perrin Aybara** · 05-13-2008, 09:27 AM

My friendship costs 10 dollars a day.-jay

**L007 is Undecided** · 05-13-2008, 12:20 PM

YOU TOLD ME IT WAS $15, RESOP.

***ZeldaGirl*** · 05-13-2008, 02:30 PM

I don't have to pay because I'm marrying the dude.

Sen. Brak Obama (FACE) · 05-13-2008, 03:57 PM

I don't have to pay cause Jay can't make me.

Laika Come Home · 05-13-2008, 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Perrin Aybara

In my experience, in your situation, or in any situation for that matter, there are two things you can do:

1) Do something about it to change your situation
2) Learn to accept your situation

If you don't like being lonely, do something. If that's not working, do something again. Or try something else.

It's your life.

-jay

Deep, man. Deep.

Metal Man · 05-13-2008, 04:38 PM

I don't have to pay because Jay keeps giving me service for free!

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-14-2008, 12:47 AM

Okay, back to serious business again, once again I feel bad that I don't have a girl. I need a hug badly. -CSM

Kevrosini · 05-14-2008, 05:52 AM

Hmm, not sure I can give you a hug my friend, but, some good advice I shall offer! I suggest before you even start seeking a girlfriend you need to build up yer self confidence. For it's important to work on your "core" personality and pick up skills. The logic behind this is to be able to attract yer perfect woman, once you meet her, you'll understand my friend!!!

So, during the process of seeking your girl, you "should" work on displaying yer characteristics which SHE, will, find quite attractive.

I hope this helps, and I wish you happiness...

* gives a good luck rose*

**Perrin Aybara** · 05-14-2008, 10:15 AM

I'm sorry, but feeling bad for yourself isn't going to help you at all. See my previous post.

-jay

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-14-2008, 11:26 AM

Well, what else am I gonna do? -CSM

Serial Miller · 05-14-2008, 11:40 AM

I'd love to give you some specific advice, but I've always had an interested girl or a few around me ever since I turned 16.

It's not any easier for lack of having to try, though, relationships are something you have to dedicate yourself to. I think chivalry works very well, everyone likes being catered to and it shows women that you like being courteous and considerate - particularily to them.

Confidence is probably the most important part, but that's all part of your image. I don't consider myself extra confident or anything, but I don't consider anyone as any more than my equal. A great way to build confidence is to tweak your personal image. Some might consider it vanity, but I'd call it expression.

People are people in the end, though, and the hard part is seeking out the right way to find people with compatible interests. Things like school are great for this in some ways, simply because almost everyone is required to attend. If you're into something, though, try and find a club for it. Try out new activities, particularily those that will involve you in a group. It should give you something to talk about with whomever you meet.

**Crazyswordsman** · 05-14-2008, 12:20 PM

^Well, school's out forever. -CSM

***ZeldaGirl*** · 05-14-2008, 01:54 PM

First off, if you continually have an attitude of "woe is me", you're not going to have any luck, because it's a major turn off. You can never find someone else to love and respect you if you don't love and respect yourself first. Really, if you continue wallowing in self-pity, then you'll end up with nothing. We've all given you this advice before, and AI gave you some excellent advice just up there ^^. Now, stop making excuses; so what if school is out? If you really want someone so badly, stop fretting and worrying, and just go out there and try enjoying yourself; the rest will work itself out.

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05-11-2008, 06:46 AM	#21
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05-11-2008, 10:42 AM	#23
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05-11-2008, 04:22 PM	#24
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05-11-2008, 09:43 PM	#25
Metal Man Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Gender: Posts: 6,575 Thanks: 73 Thanked 181 Times in 121 Posts Points: 4,802.29 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,802.29 Donate	Trips to places with strangers works real good. 'Course, I'm crazy like that, so I don't really apply...

05-12-2008, 11:08 PM	#26
*ZeldaGirl* Venting SuperMod Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 11,368 Thanks: 482 Thanked 672 Times in 462 Posts Points: 8,576.51 Bank: 261,176.43 Total Points: 269,752.94 Donate	I speak from experience when I say that being lonely sucks, but when you stop worry about being alone and just start going with the flow, you will find someone to make you not alone anymore - whether this person is a friend or significant other, you'll at least have someone. And don't ever worry about feeling alone - I mean, you have us, right!?

05-12-2008, 11:59 PM	#27
Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,918 Thanks: 530 Thanked 358 Times in 246 Posts Points: 120,021.17 Bank: 22,337.38 Total Points: 142,358.55 Donate	Trust me, Jay, I try :P Thanks ZG. I'm happy to have you guys. Hey, how much longer till you're done with school (my question mark key broke a few weeks ago). -CSM

05-13-2008, 09:27 AM	#28
Perrin Aybara LLLUUUCCCCCCAAA!!! Ban HotD Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 11,761 Thanks: 169 Thanked 324 Times in 173 Posts Points: 59,524.62 Bank: 129,150.95 Total Points: 188,675.57 Donate	My friendship costs 10 dollars a day.-jay

05-13-2008, 02:30 PM	#30
*ZeldaGirl* Venting SuperMod Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 11,368 Thanks: 482 Thanked 672 Times in 462 Posts Points: 8,576.51 Bank: 261,176.43 Total Points: 269,752.94 Donate	I don't have to pay because I'm marrying the dude.

05-13-2008, 04:38 PM	#33
Metal Man Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Gender: Posts: 6,575 Thanks: 73 Thanked 181 Times in 121 Posts Points: 4,802.29 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,802.29 Donate	I don't have to pay because Jay keeps giving me service for free!

05-14-2008, 12:47 AM	#34
Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,918 Thanks: 530 Thanked 358 Times in 246 Posts Points: 120,021.17 Bank: 22,337.38 Total Points: 142,358.55 Donate	Okay, back to serious business again, once again I feel bad that I don't have a girl. I need a hug badly. -CSM

05-14-2008, 05:52 AM	#35
Kevrosini Junior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: In my Castle. Somewhere in england Gender: Posts: 414 Thanks: 15 Thanked 17 Times in 16 Posts Points: 4,169.23 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 4,169.23 Donate	Hmm, not sure I can give you a hug my friend, but, some good advice I shall offer! I suggest before you even start seeking a girlfriend you need to build up yer self confidence. For it's important to work on your "core" personality and pick up skills. The logic behind this is to be able to attract yer perfect woman, once you meet her, you'll understand my friend!!! So, during the process of seeking your girl, you "should" work on displaying yer characteristics which SHE, will, find quite attractive. I hope this helps, and I wish you happiness... * gives a good luck rose*

05-14-2008, 10:15 AM	#36
Perrin Aybara LLLUUUCCCCCCAAA!!! Ban HotD Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Alone....so terribly alone... Some... where... out... there... dies Gender: Posts: 11,761 Thanks: 169 Thanked 324 Times in 173 Posts Points: 59,524.62 Bank: 129,150.95 Total Points: 188,675.57 Donate	I'm sorry, but feeling bad for yourself isn't going to help you at all. See my previous post. -jay

05-14-2008, 11:26 AM	#37
Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,918 Thanks: 530 Thanked 358 Times in 246 Posts Points: 120,021.17 Bank: 22,337.38 Total Points: 142,358.55 Donate	Well, what else am I gonna do? -CSM

05-14-2008, 11:40 AM	#38
Serial Miller Retro Nintendo Supermod Art & Literature Mod Metroid Mod Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 15,679 Thanks: 416 Thanked 1,047 Times in 585 Posts Points: 14,328.59 Bank: 1,556,398.07 Total Points: 1,570,726.65 Donate	I'd love to give you some specific advice, but I've always had an interested girl or a few around me ever since I turned 16. It's not any easier for lack of having to try, though, relationships are something you have to dedicate yourself to. I think chivalry works very well, everyone likes being catered to and it shows women that you like being courteous and considerate - particularily to them. Confidence is probably the most important part, but that's all part of your image. I don't consider myself extra confident or anything, but I don't consider anyone as any more than my equal. A great way to build confidence is to tweak your personal image. Some might consider it vanity, but I'd call it expression. People are people in the end, though, and the hard part is seeking out the right way to find people with compatible interests. Things like school are great for this in some ways, simply because almost everyone is required to attend. If you're into something, though, try and find a club for it. Try out new activities, particularily those that will involve you in a group. It should give you something to talk about with whomever you meet.

05-14-2008, 12:20 PM	#39
Crazyswordsman RPG Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Booyaville (yeah!) Gender: Posts: 7,918 Thanks: 530 Thanked 358 Times in 246 Posts Points: 120,021.17 Bank: 22,337.38 Total Points: 142,358.55 Donate	^Well, school's out forever. -CSM

05-14-2008, 01:54 PM	#40
*ZeldaGirl* Venting SuperMod Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Why do YOU want to know...? Gender: Posts: 11,368 Thanks: 482 Thanked 672 Times in 462 Posts Points: 8,576.51 Bank: 261,176.43 Total Points: 269,752.94 Donate	First off, if you continually have an attitude of "woe is me", you're not going to have any luck, because it's a major turn off. You can never find someone else to love and respect you if you don't love and respect yourself first. Really, if you continue wallowing in self-pity, then you'll end up with nothing. We've all given you this advice before, and AI gave you some excellent advice just up there ^^. Now, stop making excuses; so what if school is out? If you really want someone so badly, stop fretting and worrying, and just go out there and try enjoying yourself; the rest will work itself out.