Vickie nooooooooooooooooo D}:

CuccoLady · 10-07-2009, 12:18 AM

OK so the last middle school I went to (I went to a LOOT of middle schools) was a really small one where the atmosphere kind of supported being weird/nerdy. In fact, the 'cool kids' in the school were this group of girls that were notorious for being really really weird. I was known for about two years at that school for my flatulence, and the thing was no one made fun of me for it, at least not in a derogatory way (there was just the lighthearted joking). Because of this atmosphere, I was able to openly flaunt my nerdiness and oddities, and made friends based off of who I really was.

So, my groupie was formed in about 5th grade. Me and like four or so other people who were all weird, crazy, fun-loving, nerdy, and PROUD of this. We weren't afraid to be outgoing so we really were able to bond because we showed openly who we really were. So, from this middle school almost all of us went to the same high school (that we go to now), and because we were so close in middle school with such legitimate friendships we remain really really close in high school, although our group's members have changed somewhat.

Anyway, one of the members of our little geek clique who has been with us since the beginning is moving to Mexico tomorrow because of a family emergency. She just told us this last Friday. Not even one week to say good-bye to someone who has been a very, very close friend for about six years. There are really only four of us who have stayed together in this group the whole time, and now one of these people is leaving and will have very little opportunity to visit. It's just so SAD because she was so awesome. She was a member of my topmost category of friend: the kind that you can go a day pretending to be lesbian lovers with and not feel the slightest bit awkward when people ask if you're dating, and you both say 'yes' with a straight face and giggle madly later. I've known her for so long, she's such an awesome person, we've so many inside jokes that we've shared, and now she's off to a country and it'll be a very long time before I'll get a chance to see her again.

I r has a sad face. D}:::::

**Valigarmander** · 10-07-2009, 12:35 AM

That really sucks, and it's probably going to be hard to deal with at first. But at least you'll still be able to see her again sometime in the future.

You and her will keep in touch online/on the phone/through the mail (lol as if), right? That may not be quite the same as having her right there with you, but it's great to be able to stay in touch with a far away friend that way. As long as you can keep talking to her, your friendship will stay as strong as it's ever been.

CuccoLady · 10-07-2009, 12:48 AM

Yeah, we all are forcing her to make a facebook account and add us all as soon as she gets the opportunity, and what with all the technology and stuff today we will keep in touch. It's gonna suck without her here though.

***Cosmonautical*** · 10-07-2009, 06:32 AM

Damn, I'm really sorry to hear that. Both that she's leaving you, and that she's moving to ****ing Mexico. I mean, the place isn't Africa bad, but it's no good.

***Ace Mercury*** · 10-07-2009, 08:23 AM

I'm sure as the strong, somewhat intimidating women you are, you have the strength to weather this.

Vgfian · 10-07-2009, 12:18 PM

Sorry to hear that. It'll be hard, but I'm sure you can get through it. I'm sure you'll be fine.
Also, thank God for the interwebz and Facebook.

CuccoLady · 10-08-2009, 12:41 AM

Facebook ftw. x{D

Yeah, her grandparents live in Mexico and I guess they're really sick and so she and her family have to move there to take care of them and will probably stay there. Vickie's gonna try to get a scholarship to go to college here, which is good, but that's two years from now. D}:

10-07-2009, 12:18 AM	#1
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	Vickie nooooooooooooooooo D}: OK so the last middle school I went to (I went to a LOOT of middle schools) was a really small one where the atmosphere kind of supported being weird/nerdy. In fact, the 'cool kids' in the school were this group of girls that were notorious for being really really weird. I was known for about two years at that school for my flatulence, and the thing was no one made fun of me for it, at least not in a derogatory way (there was just the lighthearted joking). Because of this atmosphere, I was able to openly flaunt my nerdiness and oddities, and made friends based off of who I really was. So, my groupie was formed in about 5th grade. Me and like four or so other people who were all weird, crazy, fun-loving, nerdy, and PROUD of this. We weren't afraid to be outgoing so we really were able to bond because we showed openly who we really were. So, from this middle school almost all of us went to the same high school (that we go to now), and because we were so close in middle school with such legitimate friendships we remain really really close in high school, although our group's members have changed somewhat. Anyway, one of the members of our little geek clique who has been with us since the beginning is moving to Mexico tomorrow because of a family emergency. She just told us this last Friday. Not even one week to say good-bye to someone who has been a very, very close friend for about six years. There are really only four of us who have stayed together in this group the whole time, and now one of these people is leaving and will have very little opportunity to visit. It's just so SAD because she was so awesome. She was a member of my topmost category of friend: the kind that you can go a day pretending to be lesbian lovers with and not feel the slightest bit awkward when people ask if you're dating, and you both say 'yes' with a straight face and giggle madly later. I've known her for so long, she's such an awesome person, we've so many inside jokes that we've shared, and now she's off to a country and it'll be a very long time before I'll get a chance to see her again. I r has a sad face. D}:::::

10-07-2009, 12:35 AM	#2
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,701 Times in 2,581 Posts Blog Entries: 20	That really sucks, and it's probably going to be hard to deal with at first. But at least you'll still be able to see her again sometime in the future. You and her will keep in touch online/on the phone/through the mail (lol as if), right? That may not be quite the same as having her right there with you, but it's great to be able to stay in touch with a far away friend that way. As long as you can keep talking to her, your friendship will stay as strong as it's ever been.

10-07-2009, 12:48 AM	#3
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	Yeah, we all are forcing her to make a facebook account and add us all as soon as she gets the opportunity, and what with all the technology and stuff today we will keep in touch. It's gonna suck without her here though.

10-07-2009, 06:32 AM	#4
*Cosmonautical* Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: I rub my tilde all over your asterisk Gender: Posts: 28,102 Thanks: 2,157 Thanked 5,338 Times in 2,433 Posts	Damn, I'm really sorry to hear that. Both that she's leaving you, and that she's moving to ****ing Mexico. I mean, the place isn't Africa bad, but it's no good.

10-07-2009, 08:23 AM	#5
*Ace Mercury* Marshmallow Knight ☆ Supermod Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Southern Ontario Gender: Posts: 23,275 Thanks: 568 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,582 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I'm sure as the strong, somewhat intimidating women you are, you have the strength to weather this.

10-07-2009, 12:18 PM	#6
Vgfian Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Listening to Seeking 7 Seven and giving out free hugs. :) Gender: Posts: 6,862 Thanks: 2,433 Thanked 398 Times in 311 Posts	Sorry to hear that. It'll be hard, but I'm sure you can get through it. I'm sure you'll be fine. Also, thank God for the interwebz and Facebook.

10-08-2009, 12:41 AM	#7
CuccoLady Anime and Cartoons Mod Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: THIS LOCATION REMINDS ME OF A PUZZLE, LUKE Gender: Posts: 9,077 Thanks: 2,825 Thanked 1,222 Times in 822 Posts	Facebook ftw. x{D Yeah, her grandparents live in Mexico and I guess they're really sick and so she and her family have to move there to take care of them and will probably stay there. Vickie's gonna try to get a scholarship to go to college here, which is good, but that's two years from now. D}: