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Old 09-27-2010, 06:22 PM   #1
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Apparently I'm attractive now and can't have friends?

My boyfriend is convinced that every other guy I talk to wants to get into my pants and threatens them.

A friend of mine is legitimately terrified to talk to me because he thinks he'll get beat up.

This makes me sad... I liked it better when everyone thought I was ugly and I could have guy friends.
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Old 09-27-2010, 06:23 PM   #2
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It sounds like he's a bit out of line here. Have you talked to him about this yet?
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Old 09-27-2010, 06:29 PM   #3
 
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Ditto what val said. If you or your friends feel uncomfortable talking to each other because of your boyfriend, talk to him and tell him that's not okay.
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I wonder if that's why you haven't returned my PMs, hm...

Go make friends with a tough but cool guy in your area and let him.. convince bf.
I'm a part of the national cool but tough guy's society, we can take care of it. B)

Seriously though...

I'd say talking to him about it. :/

I really can't say much else from what I've told you. Sorry...
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Old 09-28-2010, 12:31 AM   #5
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Knock him in the jaw.
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Old 09-28-2010, 01:02 AM   #6
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tell him to step off, serioustalk
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My boyfriend is convinced that every other guy I talk to wants to get into my pants and threatens them.

A friend of mine is legitimately terrified to talk to me because he thinks he'll get beat up.

This makes me sad... I liked it better when everyone thought I was ugly and I could have guy friends.
slap him one, who's he to control your life?
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Old 09-28-2010, 04:02 PM   #8
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A word of warning: Controlling behavior such as this is one of the first warning signs to watch for on the road to an abusive relationship, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally. If he has this paranoia of others, it is only a matter of time before that paranoia turns on you. If a good talk does not solve this problem immediately, I would strongly advise you to consider rethinking your relationship choices, as well as watching for other signs of potentially abusive boyfriends:

Insults or Excessive Teasing (He calls you names frequently, even though he says he is 'just kidding')
Mood Swings
Curiosity (He always wants to know who you are on the phone with, where you willl be at all times, etc.)
Past Relationships (Has he ever had a GF before? Why did they break up?)


Be careful.
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