Two of my friends were dating. They no longer are.

Sonic 5 · 11-01-2010, 09:12 PM

I remarked to my boyfriend about this, "I'm glad I'm just a periphery friend to both of them, so hopefully I won't get caught in the crossfire."

This launched an hour long session of my boyfriend accusing me of liking the male friend and vice-versa, calling me unfaithful, etc.

I don't know why I even talk to him at this point.

**Valigarmander** · 11-01-2010, 09:32 PM

I don't know anything about your relationship besides what you've posted about it on VGF, but this guy sounds incredibly possessive, and I think you can do better than him.

**X-3** · 11-02-2010, 07:29 AM

Why do you, then?

***The Doctor*** · 11-02-2010, 07:58 AM

I can only echo what has already been said on this topic and the other one.

You need to get rid of him. He's too possessive. And now he's trying to pin an unfaithful idea on you...well, In my opinion, people that accuse other people of being unfaithful have usually been unfaithful themselves.

Get rid of him. If he pesters(including threating you, or hurting himself) you, tell someone older (and I mean adults not someone a year or so older) and get it sorted out. You don't want him dragging you down.

Robotazy · 11-02-2010, 09:02 AM

Wow.

He's an idiot.

I mean, sorry for saying that about your boyfriend and all, but wow, he's rather quick to jump to the widest of conclusions. It's like that's all that is on his mind.

Maybe that's how he likes it. >_>

**S1x** · 11-02-2010, 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by S1x of Spades

Without trust it will not end well.

I hope I won't need to post this a third time.

Sonic 5 · 11-02-2010, 05:43 PM

On a more positive note, my two friends got back together, so all is good in the land.

Well, maybe not in my castle, but that's a different story.

Vgfian · 11-02-2010, 06:12 PM

Well at least they're back together.

Anything else I could say on your situation would probably be redundant, I'm afraid... :/

I'm sorry... : (

11-01-2010, 09:12 PM	#1
Sonic 5 Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Bamamama Gender: Posts: 2,159 Thanks: 13 Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts	Two of my friends were dating. They no longer are. I remarked to my boyfriend about this, "I'm glad I'm just a periphery friend to both of them, so hopefully I won't get caught in the crossfire." This launched an hour long session of my boyfriend accusing me of liking the male friend and vice-versa, calling me unfaithful, etc. I don't know why I even talk to him at this point.

11-02-2010, 06:12 PM	#8
Vgfian Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Listening to Seeking 7 Seven and giving out free hugs. :) Gender: Posts: 6,862 Thanks: 2,433 Thanked 398 Times in 311 Posts	Well at least they're back together. Anything else I could say on your situation would probably be redundant, I'm afraid... :/ I'm sorry... : ( Last edited by Vgfian; 11-05-2010 at 02:31 AM.

11-01-2010, 09:32 PM	#2
Valigarmander The Bee's Knees Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: The land of rain and trees (Oregon) Gender: Posts: 29,755 Thanks: 1,649 Thanked 5,701 Times in 2,581 Posts Blog Entries: 20	I don't know anything about your relationship besides what you've posted about it on VGF, but this guy sounds incredibly possessive, and I think you can do better than him.

11-02-2010, 07:29 AM	#3
X-3 Useful as an Owl Join Date: Jan 2004 Gender: Posts: 15,947 Thanks: 753 Thanked 1,213 Times in 790 Posts Blog Entries: 10	Why do you, then?

11-02-2010, 07:58 AM	#4
*The Doctor* The Last Timelord. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In the TARDIS Gender: Posts: 13,880 Thanks: 915 Thanked 656 Times in 426 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I can only echo what has already been said on this topic and the other one. You need to get rid of him. He's too possessive. And now he's trying to pin an unfaithful idea on you...well, In my opinion, people that accuse other people of being unfaithful have usually been unfaithful themselves. Get rid of him. If he pesters(including threating you, or hurting himself) you, tell someone older (and I mean adults not someone a year or so older) and get it sorted out. You don't want him dragging you down.

11-02-2010, 09:02 AM	#5
Robotazy PRESS ANY KEY TO PANIC! Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: A Tiny Shed Gender: Posts: 16,483 Thanks: 529 Thanked 1,254 Times in 897 Posts Blog Entries: 46	Wow. He's an idiot. I mean, sorry for saying that about your boyfriend and all, but wow, he's rather quick to jump to the widest of conclusions. It's like that's all that is on his mind. Maybe that's how he likes it. >_>

11-02-2010, 05:43 PM	#7
Sonic 5 Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Bamamama Gender: Posts: 2,159 Thanks: 13 Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts	On a more positive note, my two friends got back together, so all is good in the land. Well, maybe not in my castle, but that's a different story.